hey all! my friend @instantpansies and i are compiling a list of queer media for a site we’re building! we intend to create a comprehensive list of all the queer media we can find, and there’s only so much two people can watch, so we need your help!

we’re taking a broad range of submissions, but make sure that you specify what makes the media queer. we’ll take historical work that couldn’t have had canon queer characters/themes if you can explain why it is queer

please no spamming/trolling. we’re only two people trying our best

please reblog for reach! we’re trying to get as many responses as possible and we need your help!

there was something about my realization today that i as a trans man can love gay men in a way that holds absolutely no connotations of being straight that also made me realize just how interconnected amato- hetero- and cis-normativity are. half of my issues with gender would disappear overnight if i didn’t have the lingering view that my attraction to men is straight and women gay. my inability to accept myself as aspec prevented me from realizing i like women for 2 years. all of these constructs are so deeply intertwined that separating them is a useless endeavor that only helps the oppressor

i actually think ouat rumplestiltskin would’ve been a better character if a. they had made it very clear that he was queer and b. also made it clear that despite liking all genders no one wanted to fuck him

amazing what coming out to your childhood friend can do to revitalize your friendship

there’s something so,,, disconcerting about being the “elder queer” in your friend group. i’m not old and i don’t have everything figured out, but compared to my friends i’m the best we all have. everyone else is either younger than me or knows less than me, so i’m the person they turn to for relevant questions. i don’t feel like i’m qualified to do that though. i don’t have life experience or memories of ye olden queer times. i’m just here trying to pick up the slack of a dead generation