feat(k8s-dashboard): bump k8s dashboard api and refetch resource list without cache on resource change

[floreks]

There are a couple of important changes here to allow proper dynamic header handling on refetch:

• bump k8s dashboard API chart version to 7.13.0
• updated all resource lists to pass query document instead of query hook
• use lazy query instead of query in resource list
• manually handle resource list polling since regular refetch with extra context data permanently overrides it causing all subsequent requests to contain extra data
• expose lazy query as refetch to allow providing context with custom headers since regular refetch function only allow passing extra variables

This was the only way to ensure that only a single refetch request contains the Cache-Control: 'no-cache' header and regular polling requests do not, while avoiding double requests at the same time.

Test Plan

Locally

Checklist

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[linear]

PROD-3632 add refetches for k8s actions in dashbaord