Whether or not somebody has any interest in or inclination towards polyamory and whether or not somebody is questioning their sexuality, I think it’s worth it for everybody to spend some time deconstructing the expected outline of a straight, monogamous relationship and ask themselves what reasonable boundaries look like in a romantic connection built on trust and unpossessive love, not primarily but not insignificantly because this will prevent videos from popping up on my Instagram feed of aggressively heterosexual women saying things like “it’s cheating if I work out with a guy who isn’t my husband”
tanny | they/he | 30 | multifandom | lgbtqa+ read carrd before follow | minors dni
writing tip they don’t tell you is that in addition to reading good books you should occasionally read one really bad one so that it inspires you to write something better out of pure rage
adulthood is a scam i want to be a rock
Rest in Peace to Renee Good. ICE shooting an innocent 37 year old mother attempting to protect her neighbors is not an accident or an act of self defense, it is an act of terror designed to dissuade other people from stepping in, documenting ICE violence and reminding immigrants of their rights. Her son is now an orphan and the president of the United States is calling her a ‘professional agitator’ on social media.
The head of ICE is calling her a violent terrorist and claimed her attempt to back her car away was actually an effort to murder the ICE officers present.
There’s a reason that the Right have all rallied so quickly behind this narrative: it’s happened before, with ICE’s approval.
Renee is the ninth person to have been shot by ICE since last September; and in all of those shootings the victim was in a vehicle and the agents claimed that the vehicle was “a threat”/trying to “run them down.” One other shooting, that of Silverio Villegas Gonzalez, was also lethal.
This is pretty clearly a sanctioned tactic being used by ICE repeatedly with an eye towards using the vehicle-as-weapon excuse later.
the only censorship we need is the block, mute and filter option because giving others the power to dictate what can and cannot exist in fandom will eventually lead to banning all nsfw works or even slightly but nuanced ‘problematic’ topics. I block and move on because I don’t want to see certain things but to erase them completely is a dangerous slope to having things you like be banned eventually.
trust me, there are some things in fandom I think are concerning, but once we allow laws to put limitations on art, is the day we will see them morph it into a weapon against marginalized people. You will lose access to trans voices, topics on lgbtq issues, they will deem it inappropriate we have seen this already. and the way they will appeal to the masses is to ban topics that are crimes. do not fall for it, the end goal is not to protect anyone it’s just a ploy.
y'all need to relearn the word erratic and stop using schizophrenic/bipolar/psychotic as a replacement
y'all need to relearn the word particular and stop using ocd as a replacement
People need to relearn the word “egocentric” and stop using narcissist/narc as a replacement.
People need to relearn the word “impulse” and stop using “intrusive thought” as a replacement
having anti role models is a beautiful thing. it’s not easy to live up to someone else’s behavior but it is easy to lasso yourself into behaving right when you realize you’re reminding yourself of the worst person youve ever met in your entire life
Anonymous:
Why the fuck are you 30+ on tumblr
segamascott:
this is my house?
i got a fucking. advertisement on youtube. from google ai. saying. without sarcasm and with complete sincerity. “if shakespeare is too hard for you, you can always have our ai explain it to you.” im gonna throw up. im gonna throw a molotov cocktail. if i see that ad again im reporting it for hate speech. how fucking dare you. i will kill you with my bare hands. with my exit pursued by a bear hands. i will tear google headquarters down brick by brick. im going to start biting people.
my five year plan is having enough money to order things online
looks inside procrastination -> it’s anxiety -> looks inside anxiety -> it’s fear -> looks inside fear -> it’s shame
Surely these circumstances will improve with additional shame
I love telling other people to ‘do it scared’, but me? I could never, fear doesn’t even let me move!
Nintendo is the Disney of video games and I mean that as insultingly as possible
Do kids today even understand why podcasts are called podcasts?
Well, you see, kids, almost twenty years ago Apple produced a portable audio player called – wait, I need to go back further.
Okay, so in the 20th century, the new inventions of radio and television were known as broadcast media – no, wait, that’s not really the start either –
Broadcasting originally refers to throwing, or casting, handfuls of seeds onto prepared ground, typically used with grain crops, which, uh –
– the Agrucultural Revoution, which begain circa 10,000 BC in the Levant, was when humans began preserving seeds for replanting –
you really do have to be the thing that saves you