You try living for 15 years thinking that you’re one person, and then in five minutes, you find out you’re a princess. Just in case I wasn’t enough of a freak already, let’s add a tiara!
The most frustrating part about giving my own characters sexualities and labels is that i always feel like it gives the impression that these characters are aware of this information and would actively use these labels for themselves when that is rarely ever the case
They do not know what aro or ace means, that dude would never describe himself as trans, that other guy is nonbinary but they got a job so they don’t care about that right now, she’s bisexual but if you ask her she’ll just tell you everyone has a beautiful soul and move on, they use multiple pronouns but not out of choice people just keep on guessing and she doesn’t mind and honestly kinda enjoys it but he’s not telling you that
Ooc They’re gay or bi or aroace or bigender or whatever the fuck but in-universe they’re looking you in the eyes and telling you that every man on earth secretly wants to kiss other men and that’s just a desire you gotta live with and that it’s completely normal and they will not for a second question what this implies about themselves
always good to have friends who are at least 5 years older than you and friends who are at least 5 years younger than you. being the youngest person you know will make you feel like an inexperienced child who knows nothing of the world. being the oldest person you know will make you feel like the joker.
every time i see a 19 year old friend do something successful i can be comforted by the fact i also know people who are 35 and unemployed. nobody has to run on the same time and the world is beautiful…….
