honestly i feel like most people should be able to *reasonably* choose their accommodations. (by reasonably i mean not cheating the system because someone is bound to do some bullshit that ruins it for everyone, i think you get my point)
i feel like really basic accommodations (especially softening environments for i.e. autistic ppl and assisting those who need care to live a comfortable life) should be the bare minimum.
i cannot, even with all the information in the world, determine how disabling conditions are for people (especially due to personal experiences and sensitivity to pain), and if they deserve accommodation. no one can. and if anyone tries to tell you otherwise, they’re an idiot.
friendly reminder to support disabled folks around you! offer help and be open to making mistakes and such. especially younger disabled folks, who are much more susceptible to being traumatized and hurt by environments that refuse to support their needs. schools especially are a key target of this, and are extremely important in a child’s life. no, they will not “get better”, it is not an illness and should never be treated as such.