Hello friends, today I would like to hold myself accountable and address the other side of my PSA, which is to say that I complain about things All The Time, and call myself a hater of many things.
I don’t legitimately Hate the things I complain about. I work in entertainment, and I know that it all has value, and it all has cool things to love. More importantly, I know everything has an intended audience, and sometimes I scream when that audience is not me. Which is selfish. And fun. And good! Because it challenges me to write my thoughts and come up with the story I would rather have, which I then get to come and share here!
I got into this fandom when I was a kid, and I maintain that kids in fandom (especially fandom for kids media) should be allowed to play and enjoy and explore their own stories without feeling guilty for having an interest, and I don’t ever want a kid – or anyone! – to come here and feel like a stranger being mad about their interest on the internet means they’re a bad person. They’re not! You’re not! It’s okay to have different ideas!
And because I talk an awful lot of shit about games, I’m gonna repost an older thing I had on another blog, because I stand by it:
My grumpy gamer takes should always be taken with a grain of salt asjkld
I’m a whole adult who has (for the most part, still making an active effort) grown out of the ways of fandom elitism, and while my opinions might be screaming at the top of my lungs, I promise it’s just me letting myself be a kid and get mad about fiction for the catharsis of it.
Your gaming preferences and favored blorbos are never going to be used as a value judgement here. If I’m being a butt as a fan, as a person I definitely understand there’s a reason we love the things that we do, and I love that art can do that for us!
Most likely if you see me yelling about something fictional, I am just having fun yelling, and you’re allowed, if not encouraged, to ignore me lol
#even stuff I don’t like is an opportunity to ask myself what I would’ve done differently like. #it’s all beneficial out here. #SS is not for me but it might be your favorite game in the whole world and that’s totally fine! !#You’re right! I’m right! Because art is subjective and that’s the point. #anyway I just klasjd. #please know I’m just being a butt and it’s not serious in any way
Anyway I am kissing you all on the forehead and reminding you to please not take fandom too seriously. Even if our little castles look different, we’re all playing in the same sand ykwim? Be excellent to each other, and ignore or blacklist the stuff you don’t vibe with, including my stuff! It’s fandom! You’re allowed to curate your experience, and you’re allowed to be happy on purpose. Thanks for reading!