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Coming Out
7 years ago
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So after the events of last week, I realized that I need to start being myself. The false masculine persona I put on in public does more harm than good. So I finally started wearing women's clothing in public. My mom (who is extremely awesome btw) took me out shopping, and I have something of a starter wardrobe. :3 Only going to need some more jeans and panties. It feels so great to finally be *myself* all the time.
Of course... with all of that said, the feelings of loneliness and a need for companionship remain. I have gone and made several new friends the last week, and they are wonderful. Most of then are taken, but I knew that already. (Decided to finally make contact with several people I've wanted to be friends with, but was too shy to talk to.) Also trying to re-establish contact with friends I lost touch with.
Anyway, point is, I'm officially out. I am only going by female pronouns IRL, and will be starting on my legal name change as soon as I figure out these forms. I also will have an updated ref sheet from
halcy0n soon, too.
Of course... with all of that said, the feelings of loneliness and a need for companionship remain. I have gone and made several new friends the last week, and they are wonderful. Most of then are taken, but I knew that already. (Decided to finally make contact with several people I've wanted to be friends with, but was too shy to talk to.) Also trying to re-establish contact with friends I lost touch with.
Anyway, point is, I'm officially out. I am only going by female pronouns IRL, and will be starting on my legal name change as soon as I figure out these forms. I also will have an updated ref sheet from
halcy0n soon, too.
Congrats hon *Hugs* Were all here for you
Starcaller Moonshadow
~takarakitsune
OP
Thank you, Jade. It means a lot to hear from you. *hug*
https://discord.gg/JN3HVuM We have a gender dysphoria helpline room, even if your not a fan of transformation we are willing to listen ^.-.^
Starcaller Moonshadow
~takarakitsune
OP
Thank you. I'm into TF of course. I'll check it out later. Even having been on hormones a while, dysphoria still hits, and hard at times.
*Hugs again*
Calientra
~calientra
Congrats and good luck hon!
Starcaller Moonshadow
~takarakitsune
OP
Thank you! I already feel lucky to have so much support, too. <3
VikkyMouse
~vikkymouse
Congratulations! I know from experience just how big a step that is, and you're awesome for making it.
Starcaller Moonshadow
~takarakitsune
OP
Thank you~! I actually didn't know of your experience. ^^; But thank you so much, it's really made a difference in how I feel. <3
VikkyMouse
~vikkymouse
I don't really talk much about it, but I'm glad it could help you :) <hugs>
Farniro
~farniro
Glad you are feeling happy and comfortable with yourself :3
Starcaller Moonshadow
~takarakitsune
OP
Me too, I've gone on too long without feeling comfortable with myself... as for happiness, I'm pretty sure I've smiled more in the last few days than I have in the entire year. It's great. :3
TehSuki
~sabithasuki
Magnificent. To have such courage to do this means all the world. I hope to support you further no mater what the future holds for you.
Starcaller Moonshadow
~takarakitsune
OP
Thank you. <3 It is more than just courage, I have a lot of people behind me in this. I don't know if I could do this alone. But it was necessary to do this in order for me to live my life.
