Sreena's Reviews > Cheap Sex: The Transformation of Men, Marriage, and Monogamy

“I suspect for the next decade or so we will be riding a wave, seeking more stimulation in less time, quick transitory couplings, and the next big thing to make sex more exciting. The good news is that sex will be safer and more exploratory than ever, given the virtual capabilities. The bad news is that we will likely see an uptick in sexual addiction and a decrease in emotional connection with partners. People struggle with the existential depression and loneliness that comes from a lack of rich, authentic connections”

My key takeaway from Cheap Sex is perfectly encapsulated in the above quote: the future of sex is a trade-off. We gain vast virtual capabilities and stimulation, but we risk losing authentic connection, leading to increased addiction and existential loneliness.

As we ride this wave, it's clear that emotions will be relegated to a back seat in our relationships., a chilling prospect, given that our complex emotional landscape is often cited as the defining trait that separates us from other animals.