ohmygoly:

junietuesday:

*through gritted teeth* when i do something wrong and am politely asked to change my behavior its just a simple request to fix a problem and not an indictment of my character. when i do something wrong and am politely asked to change my behavior its just a simple request to fix a problem and not an indictment of my worth as a human being

When someone politely asks you to change your behavior it means they trust and respect you enough to communicate their feelings and also that they know you to be respectful, polite, and/or well-meaning enough to deserve and allow for polite, respectful, constructive criticism at the start rather than insults, defensiveness, and fear.

(via nudityandnerdery)