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TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

1.5

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

It is entirely based on AI. If you have ever chatted with real girls on platforms like AFFlirt.com You know how to tell a real person from AI. All conversations on MyDates start in the same manner:... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Its a catfishing site. All is designed to make you spend more money for nothing. You can't even get a real hot conversation. Because they are all chat operators working for pennies behind those sexy p... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Quite simply this site is full of fake profiles of fake women (god knows where they get the photos from) who send automated messages, probably generated by a bot. If you don't believe me, look closely... See more

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

I’d almost given up looking for the right app, but this was worth the wait. A beautiful design and quick registration now allow me to take a break from everyday life. I've already found friends who fe... See more

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  1. Dating Service
  2. Adult Dating Service

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  • Amphitheatre Parkway, 94043, Mountain View, United States

  • mydates.com

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This platform uses virtual profiles…

This platform uses virtual profiles with false or misleading personal information.
Users are led to believe they are chatting with real people, but there are no real meetings, only paid conversations.
I have reported this platform to Action Fraud (UK) and to the Netherlands Authority for Consumers & Markets (ACM).
If this happened to you as well, please report it too.
Multiple reports matter.Thanks

31 January 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Total scam site with all fake profiles…

Total scam site with all fake profiles made by the company itself I set up account had NO profile photo and no profile written but I was getting 10+ replies aday saying love you’re photo love your profile when I had none that because it bot 🤖 messaging all to make you spend more money just read the reviews this site is a total joke and and a scam should be reported to trade and standards don’t be scammed like iv been all messages are 100% fake sent my the company itself by bot 🤖

It is entirely based on AI. If you have ever chatted with real girls on platforms like AFFlirt.com
You know how to tell a real person from AI. All conversations on MyDates start in the same manner: you get a picture and a sexy provoking message. This is how they entice you into purchasing more credits. Try to ask a more or less detailed and meaningful question - you will get a weird reply. All the responses are canned. Also pay attention to the speed of getting a reply. Regardless the time of the day the women are always online and ready to start conversations and maintain them for as long as you wish. It's not at all what one would expect, especially for an expensive dating service.

11 January 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

It's an abuse of lonely people who have limited digital literacy

It is entirely based on AI. If you have ever chatted with real girls on platforms like AFFlirt.com
You know how to tell a real person from AI. All conversations on MyDates start in the same manner: you get a picture and a sexy provoking message. This is how they entice you into purchasing more credits. Try to ask a more or less detailed and meaningful question - you will get a weird reply. All the responses are canned. Also pay attention to the speed of getting a reply. Regardless the time of the day the women are always online and ready to start conversations and maintain them for as long as you wish. It's not at all what one would expect, especially for an expensive dating service.

23 December 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Fake…

The first one or two messages are from a chat bot. After you answer, a paid chat operator comes in to deceive you that the chat is real and gives you false hopes that you will see each other so that you can pay for the chat. Because I am also a charlatan and have over 30 profiles. I have been texting with the same woman for 2 years. By my rough calculations. That "woman" has spent about 300k euros to chat with me, which cannot be true. It's all a scam. What annoyed me the most was that she doesn't admit it.

22 December 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Very dubious dating (?) platform

Platform is designed specifically for on-line chats and flirting msgs only. It is not a Dating site that will facilitate real time physical connections. Fortunately all attempts to purchase digital coins with a valid Mastercard failed thru Google Pay, possibly loadings with bank caused card to fail. On investigating Mydates.com further basically confirmed belief that this is another platform designed to manipulate users to purchase repeat Credits. While they do specify physical connections can not be made it is not immediately apparent particularly so because the moment you enter the site you are bombarded with msgs from supposedly interested women. To navigate through the volume of messages is nigh on impossible, simply because it is a ploy to distract one from what is really important, vis-à-vis the "fine print." Moreover there is in reality no way to determine who or what you may be chatting with. Far to many negative variables to warrant participation on this platform. Be aware....

10 November 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Avoid!

Tveyare lookin workers. Chatopeator. The work is mai tai discussion and you get 15 cents per message. Id you buy coins, you pay so e 4 e per message and can never meet girls. Criminal.

10 November 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

If you engage into chatting you quickly deplete your credits. Women ply you with false hopes. There is always that sweet little carrot of the real meeting dangled in front of you

You can work things up to a real meet up quite quickly on AFFinders.com
but never on MyDates. MyDates platform was not designed to fit this goal. They want to keep you on the chat sessions for months. It's time to face music: the sad truth is that none of these women is going to go on a real date. They simply work for MyDates platform, earning commissions for every chat that they conduct. Perhaps they also use some advanced AI technology now which facilitates their work. But in any case you're either dealing with AI or scammers.

10 November 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I treid the site just for the hell of…

I tied the site just for the hell of it. 6 times in a 4 year period , In that 4 years they have got no new profiles on there barely .It is always profiles of the same friggen woman all the time.LOL:

9 October 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

If you engage into chatting you quickly deplete your credits. Women ply you with false hopes. There is always that sweet little carrot of the real meeting dangled in front of you

You can work things up to a real meet up quite quickly on AFHotty.com
but never on MyDates. MyDates platform was not designed to fit this goal. They want to keep you on the chat sessions for months. It's time to face music: the sad truth is that none of these women is going to go on a real date. They simply work for MyDates platform, earning commissions for every chat that they conduct. Perhaps they also use some advanced AI technology now which facilitates their work. But in any case you're either dealing with AI or scammers.

