I've been thinking all day about what I should say this trans day of remembrance. When i type it out it feels like nothing is enough. This past year has been so hard on everyone. I mourn every person that was harmed that I never got the opportunity to meet. To all my kindred trans family out there: I love you. We will make it through this. No matter how many people they silence, how many people they hurt, how many people are deplatformed, we will persist. To everyone out there I hope that if we are to meet it isn't a photo on a candle lit vigil, but in person over a shared table. I make a toast to those that couldn't join us on this most contemplative of days

Until next TDOR stay safe out there. Hug your friends tight, eat well, and may you all have a roof over your heads

As a transmasc POC, how do you feel white trans people can support us?

I got a DM asking such a question, and while I feel staying educating and donating directly to those transitioning is the way to do it, I'm wondering if anyone else would like to add anything :)

harry potter fans in 2025

Yall wanna see cope the likes nobody has ever seen?

Seeing takes on here like 'trans women are defined by experiencing transmisogyny' make me so sad.. What a doom-spiralling thing to push onto the community, especially any hatchlings.

Instead of going "you are trans and thats okay, being trans isn't bad, the word just treats you in a bad way because of it and it hurts, sure, but you need to stay resilliant and relearn to love yourself and take pride in your identity" y'all wanna push the narrative that our trans identity is defined by pain and suffering. Nothing else. There's no joy in transfemininity, just suffering. Being trans is to suffer.

And that is a rhetoric I hate deeply. It is filled with so much internalized grief over trans identity, I don't understand how anyone would push that onto other people.

If you want to give up hope we'll ever get rights & believe that no trans woman will ever be happy, do that on your own time, but don't make it a major point in your queercourse opinions. Genuinely cannot believe I must make this statement.

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Happy Pride Month

Happy Pride Month everyone! Remember 4 months ago when the CEO of this platform harassed and chased a trans woman off this website just for posting her transition timeline, then chased her to other social media platforms to continue harassing her, and threatened to call the FBI if she continued disputing the multiple dubious terminations of her blogs that did not violate tumblr's terms of service in any way? And despite tumblr staff insisting that the CEO was acting against their interests, the broad transmisogyny evident in the site's culture and moderation policy has still not been adequately addressed?