I’m almost out of my meds and I can’t afford to go to the doctor yet, so if anyone has anything to spare, even a dollar, I’d really appreciate it
Cash app $pythonstring
Venmo Crime-and-Punishment
people venting about bpd symptoms in the same spaces people with npd vent in really are given so much more kindness, patience, and support
it’s not ableism to ask someone to quit a behavior if it’s harmful
Autistic people can understand the word no and bigotry isn’t a symptom of Autism so you’re allowed to tell someone off for being a bigot. That goes from “not understanding social cues” to “ignoring someone’s boundaries” and the bigotry thing is obvious, because Autism isn’t a white person only neurodivergence
ADHD and Autistic people can stop a hyperfixation or special interest if the material they’re consuming is harmful. You just have to let it die out, even if it makes you feel happy, it’s better to not hurt others by giving money and attention to something that was built to hurt others
People with personality disorders can follow set boundaries. Having a pd doesn’t mean you can trauma dump or force people to only respect your boundaries, and you’re allowed to leave someone if you’re unhappy in a relationship of any kind with them no matter what pd they have
People with delusions can be told to stop spreading conspiracy theories or talking about their delusion in public spaces. Believing something doesn’t entitle you to spreading it, especially with many conspiracy theories being antisemitic or racist in origin and talking about your delusions may set off other people’s and it’s not fair to trigger people
As someone with several neurodivergencies and personality disorders as well as other mental health problems, I can say firsthand that the bare minimum expected is to cope with your symptoms in ways that aren’t destructive to others. We’re not allowed to get out of things with a “I’m mentally ill” or “I have a neurodivergency”
I really should just stop talking to people immediately once they say I’m too nice to have no empathy. That’s a red flag that would save me so much trouble
reminder that NPD and ASPD aren’t “bad person disorder” and you shouldn’t be dicks to random people because you think you’re somehow superior for not being traumatized as a kid in a way that developed that way
Oh, so you were showing incredibly obvious signs of neurodivergency and/or mental illness at a young age? Where’s your long-standing interest in psychology?
hey, reminder that “psycho” isn’t derogatory for psychosis, it’s short for “psychopath”, which is the outdated term for ASPD. it’s a common misconception, but we have to do better by the antisocial community
Something about fucking with scam artists and making it seem like I’m actually sending them money and whatever really hits in the need for human communication and need to push people away middle ground.
They cure my need to scare away the ones who actually love me and give me superficial love and claim they’ll commit to me before I choose they leave
can people just acknowledge that I was traumatized without making me out to be the one at fault?
being in a bad place yourself and helping your friends is fine if you have the emotional bandwidth for it but if you feel like it’s more of an obligation than anything else you should probably try making some boundaries as to how much you’re taking on listening to your friends’ vents. it’s not bad to need to take a step back to cope with your own problems