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muffinlance lizardlicks
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My mother is all into homesteading and off-grid living videos right now. Every time I check up on her, this is what she wants to talk about.

It gives her a sense of peace and purpose I guess. Which is good, she’s been struggling to find that with her injuries and condition. She’s learning skills, and feeling prepared for “the worst”. Like I can’t get her to stop watching conspiracy theory bullshit on YouTube so at least this kind of content alleviates some of the anxiety the other content amplifies, because she feels like she can do something now to secure her safety later.

But to get through these conversations, I have to tell myself— hey, if natural disaster comes our way, some of this might be useful. But I know she’s not just thinking a big storm or natural disaster. She’s preparing for the collapse of society. And I don’t know how to break it to her that we wouldn’t survive that. You can make long lasting candles with crisco? Cool. Where you going to by crisco when society collapses? You’ll stock up now? Ok cool. What will you do when it runs out? Honestly, before it runs out, what will you do when people with guns come to take your various stockpiled supplies?

If we hit a point where society collapses, we’re done for. Food, medicine, etc. we can’t survive without society, without a world where people are working together trying to help each other out.

So, I’ll go through with this shit in the name of natural disaster preparedness, and because it helps her. But that’s as far as I’m willing to put energy into it. I refuse to prepare for, bet on, or hope for the collapse of society. I’d rather spend my energy trying to prevent society collapsing, what little part I can play in that. I’d rather spend my energy supporting people in my community. I’d rather work and build towards a better future, not prepare for the worst.

prismatic-bell

OP, if your mother is physically able to do the following, I strongly suggest it:


Get her into a fibercraft. Sewing, knit, crochet. Because here’s the thing:


At first, you can pitch it as “we’re all still gonna need clothes and these idiots with their doomsday bunkers can’t even thread a needle.” But after awhile—let this take a bit of time, not so long that she gets bored but long enough that she’s like “I’ve DONE this already”—introduce her to a slightly more advanced concept. She was practicing on circle skirts? Check out how to make darts. Crochet blankets? There are SO MANY cool stitches.


And then when the craft has a decent grip as a hobby….THEN you introduce her to a crafting social group.


One of the best ways to stop people falling down a conspiracy theory rabbit hole is to make sure they have active and diverse community, and being able to make tangible things has been shown to have a positive influence on mental health. If cost is a concern, I literally have spare crochet hooks I could send you to get her started and all I’d ask for them is cost of postage, which is like. Maybe three bucks. You can even find halfway decent yarn at the dollar store now. It’s not amazingly high quality, but it’s good enough for practice and learning.

scruffydogcreative

I cannot recommend the above enough. My dad is a prepper and was falling in with a militia. Like the white supremacy militias.

So I started casually mentioning i wanted to do Search and Rescue- knowing my father is incredibly competitive and will try and out do me.

I was all "but we can't rely on the government to find people!"

Now he has been on 6 different tours in the US. He is a field commander and the most successful in state history.

He independently made a partnership with a Black and Missing coalition and partners with them on searches for Black Ohio and.

He called me the other day so proud he has " a Trans and a nonbinary whatever that is" on his search team. So is he perfect? No. But now he isn't toting a gun around and threatening people.

He's getting better. Sure he built a secret bunker in the basement. But he's recovered multiple bodies and reunited people with loved ones.

Sure we still can't have a conversation without him divulging into some bigoted speak here and there.

But he's been lead in recovering teens trafficked from our state and successfully recovered them in Georgia in 10 hours.

Sure he isn't perfect. But he didn't fall completely and maybe he will become even better on his own.

The secret is: is they aren't going to become themselves again but you can help them not crumble completely. You can still have your parent even if they are a bit.. ahhhh.... hurtful. But they aren't hurting anyone and that's the important part.

kyraneko

We are what we become. So help people become in a good direction.

shallow-between-stars

Part of the reason people (particularly white people) of a certain age fall down the doomsday preparation hole into conspiracy theorist is

there is very little community for non-churchgoing white folks.

There is such a push in white culture to get your kids out the door and settled in their own home after you've raised them nearly exclusively alone for 20 years. Your work friends are your work friends. You retire and they don't see you anymore.

You don't go to church? All of the church groups don't see you.

Because the prevalent culture among white people is go it alone. If you're lucky and not divorced, you get your partner, but usually the go it alone is so pervasive that even working as a team with one other person is usually too hard, not to mention the stress of only having one person and how you have no place to vent about that person when needed (and everyone sometimes needs to vent about their loved ones no matter how good the relationship.)

