also probably true
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| Registered: | July 7, 2025 |
| Last post: | January 21, 2026 at 11:59 PM |
| Posts: | 76 |
i dont gain anything from lying but i dont feel its that weird; what makes it weird
not really, in my head i was more thinking abt how this is the prettiest girl ive ever seen, so whats there to be nervous about.
honestly i've thought the same thing but even though i'm younger it's pretty obvious she's much more naive so i couldn't tell you.
ermmm lowk idk, we were on a cruise together and we hung out the whole time and we lived sort of near each other. We got along super well but even then some dude kept stalking her so she stayed in my room and thats kinda where it became more than friends.
thanks you seem very genuine and kind i appreciate the advice.
about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
if u saw my last post abt the girl then i need more opinions. and if u didnt heres a small run down
Ive known this girl for roughly 3 years and shes been dating my friend for a while but randomly she texted me asking to hang out, so when i went expecting to see my friend cuz he likes to mess with me like this; i instead saw her in a extremely vulnerable state. this led to one of the best nights ive ever had with a girl and eventually made me develop feelings for her that i dont how i should handle)
i heard great advice and decided to take none of it and be retarded. basically after i made that post she texted me saying sorry and wanting to hang out again. she kinda just made small talk and was weird abt it the whole time and despite everyone telling me not to talk to her anymore, I unfortunately am retarded and even tho i know im making a mistake i decided to say yes anyway. she also talked to me again after i was done working. she got really serious and sad with me again and even said things like "i dont want you to tell me advice i just want you to stay with me" and asking weird questions abt my body account.
at least in my opinion its obvious she has feelings for me but i still feel shitty talking to her cuz she got out of a relationship, im not dumb enough to be a rebound but i also have strong enough feelings for her to where i dont want to not talk to her
lmk what i should do
yeah but read what i put at the bottom of the thread
for being rude to me? she said she was upset in the moment and took it out on me but that she was sorry and wants to make time for us to hang out again.
and im stupid and didnt follow the adivce and gave in to temptation
did i make a mistake by agreeing to this.
lol so i did something retarded. she texted me like 30 minutes ago apologizing for the way she was acting towards me and asked if we could hang out again and even tho i know ima get hurt more than likely i still said yes cuz i couldnt help myself, i did say that if she reached out first tho i would answer but i didnt expect a full apology and even her asking to eat dinner with my family.
yeah i agree with the statement that i was being used but i do stand that women where i live (las vegas) are pretty terrible. thats something i wont retract although i may change the name of the title cuz i agree that its scummy to use it as bait as i was just pissed when i wrote this. but yeah more than likely she just used me.
harder said than done with the situation imo, if i read the room wrong im hitting on my friends ex who came to me for support yfm.
right so treat her how i would before essentially
when i was writing this story i wasnt thinking if ppl would like the grammar or not lol read it or dont idc
hm perchance but forgetting about it is harder said than done especially when ur grandparents love to ask abt her
yeah i dont wana force anything but i mean im friends with her regardless the only shitty part is like lucki said "pretty girl cast a spell on me" now i cant stop thinking bout her lol
that sounds pretty shitty no? randomly
cling to a boy for a night and never talk to them again
well i do live in a big tourist city so the girls here are pretty shit even in highschool tbh
lol but she has so many more friends then me like before this i didnt talk to her ever she even had male friends but maybe im coping
id agree if she wasnt being flirtatious and bordering bouandries that you dont do to friends, maybe she does regret it but im not blaming her for not wanting to date im blaming her doing everything she did and then being weird abt it afterwards
maybe but i definitely have to give it time before i reach out cuz this all happened sunday
sounds reasonable to me i dont expect anything from her i just thought thats its crazy how someome can have a night like that and not feel anything afterwards
i dont know if she wants me
to reach out tbh, she seems out of it at school and doesnt seem as miserable as she was previously
right so even if she reaches out i should still keep
my distance?
i dont think u know why people split paragraphs.
right thats my point, im just letting you know theres a chance your iliterate
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