So, I’m Aaron, transsexual man, no idea what the fuck my gender is, greypansexual and panromantic, 20. I’m an anarcho-socialist hope punk whose final fuck flew ten years ago. Don’t try me.
Always willing to answer questions about being trans or help/listen to other trans people. I’m someone who stopped caring what others thought of me a long time ago, just keep that in mind. I’ll try and be nice if you’re being genuine.
As an asexual who lived through ace discourse, I am grabbing you by the shoulders and coming as close to eye contact as I can and I am telling you; there is no shame in taking a break.
I know fellow asexuals where the only reason they are ALIVE is because they took a break from Tumblr when shit got bad and sure, people can wax poetic all they want about that being weak or selfish, but because those people took a break, they saw the end of this. The world did not lose an asexual that day because they listened to their brains, acknowledged their limits and their breaking points, and made that decision to take a step back. A human being lived, and that’s what matters. So look, I know it can seem selfish, it can seem self-centred, it can feel like abandoning your friends during this, but if you feel that it is what you need to do, take that break. Protect yourself. The world needs a living trans, intersex, or nonbinary person more than Tumblr needs another punching bag. You are not betraying anyone by refusing to martyr yourself, and the world is better with you in it than with you as a statistic. When it gets too much, take a break. Delete your account, if you think you should. Resurface under a new name years later if you do at all- if it means that you live, do it. There is no shame in having a sense of self-preservation. That is not weakness. In fact, I would call making that decision in order to protect yourself basically the textbook definition of strenth.
I would rather read your “archiving my blog” post than your obituary. The world is a better place with you above ground. There is no shame in taking a break when you need it and if anyone says otherwise, fuck them. You are more important than internet discourse. Do what you feel you need to do and keep yourself safe. Your life is important.
Also, all I'm saying is that I've yet to see forcemasc or forceandrogyn do their suggestions on random, unrelated posts. Forcefem was constantly going onto posts entirely unrelated to suggest forcefemming someone, but I've never seen the forcemasc or forceandrogyn blogs do that because they appear to have some understanding of consent and not turning people's posts kinky without permission.
I'm just saying.
Thats because suggestrogen wasnt trying to do kink, her goals were to
A) spread positivity towards transfems
B) be a little funny
Ive seen both of her blogs and neither of them were kink blogs. They were kink adjacent at most
But force(gender) originates from kink. In its original form, it is a CNC kink. You absolutely can engage with it outside of a sexual context- I do this myself- but because it originated as a kink you do need to be careful, that does kind of make it inherently kinky in a way that's hard to explain. And people always absolutely have the right to see it as kink when forced to engage in it. If I post random forcemasc stuff on someone's post, they absolutely have the right to interpret that as me making this kinky and pushing my kink on them.
It is inherently CNC, so we always need to make sure that when we engage with it, we keep that first C. When engaging with other people, that first C is absolutely vital and we need to make sure we keep it. She doesn't.
Dude. No. Shut up. You cannot look me in the eyes, in this day and age, and say "we cant let kink exist in public"
Just shut up. Itd be a whole lot better for everyone than you just going around spouting right wing talking points
Im not stupid. I know exactly what youre doing. Youre trying to justify harassing a trans woman into leaving the internet behind all together because you didnt like what ahe said. Just shut up.
We have no right to force others to engage in our kink. Their consent matters, too. If you can’t understand that then you need to exit kink and everything kink-adjacent until you do.
Obviously kink shouldn’t be hidden. But there’s a line and sexually harassing people is very, very far over it.
Also, all I'm saying is that I've yet to see forcemasc or forceandrogyn do their suggestions on random, unrelated posts. Forcefem was constantly going onto posts entirely unrelated to suggest forcefemming someone, but I've never seen the forcemasc or forceandrogyn blogs do that because they appear to have some understanding of consent and not turning people's posts kinky without permission.
I'm just saying.
Thats because suggestrogen wasnt trying to do kink, her goals were to
A) spread positivity towards transfems
B) be a little funny
Ive seen both of her blogs and neither of them were kink blogs. They were kink adjacent at most
But force(gender) originates from kink. In its original form, it is a CNC kink. You absolutely can engage with it outside of a sexual context- I do this myself- but because it originated as a kink you do need to be careful, that does kind of make it inherently kinky in a way that’s hard to explain. And people always absolutely have the right to see it as kink when forced to engage in it. If I post random forcemasc stuff on someone’s post, they absolutely have the right to interpret that as me making this kinky and pushing my kink on them.
It is inherently CNC, so we always need to make sure that when we engage with it, we keep that first C. When engaging with other people, that first C is absolutely vital and we need to make sure we keep it. She doesn’t.
You can’t do a CNC (consensual non-consent) kink without the first C. That first C is literally vital, it’s the most important letter of the three. CNC without that first C is just non-consent, which is illegal to do to other people.
Also, all I’m saying is that I’ve yet to see forcemasc or forceandrogyn do their suggestions on random, unrelated posts. Forcefem was constantly going onto posts entirely unrelated to suggest forcefemming someone, but I’ve never seen the forcemasc or forceandrogyn blogs do that because they appear to have some understanding of consent and not turning people’s posts kinky without permission.
I’m just saying.
i dont care about validity i care about my civil rights
“can you be trans without dysphoria” “can you be an aromantic lesbian” “can bisexuals only date one gender” i literally do not care. in what states and countries are we protected from discrimination.
dragon who kisses you with tongue and deletes shinigami eyes from your web browser
“shinigami eyes is bad?” well i encourage you to draw your own conclusions of course but
“I as a marxist feminist probably care a lot more about racism than an "anarcho-socialist”
HUH?????
If you’ve got a criticism of my advocacy being uncaring towards, exclusionary of, or outright against people of colour, yes, absolutely, tell me. But genuinely where the fuck did that come from? How did anarcho-socialist automatically translate to “I do not care about people of colour to a meaningful degree.” I am so confused. Anarcho-socialist doesn’t tell you the first thing about my view on racism. How did you get that conclusion based purely off of me calling myself an anarcho-socialist?
Hold up, T comes in pill form, too? Oh my GODS
I have a really bad needle phobia so I kind of just thought T was out of the question for me but now they make it in pill form? Game-changing. Getting on testosterone is suddenly no longer out of the question for me