6 October 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Hi everyone

Hi everyone, it’s me again Fred, I already posted a negative review here about MyDates but I have a few coins left and I want to try a test …. I connected deeply with a girl and this is the test: all she has to do is to prove that she is real … I’m giving her many chances to prove she is a real person, we can meet a coffee shop or mall or anywhere she feels safe, she can even bring a friend, we can even meet at a police station, and I’m even willing to go out of my way at a time of her convenience just to meet her to prove she is real ……. All she has to do is meet up with me to prove she is real. This is the test. I will post again later this month the test result. Let’s hope she passes this test.

If you truly like someone or someone truly likes you - you don’t want them to waste their money chatting on a fake chatting platform like MyDates

If you are ‘fake’ or work for MyDates- then you want the other person to spend all their coins chatting on this fake chatting platform

If people text or wassap or any other real world chatting platforms, you can chat and text for hours and hours and won’t cost you like the way this website does.

Please wait for my test results later in the month. To prove that this website is a scam!

Again, if you don’t believe me, believe the other negative reviewers! This website is a scam!

30 August 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Just be careful with your feelings and money

I joined hoping for a genuine long-term relationship. I invested time, real and genuine feelings, and money, but many profiles seemed fake, communication is limited to the app, and some features feel restrictive. While my feelings were real, forming meaningful connections was difficult. I share this so others know: approach with caution and manage your expectations, as the platform may not deliver the genuine connection you hope for.

26 August 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

False people.

False people who don't know anything about where they live they just want you to buy coins with false hopes of meeting and they all use the same opening lines don't waste your time here

4 July 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Pity it's not all true...

I've been messing around with this site for several months---mainly for entertainment when I am bored or feeling at a loose end (as they say). I have never purchased the tokens. There is a ridiculous roulette-style widget ("Your ability is decisive!") that allows users to 'win' tokens each day. I built up a credit balance of about 7000 tokens at one point---all for free. Why won't I buy the actual tokens? Because the site is a complete scam. As others have described in their reviews, there are real people behind the profiles---but not the women in the pictures. I'm in Australia and, after chatting with a few different "women", began to think they might be chatbots. Some of them may well be (I would write the name of a city backwards and ask the 'person' to tell me what the city was---often they couldn't), but there are some real people behind the facade of the profiles, also. How to find out? Check the location of the "woman" as stated on the profile. Ask her some questions about the town or city in which "she" lives. For example, I was chatting with someone claiming to be from a small town just south of Sydney. I asked "her" if Sydney or Melbourne was closer to her. She replied that she "believed" Sydney was closer. How ridiculous! Sydney is 100km away and Melbourne about 1000. There were several other blatant clues, and this was just one case of many. In the final analysis, this site is definitely a scam---no question about it. If you must persist in your fantasy that the beautiful "woman" to whom you are writing is actually real, then good luck with meeting "her". (Spoiler alert! There will never be a meeting!!)

1 May 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Mydates is a complete SCAM.

Mydates is a complete SCAM I made a registration and began to try to connect with someone but I realized I received messages of supposed women. I began to made some test to confirm that messages were coming from real people and I confirm is not real people texting o replying you. This is just a stealing machine. DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY IN THIS PAGE. I'm planning to introduce a legal complaint.

20 April 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

If I wanted to be ghosted

If I wanted to be ghosted, lied to, and financially exploited, I’d just get back with my ex. The algorithm appears to match me exclusively with bots, scammers, or people whose hobbies include vanishing mid-conversation. Absolute joke of a site.

24 March 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Total scam

Site is scam. Lot of profile images are stolen. Original source you can easily find by reverse image search. 1)Most message start very similar, with small nonsense conversation and picture. 2)If you skip for some time then message again with picture and nonsense text 3)As my language is not english, so often receive nonsense text, when convert back to english, meaning is understand 4)Speed of replay- mostly timediatly, send and reload page- "You have new message" in 1-3 seconds after sending, if so then typewriting speed is impressive- 120 characters in 20 seconds. No real for human, also there are no diference in daytime or night, even in night replay imediatly, in speed of ping. 5)Photo of persons are not typical for my region. As in my region are very small number of people from Africa, Assia- about half of the letters are from them 6) The conversations are very similar. If you invite her to meet up after several months of correspondence, she replies that "She wants to get to know me better and wants to learn a lot more." 7) If we arrange a meeting at a specific time, she doesn't come, but says she'll be there right away. Then I write in 2 hours - if she'll be there right away. Then I write that I'll be there in 5 minutes. because I'm smoking - please wait - "Of course, I'll wait". When I write the next day - "She's still waiting for me" Unbelievable, unreal. This site must be blocked and owner should be punished (according to the law) for fraud.

23 March 2025
Unprompted review

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