k. she/her. 31. nyc.
spaghettioverdose-deactivated20:
as a small child my favourite activity was the kubrick stare
people are finally admitting there’s something wrong with everyone but children in particular but want to insert their own political beliefs as an explanation. “it’s because of less stay at home moms. it’s because teachers don’t have enough money. it’s because we don’t ask kids about their feelings and hold space for their trowmah. it’s because we don’t hit them anymore.” it’s phones and the internet. it’s literally that and i guarantee if you were to take any other variable that people use to explain this and examine it against a control group, it would not produce what we’re seeing right now, it is just phones and social media, the kids and their parents and their teachers are all addicted and it has the most deleterious cumulative effect on the kids. everyone can cry all they want about how they don’t think it’s true and irradiating your brain is fine and children having access to porn and strange adults to “talk to” about their “sexuality” is an important god given constitutional human right, but they’re all wrong and have an agenda, everyone saying anything other than “it’s the phones” has an agenda
openin’ the door to the microwave one second early because you don’t need all the hootin’ and hollerin’
timetravelstudies-deactivated20:
If oasis songs went half as hard as liam oasis’s tweets youd never see me speak against them
You cannot live alone on the fantasies you feed to your mind, eventually you have to touch your life for real, assess and analyze your habits, understand your character, try not to hate yourself for your character as it was shaped when you were very young by circumstances outside of you, and begin learning how to cope with your character, how to build habits that work for you, finish small projects, finish big projects, expose yourself to more uncomfortable situations, assess why you want to leave that friendship before you leave it, raise your anxiety levels on purpose, so that you can grow, raise your work load on purpose, so that you can grow, so that you can build resilience, so that your life expands, and can be experienced by you in full and in reality