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The very useless gay

@gayasshitye

22 | She/her | Hi, I exist, but at least I exist in a very gay way on the same earth as cats and plants:O | In this household we drink respect trans people juice every morning thank u! | I don't use que I spam like a cool person | If your feminism doesn't include trans women your feminism is shit | AI art blogs and blank blogs will be blocked on sight | header by bugbuoyx |

my corner store guy is a 50 year old man who's my best friend in the world and recently he was like "you're too pretty to be single I have some nephews you should meet. very handsome!" and I was like "a niece might be more up my alley" and he just got more excited and said "ah even better! I was overselling my nephews but my nieces are very beautiful"

OP the tags!!

Have you guys noticed how much the internet/technology just does not listen to you anymore? I click “don’t show this artist” on Spotify and I get recommended a music video by them on the front page. I click “skip this update” on a pop up every time I open a file organization app and it’s right back there every time. I click unsubscribe on a newsletter and it keeps showing up in my inbox!! I click “delete my account” and the next time I open the website they suggest I “reactivate”.

Huh, i got a response to my original appeal for my old blog and they just doubled down

yea yea sure ok lets just ignore literally everyone on that post talking about how it helped them and that they needed to hear it mhm ok sure. It's also just the same wording as the original termination email.

Harm reduction? what's that??? lets ban the tranny instead.

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grippy3000

fun fact one of the world champions in pepper-eating contests is a trans woman and she actually faced significant backlash because people somehow thought she had a biological advantage. to eating spicy pepper

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grippy3000

update bc i went back and checked: her name is brianna “the chilli queen” skinner and she set a record in 2017 by slamming back 23 carolina reapers consecutively. she only stopped when told to by the referees, and the next year she stepped down out of boredom. queen

Here's a picture of her, by the way

And her super supportive wife

The championship, it should be noted, is unisex. Apparently being a trans woman gives you an innate biological advantage over both cis men and cis women.

The innate biological advantage of being cool as fuck

a lot of you see trans women as trans people who happen to be women, instead of women who happen to be trans

more accurate version

sure maybe thats more accurate as for all of society, but i was specifically talking about how people in the queer community see us as trans first and women afterwards. that misogyny is a big deal for trans women. that trans women face equal (or absurdly even less) oppression than other queer people. that complaining about misogyny is pointless because "we're all faggots in the eyes of the state"

but hey, thanks for reminding me that the majority of larger society will always see me as a man. how thoughtful and supportive of you.

How is literally every wlw ship in popular media skinny and flat as a board. you would think someone would at least be curvy with tits or ass but no they really hate body fat THAT much. I feel like I’m going crazy

fuuuuuuuck,, this new toxic yuri is so hot you guys 😍

no. I specifically had live action shows and american media in mind. fatphobia is universal and not just an “anime” thing. which brings me to highlight this comment:

^^^ This hits extra when you are that fat lesbian of color in real life

caption by @/ashleytheebarroness on tiktok: People reach for the Gestapo comparison because it sounds extreme and foreign. It lets white Americans pretend this kind of policing came from somewhere else. But ICE looks closer to slave patrols because that's our history. Local enforcement. Racialized suspicion. Vague authority. Taking people first, justifying it later. Gestapo is a warning. Slave patrols are a mirror.
Anonymous asked:

Do you ever look back on a post where you were shitty to an obviously marginalised person for asking for the tiny tiny crumb of consideration that is "please don't literally express a wish that I didn't exist", and think "actually I kinda wish I could take that back"?

Because there's still time. You could just delete it. This doesn't have to end up being the next era of your life.

I really just have to emphasise that this is what you’re mad about:

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