they/them | 30, 🇨🇦, non-binary, autistic and tired | I've been here since before the Mishapocalypse, was online for Dashcon | my joints hurt every single day so I just get high to deal with it, thanks hemophilia ------- my wrestling sideblog is GrapplingWithADHD, where I make a lot of gifs of All Elite Wrestling
i cannot emphasize how much it sucks that people in movies don’t look real anymore. like conventionally attractive people have always been cast more as leads but up until like a decade ago they had visible age lines and textured skin and double chins and imperfect teeth. like whenever i’m feeling insecure i just have to watch a regular movie from the 70s and remind myself that im actually not unhygienic and disgusting for having teeth that are a little yellow and visible pores
more love to being multi-fandom. to finding a bunch of things that inspire you and spark joy. to switching gears when you feel like you’re in a rut. to remembering fandoms are supposed to be fun. art and fic and meta and gifs are supposed to be expressions of joy, not obligation. more love to coming back to old media when you feel like it, to knowing it’ll always be there.
i recommend telling yourself “this isn’t an experience i want to keep having” and stop entertaining things that are really detrimental to your health and don’t benefit you in anyway.
