why would I camp somewhere named Hole Where You’ll Freeze To Death
Yeah I’m going on a camping trip to the Hole Where You’ll Freeze to Death. No I won’t be back soon.
If people are curious about what the video title means, I watched it some time ago, and it’s actually pretty important info to know if you’re going camping/backpacking: heat rises, and cold sinks, so the lowest point of the terrain can become much colder than the surrounding area, especially at night. If the temperature in these low-points drops farther than the temperatures your camping gear is rated for, you can definitely freeze to death.
“Don’t sleep in holes” seems like a pretty obvious statement to make a video about. But it isn’t talking about what we normally think of when we’re asked to describe a hole in the ground. The video is talking about low-lying meadows or depressions, often in cold mountains like the Alps, that are free of trees and large plants. They seem like good flat ground to camp on. And to compound the problem, maybe some poor sucker tried to build a now-abandoned log cabin or shack right in the middle of one that you may be tempted to sleep in, like the one in the thumbnail. But the reason the meadow is free and clear of trees, is because even pine trees, which grow in high altitudes and low temperatures, can’t survive the temperature difference. The downhill slope of the terrain collects the freezing air like water in a bowl, and with nowhere for it to go, it may become even colder than temperatures recorded at much higher elevations in the same area. And you’ll be right there in the middle of it, because it looked very nice in the daylight. Now? Not so much.
So don’t sleep in holes. Best case scenario is that you’ll have a very chilly night’s sleep and a lousy morning. Worst case is that you won’t wake up in the morning at all.
Don’t camp in holes, Don’t camp right next to water, Don’t camp in a canyon, arroyo or wash.
All because not only can it get super cold in there (you only need a couple degrees below body temp for it to kill you, not actual cold)
But FLASH FLOODS can happen miles upstream or in mountains you can’t even see and then you’re a new smear on the wall of the canyon.
(also camping next to water invites javelinas, mountain lions, coyotes, feral dogs and who knows what else to eat your supplies or poke at you. Water is the local…. uh watering hole. Don’t camp right by it.)
And while we’re at it, don’t pitch your tent directly under a tree.
Lots of kinds of trees drop branches even when it’s not particularly windy. When it *is* particularly windy it’s not unusual to hear stories about people’s tents getting squashed under fallen tree trunks. Rain and snow and extended drought can also be reasons why branches and other things drop on tents. Just don’t do it.
Lightning strikes are also something worth worrying about- Lightning loves trees. Pitch your tent in a clearing if you can, just make sure it’s not at the bottom of a valley for the above posters’ reasons.
Nick described masculinity as an ‘accusation’ - “I’m often accused of masculinity. And, you know, I was born looking like this and I sound like this. You know, I did not cultivate [this]. I don’t go to the gym. I’m not chasing masculinity. And so it’s always seemed a little strange to me as a mincing theater artist to be accused of being manly. I am pretty handy at splitting firewood or changing a tire, but so are the women in my family. And so I use it as an opportunity to encourage people to try and loosen their ideas about genderizing everything. I know ladies that are great woodworkers and I know men that make an amazing quiche and everything across every spectrum in between.” (source)
And this is his reaction to "having his man card revoked”
the commodification of friendship is the most annoying thing to come out of the internet in ages. like actually i love to break this to you but you’re supposed to help your friends move even if it’s hard work. or stay up with them when they’re sad even if you’re gonna lose sleep. you’re supposed to listen to their fears and sorrows even if it means your own mind takes on a little bit of that weight. that’s how you know that you care. they will drive you to the airport and then you will make them soup when they’re sick. you’re supposed to make small sacrifices for them and they are supposed to do that for you. and there’s actually gonna be rough patches for both of you where the balance will be uneven and you will still be friends and it will not be unhealthy and they will not be abusive. life is not meant to be an endless prioritization of our own comfort if it was we would literally never get anywhere ever. jesus.
all of your feelings are valid as in “worth acknowledgment and internal consideration” but some of your feelings are also stupid and mean, and you need to deal with that shit without making it anyone else’s problem
like we are all beings of light, namaste, but also every single one of us has an ugly, dumb, selfish, lazy goblin living inside of us which can never be silenced or destroyed. and being a decent person means keeping that little fuck in his special little playpen hidden away in your heart, with his colorful enrichment rattles and his favorite pieces of raw meat, where he can pipe up with his wretched little opinions and you can nod sagaciously at him and pat him on the head and tell him you understand why he feels that way and never, ever let anybody else get their feelings hurt by him, because he sucks shit and nothing he has to say is worthy of notice by anyone but you. you should pay attention to him, but only because it’s important to understand your own worst impulses, and because trying to ignore him will make him break down a wall and run out into the street where he can show passerbys his privates and eat cigarette butts right off the ground. your goblin is valid: that doesn’t mean he’s fit for company.
this is the purest video you will see all day, it includes not only practical advice on how to make cats feel comfortable but also:
the most patient and long suffering clawdia
bob ross, but a vet
squish the cat
squish the cat, but with a towel
absolute unit mr. pirate
a little chubby but quite beautiful
please watch this immediately
Squish! That! Cat!
I consider myself to be well versed on cats/communicating with cats. I’ve lived with at least two cats my whole life, and currently live with two very different cats who I love. Apparently most cats are shoulder cats? My cat Mason has always been very nervous about going up on people’s shoulders, so I thought I’d try the “shoulder cat” technique.
I had to help him up on my shoulders because he’s never done it himself before. But once I got him up there I squished him, he started purring like nobody’s business. I carried him around our entire apartment, up and down staircases, and he was so happy. He didn’t try to leave once! When I put him down he head butted me and meowed and was super affectionate. And of course I gave him a treat.
TLDR- Even if you live with cats and think you understand cats, please watch this video.
I know grown ass people who say “this just the way I am” alllll the time
Recognizing your own toxic behaviour is peak adulting. You don’t stop learning once you turn 18+.
My dad is almost 70 and always says he’s still growing, changing, and learning. That’s what life is, an ongoing experience that you gotta be open for change in.
“That’s just how I am” is bullshit, you don’t like it or you see it affects the ones you love negatively, you change that shit.
Especially the first one! I have a really hard time knowing if somebody actually wants me to do something unless they are specific about the task and direct it towards me completely.
