people will make jokes all the time about how middle school bullies can somehow zero in on your insecurities and accurately pick them out (ie the “how do mean 14 year olds know which slurs to call you?” tweet). fucking john mulaney even has a bit about it. but the moment you suggest that closeted trans girls don’t get treated like cis boys during childhood or that closeted trans boys don’t experience cis “girlhood” you get told you’re insane
i was placed firmly in the “other” category at a very young age and my female peers made it extremely clear to me that they absolutely didn’t see me as one of them. my attempts to conform only resulted in them punishing me more severely. i wasn’t seen as a girl or a boy by the other children, i was seen as Wrong.
most trans people of all genders I’ve known have talked about experiencing a very similar phenomenon
Adults (parents in particular) do this to trans kids too. And then when you come out all these transphobes who already diagnosed you as Gender Wrong start trying to shove you back into your AGAB piñata because they want to keep beating the weirdo outcasts who failed gender at age 10 with sticks forever rather than reckon with the idea that maybe treating gender diverse children like shit is bad.
They’ll talk about how much better they thought you were as a boy, how much they miss their daughter. They’re lying.
Ragebaiting my fat dog? More like master baiting my fat hog!!!!!!!!
❗️Great Hog is displeased by this.
The kingly pig looks taken aback by this statement. “You claim to be ‘baiting’ our kind?.. A master of it, no less - after all the trust we hsve placed in you?”
- Your relationship with the Hog Society 🐖 is now Unfavourable.
Sexting is just inherently cringe like there’s no way for it to sound serious and NOT cringe and if you’re going to do it you just have to let horny delirium take over and momentarily kill the part of your brain that cares about not being embarrassing
that’s so true bunny knows something about how cringe I can be @totally-bunny
yeah but bunny likes cringe and puppy cringe is cute n makes me happy :)