The issue with people who consistently violate commonly understood social rules and boundaries but aren't willing to listen is like, they'll end up saying "you have too many rules for interacting with you" when pretty much all of your "rules" are things you never really have to enforce with other people, because they're commonly understood. There are certain boundaries that should be pretty apparent without someone having to tell you repeatedly, but even if you struggle to recognize them, you still need to listen and respect them when people tell you.
Personally I don't have many "special" rules about interacting with me. I don't even have a lot of rules. The rules are based on basic respect and courtesy. If I have to tell you repeatedly and get pushback, it won't be long before my polite but firm reminder turns into a very blunt fuck off.