ALT- zephyr
- i accept they/them (as in plural) and it/its pronouns
- over 21 :)
- dragon therian + champion of a growing deity
- profile, header, and below images mine, gif above shamelessly stolen :)
ALTIAQ (infrequently asked questions) below
hello friends and rivals. tumblr killed my theme at some point so i won’t make you go to my about page anymore.
im zephyr (probably). I’m an ancom and a college student in the USA. I’m a coffee-tea centrist and I do not have the cilantro soap gene. I also spend my free time wishing I was playing assorted video games while watching people play Super Monkey Ball on Twitch. Hope this tells you all you need to know about me.
Can I follow you? I am an empty blog
yeah sure, I don’t look at half the people who follow me tbh
Can I follow you? I am a minor
yeah sure, but if you interact with my posts in a salacious way, expect a lecture about how you should do that with people your own age and also please don’t do that on the internet and also if you don’t have the sense to lie about your age online, you probably don’t have the sense to keep yourself safe from predators - take it from me, someone who did have the sense to lie about my age online but could not keep myself safe from predators! sex jokes are funny and all but please carefully read anything I post about safe sex more than you pay attention to the joke posts
why didn’t you reblog my donation post?
I probably don’t follow you. If I do, feel free to bug me about it though.
this person you follow/reblogged is really problematic
don’t care
no but really, they’re a TERF/cryptofash/etc!
Oh okay, go ahead and reach out then. :P
Could you tag my trigger?
Probably, if it’s like bugs or [heavy political topic] or something this probably isn’t the blog for you tho
Could you tag your NSFW?
No
But it’s like, explicit porn/erotica?
Oops, that wasn’t meant for this blog! I’ll delete it ASAP.
Could you tag that slur?
No, unless it’s a racial slur, in which case I probably didn’t see its presence in the post and wouldn’t have reblogged it - let me know!
Can I message you?
Of course! I love making new friends on tumblr.
Do you have other social media?
no, just discord, if I like you and we’ve talked you probably already know it
You’re problematic.
pleaseee tell me to kill myself!! I love my anon haters <3 I want to laugh at you so much please fulfill my dreams
peak fantasy environment designs:
people who can graciously hide that they don’t like people are so terrifying. last year while working on tech for a play i asked my friend how he became friends with another guy on the crew and he got quiet, looked straight into my soul and said “he’s not my friend. i fucking hate him.” i lost 5 years of my life
A I R S I G N S
I hate this post because I am an air sign and I don’t see how this stuff is terrifying. This is just, you know, how you do.
You’ve got something that needs to get done, it doesn’t really matter if you like a person, you can still treat them well and be kind to them in order to make things go smoothly. Just because I hate someone doesn’t mean they need to know it.
This just in, only air signs act like fucking adults
These are the kind of people that make me paranoid
In a nutshell, “fawning” is the use of people-pleasing to diffuse conflict, feel more secure in relationships, and earn the approval of others.
It’s a maladaptive way of creating safety in our connections with others by essentially mirroring the imagined expectations and desires of other people.
Often times, it stems from traumatic experiences early on in life, as I described in last month’s article.
It resonated with so many you, and since then, I’ve gotten a lot of questions on how to recognize this type of response in ourselves, particularly in our day-to-day interactions.
I can only speak from personal experience, but there are a number of commonalities among “fawn” types that I think are worth noting.
I’m going to share seven struggles that a lot of us seem to experience as people-pleasers. If it sounds familiar, you, my friend, probably know a thing or two about fawning.
is it Tender?
is it Homoerotic?
is it Implicitly homosexual?
is it Noticeably repressed?
is it Kind of gay?
My mom accidentally said “gender non-compliant” instead of “gender non-conforming” and you know what? I like that. Let’s use that for something.
❄💙 Aria 💙❄
“gender non compliant” thats a MOOD
Gender Disobedience
Crippling Fear of Abandonment: i have a question
Me: dont
Crippling Fear Of Abandonment: does anyone really love me? they always seem to get tired after a few months
Me:
