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Having insecurities for being fat in my wedding pictures despite choosing to do this important moment in my life fat! Share your positive, fat-loving encouragement with me please!

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for years of my life I was embarrassed by my weight “I used to be skinny” I was in first grade “I'm lazy and gross and eat like shit I should just starve” im depressed “im so ugly” I'm actually really fucking hot and like. idk fatlib was a huge boon for me?I'm not. that fat. im 5'5 and 230 pounds but I felt like I had a moral problem for being fat but now I'm kinda like. proud of my weight. of who I am. that I am like this and god damn is it awesome.I am cushiony! my friends LOVE hugging me! I am quite comfortable in the winter!and genuinely like idk society baffles me bc it glorifies thinness so much I think people should get fatter. accept their bodies and love themselves.honestly confidence is so much more attractive than societal beauty standards.and I think finding confidence and love for myself has been like. super helpful in seeing that y'know so much of this website is people wallowing in their own sadness and lack of confidence it isn't easy! that's for sure! and im still really struggling with my own lack of confidence!but the first step is like. not wallowing in your self pity.if any of that makes sense I'm just rambling!I love being fat! I love being warm and comfy and hot!!I just hate how few tall boots are made with my legs in mind 😭