“Oh no I definitely want to support nonbinary people. Yeah, totally. But first you have to let me sort you into these two boxes. What? No no these boxes aren’t just assigned sex at birth! It’s totally different! Also I’m choosing which one of you goes in which box based on your asab. But it’s totally not just asab again! You see, there’s also arbitrary moral judgments! Totally different! Why aren’t you getting in the box?”
“see no I get you’re multigender or whatever, but please tell me your assigned sex at birth so I can figure out if you’re trans enough or not. What? No no trust me, it’s to keep the fake trans people out. See if you’re trans there is one box you can fit in, it’s the one opposite to your asab. You can be trans!! See Im not reducing you to just a cis person! But. I need to see what box you belong to. So I can make sure you dont overstep in conversations of trans people of the other box. No you see the box determines all the experiences you can, have had and will ever have so it’s important. Please collaborate, what is your asab so I can decide whether you’re trans or a trans trender”
“you can’t hate ICE agents for wanting a fat paycheck” ah yes. people who are willing to disregard all morals for cash. congratulations you played right into their hands you uneducated piece of shit
you couldn’t pay me an amount even feasible to do this evil shit. you are lower than dirt
Honestly it boils down to reparenting yourself & rewiring your own neuronal pathways & telling yourself a firm “stop” when you notice your mind slipping down negative loopholes & being present in the moment & enjoying being mid task rather than waiting for it to end & not thinking of inertia as your baseline and natural way of living
So tempting to keep embarking on the same self destructive cycle over & over & over again . But at some point you have to put ur foot down w ur own behaviors & be the thing that truly saves u
(guy who heard that she needs to romanticize her life but got it confused with eroticize): migraine light sensitivity is just another type of sensation play when you think about it
I love fanfiction because sometimes The Character needs to be held gently and sometimes they need to be beaten to death with a club. and you 🫵 can make both of those happen. for free
