"masculinity is rewarded!!!!1!!111"

tell that to masculine Black men who are always seen as agressive/predatory, who lose their freedom and their lives because white people assume their masculinity equals criminality. Tell that to all the little Black boys who have been "mistaken" for grown men by law enforcement because of their clothing, how they walk, how they talk, their height, their features.

ANY Black woman could tell you about a time when she had masculinity imposed on her as a way to paint her as agressive and invalidate her skills, feelings, thoughts and opinions. Majority of the instances of public bathroom transvestigations that have made it to the news cycle last year involved Black women, and not just any Black women, but studs. Any instance where a Black woman chooses to embrace masculinity is met with pearl clutching white women who are eager to rip them to shreds.

All this goes and more in youre a queer Black person, a trans Black person, a neurodivergent Black person, a disabled Black person, a darker skinned Black person.