So you get to this place where your culture has led you and you have grown-up kids, no spouse, no friends, and a whole lot of undefinable resentment about your life that you're not supposed to feel.

And this person on youtube comes along and says "Fuck them all, society will collapse any day now."

And you nod along in agreement.

But if you have a hobby, and start making friends from that hobby?

Suddenly that support system vents all of those icky building resentments and you can depend on people and make friends and have relationships and the world doesn't feel so bad.


Honestly, white culture takes a pack animal and puts it in a cage alone and then wonders why so many white people are miserable, racist pricks.

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How I think I’m writing: Using eye contact, or lack thereof, to display emotions such as intimacy, shock, denial, or nervousness. 

How I’m actually writing: She looked at me, and I looked away. I tried to look back, but she was already looking at the sky. “Look,” she sighs, looking back at me for a split second. “I don’t know how to say this.” We looked at each other and time stopped, but then she looked her lookers at something else to look at, looking tired. 

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gabsterdabster asked:

Is there a way we can see the full artwor of that azula headshot in ur 2025 recap?

chiptrillino-art answered:

headshot of azula from the last air bender, drawing in the style of the animated series arcane. she is facing the viewer looking slightly down on us with a smile on her lips. golden accents on her lower eyelid and on her lower lid.ALT

sorry for the late reply! sure thank you for asking. but i am afraid there is not much more added to this image then was already posted ;;;

i drew it around the beginning of January, and i think the style gives it away that uh… well. i watched arcane. i liked it. and began to think about possible AU.
and tbh i gave up on this one because uh i couldn’t figure out how to draw the style. (defeated by my biggest enemy… hair. again!!!)

mythandmayhem01 byjove
byjove

they should make a video game where you play as an autistic character and there is a meter that shows you how close to a total meltdown you are due to the overwhelming stimuli and another matter that shows you how much of a weirdo you look like to others and you have to try to balance between having a meltdown and completely masking. and also you’re trying to solve a murder or something

mythandmayhem01

I think it should add challenges but not be game breaking if you decide to sacrifice weird meter for meltdown meter.

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theotherpacman

not all ships are For wanting them to be in a happy healthy relationship together. sometimes shipping two characters means you want them to be erotically obsessed with each other and become entwined in a mutually toxic love affair for a few months and then horrifically break each other's hearts and never speak again. sometimes you want them to be codependent best friends with enough repression to explode a submarine who only make out/have sex when they're at their worst. sometimes you want them to pine after each other for years, never say anything, and then die. sometimes you want them to kill each other. this, too, is shipping

theotherpacman

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@shibopanda [dark bags under my eyes pointing manically at complex web of pictures and words and string that ive tacked to the wall] when his family gave up on him there was a VERY BRIEF WINDOW in which the only person whose support he felt he could count on was that of his Best Friend who loved him, that best friend proceeded to hate and reject and be cruel to him for the next Ten Years during which time he was shunned and hated and alone, then SHE SHOWED UP, became the FIRST PERSON to be nice to him and be his friend in all that time since, became his new Best Friend, his guiding light, how could he not be afraid of her, of her kindness, her acceptance and love, how could he ever let himself trust her completely, he couldnt, she loves him and she doesnt understand why there is so much he hides from her, they both hero-worship each other and they both do so much pretending

i could talk abt it for hours i DONT care abt cute fluffy izuocha i ONLY want them to make out IF it's to avoid actually verbalizing their feelings about each other he is gay listen. LISTEN he has nightmares where she murders him and those next mornings he can never look her in the eyes. hoping she wont notice she pretends not to notice but she always does and then she cries when she's alone this is their dynamic to me idc idc also i hate the ending of the manga so so bad the fucking idea that she would ever under any circumstances let him give up on his hero training is the most egregious piece of bullshit it simply isnt true to me. that shit didnt happen to me uraraka ochako midoriya izuku izuocha bnha
theotherpacman

hi I will literally never ever be okay about the way izuku feels towards hitoshi. what the fuck do you mean you live every day with a horrible guilt that you can’t express and the one person who has the capacity to forgive you, doesn’t. what the fuck do you mean he’s the only one who hates you now and maybe that’s the reason why you feel like he’s the only one who sees you, the only thing left in your life that makes sense. what the fuck do you mean you want desperately to beg his forgiveness but he wants nothing to do with you and you couldn’t explain why you need it to be him anyway. what the fuck do you mean you wish you were like him instead of like you but now you’ve gone too far and it’s too late

I’m not fucking okay

save me fanfiction... fanfiction save me shindeku bnha midoriya izuku shinsou hitoshi character dynamics fanfiction