Hi, I'm Wenz. I live for the photos that I'll take, experiences that I'll experience, and places that I'll travel. . . ()
Anonymous

Hey! Sorry if this is a weird/ stupid question aha but if you could do one - which is more important to you, meeting celebs or being able to travel anywhere you want?

hands down to be able to travel anywhere I want

02:03PM +2

#Anonymous

Anonymous hey you were the first person on my dash! i expressed to my boyfriend that it hurts my feelings when he says "oh i want to fuck her" about girls he finds attractive. his justification was "actions speak louder than words" i am LOL

No good boyfriend would say to his girlfriend that he wants to fuck other girls, and to do so even though you have expressed that it hurts your feelings. :/ 

10:24PM +3

#Anonymous

Anonymous Whats your insta?

it’s @frankenwenz :) 

01:16AM +0

#Anonymous

Anonymous I want to talk badly and I need advice, can I message you please?

hey, sure thing :) 

03:53AM +10

#Anonymous

Anonymous im so tired of feeling lonely and im afraid this might make my depression return and some suicidal feeligs too

I’m sorry to hear that, anon. I understand the feeling, if it’s any consolation :(  

09:45PM +3

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Anonymous I need some advice. I'm kind of with this guy and whenever I'm not with him, I'm disgusted by him but when I'm with him I tell him that I love him and all that. I don't know what to do anymore. Because one day I'll break it off with him and the next day I'll be in bed with him. I don't get this.

It seems to me that you maybe need some time apart for you to be able to figure out what it is you’re truly feeling for him. Spend some time alone, clear your head and when you’re ready, face him again and tell him how you feel. 

(p.s to everyone, I’m not the best person to ask for a relationship advice because I’ve never been in one xD) 

Anonymous i have anxiety over a bug that i found crawling on my neck now i can't sleep and i have 4 hrs left till i have to get up and it's stressing me out idk what to do cause i rlly want to sleep but my heart is pounding

tbh I’m same as you when I see a bug a my room. I won’t be able to sleep until I find it and then kill it. Maybe you should do the same. (did I just ask you to commit bugicide? insecticide? asdshks) 

Anonymous Hey. You ok? Just saw a post I felt I should maybe reach out and check. Hope things are alright and sending good vibes to you. 😊

Hey thanks for asking, I’m ok. Hehe hope you are too! :) 

03:16AM +3

#Anonymous

Anonymous how'd you come up with your username?

do you mean my url ‘coolled’? I just misspelled the real word ‘cooled’ and saw it was available when I changed my url. :) 

01:19AM +6

#Anonymous

Anonymous one of my close friends got raped while we were both drunk at a party. she doesn't want to tell anyone about it and it's tearing her apart. I don't know what to do and my heart is broken for her. I don't even know what to say to her. Do you have any advice on what I can/should do?

This is devastating to read.. I’m so sorry for what you both are going through. I don’t know what to advise you (hopefully, other people can read this and they’ll message or post what they think will help) other than be there for your friend and always remind her that it’s not her fault at all no matter the circumstances. Tell her you’ll always support her no matter her decision, be it she decides to tell anyone else or not. 

You can ask her if she wants to consider the option of seeking professional help but never make it a point that she needs to do it but that she decides to do it, rather. If she does consider it, there are helpful resources/organizations out there that can help her and here are some that I found on the internet: 

https://www.rainn.org/get-help

http://www.nsvrc.org/

https://rapecrisis.org.uk/centres.php

http://thesurvivorstrust.org/

I really hope your friend finds the path to healing and recovery after this awful event in her life and I hope you take care of yourself too and also not feel like you haven’t done enough for your friend. You are a good friend and at times like these, that is what anyone can ever really need. 

Anonymous I'm getting married and I'm 20. Would you say that's too young?

If you’re truly in love then nothing else really matters. Go for it and I wish you and your future wife/husband a happy life! :) 

Anonymous I feel drained by my mental illness and I don't know how to cope anymore. Life seems dull and flat and colourless. I miss feeling light and wonder and happy about adventures and people and places. I'm not in any danger, I just feel like I'm slipping away and I don't know how to stop my mental illness from avalanching and suffocating me. -Depersonalized & Depressed

Hi there, I hope you get to read my reply. I haven’t been online much lately. I’m really sorry for how you’ve been feeling. I’ve felt that so many times too last year.. that feeling of slipping away and missing people and places and all. One thing I can advise you though is talk to a friend about it It really helps just to get your feelings out there, you know? If you have no one else to confide in, I’d be more than happy to talk with you. :) 

Also, I know this is rather obvious but seek professional help. There must be so many great ones out there whom are willing to help you with what you’re feeling. I really hope you feel better soon and I swear, things will get better soon if we believe that they will :)