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Long response to this screenshot below. You may have to click "read more"
Just typed a long ass response out to this post as a reblog, only for it to not go through, presumably because OP has me blocked. Gonna redo it since this needs addressing.
I saw this in the reblogs of the other account in the screenshot on my for you tab, and consider myself lucky to have seen it, or else I would've had no idea this post existed. I only have this account, so I can't do anything to check for other posts about me. If there's more I need to address, please let me know.
I do not believe this is a fair or accurate take on the situation. I have no idea who the other people ethrealprincess mentions in her post are, so I'll be focusing on things between me and her in this post.
While it is true that I briefly had ethrealprincess blocked on my last account, it is nothing to do with her unfollowing or not replying to me. Nor have I ever ranted about her on my page. I have had a couple of crash outs on here, but neither was about her. I have never made any post on any account aimed at or because of ethrealprincess.
I briefly blocked ethrealprincess because my mental health was deteriorating and I was suffering from intruisve thought spirals, a mental problem I suffer not infrequently as a symptom of my OCD. The intrusive thoughts at the time were centred on her, so I blocked her for my own wellbeing. After the spirals passed, and I felt stable, I unblocked her and sent her an ask about my spiral with an apology for blocking her. She answered the ask publicly, so with any luck someone will remember and be able to back up that this happened. I'm sorry that my apology was "shitty," but if she really felt that it wasn't good enough, she shouldn't have accepted to apology like she did, and could've talked to me about it at any time. I'm also sorry that I made her feel unsettled, it is never my intention to cause hurt.
I resent being called manipulative for taking what I deemed the necessary steps for my own mental health and wellbeing. Having a crash out is not manipulative, and nor is apologising for blocking someone. I have only ever acted in good faith. I try and be a good guy not as an act, but because we should all be trying to be good people. It takes more effort for some than others, but it is never my intention to cause hurt or to manipulate.
Ultimately, anyone can block or unfollow anyone else for any reason, including no reason at all. If I had a crash out anytime someone blocked/unfollowed me, this blog would be nothing but crash outs.
If you want to unfollow or block me because of what ethrealprincess is saying about me, that's your right too. All our interactions were on my previous blog, so I don't have any screenshots to share to back up anything I've said, and I understand that there's a lot of shitty people on Tumblr, and that makes it so much easier to believe a story like OPs in circumstances like these.
Please remember though that every post like this is one sided, including this one. I know what I was thinking and feeling when I blocked ethrealprincess, she can only assume. Equally, ethrealprincess knows what she was thinking and feeling when she answered that ask, and I can only assume.
Once again, I did not block ethrealprincess for the reasons she has stated, and nor did I ever post about her on any of my blogs. I'm sorry my actions have caused hurt, because I do not mean to cause hurt to anyone on Tumblr. I am not trying to behave inappropriately or manipulatively.
I'm not sure what else to say at this point. Please let me know if there's anything else I need to address.
A moot just sent me this screenshot too.
I have never hounded anyone on an alternative account. That is a flat out lie. This account is my only account, nsfw or otherwise. The only times I have a second account is when I have a backup, which will always be clearly tagged in my pinned post.
The only time I have ever interacted with someone who had blocked me from my backup was to send them a single ask to make them aware of my backup so they could block that too, and I have since been told that this is something I probably should not have done, and would not do again. Even then, it's a far cry from "hounding someone with messages on other blogs."
As for this one - comparing me to a pedophile and to a serial lovebomber & racist is completely uncalled for. Race play is in my hard limits on my pinned post (temporarily removed, but viewable under the tag #pinned intro)
I also do not follow D, and I'm not ginger lmfao. Just an inaccurate post all around.


