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The Hate U Give (The Hate U Give, #1)
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Wow. Just wow.
In my life so far, I've had the opportunity to experience many different things, but there are certain things I'll never get/have to experience. For example, I'll never experience childbirth, not that I'm complaining, although I once had a cortisone shot in my hip flexor, and my orthopedist said she thought those hurt just as badly. (You can debate on that.)
I'm also fortunate enough that I'll never have to worry about the police viewing me as a threat as soon as they see me, just because of the color of my skin. I'll never have to think about the possibility of a routine traffic stop turning into something more dangerous just because a policeman gets nervous. That's something I take for granted, but I won't now that I've read Angie Thomas' searing, powerfully moving The Hate U Give .
Starr is 16 years old. She feels like there are two of her—the devoted daughter who lives in a poor neighborhood and saw her best friend get killed in a drive-by shooting when they were 10, and the student at the fancy prep school her parents sent her and her brothers to in order to get them out of the ghetto, the student who doesn't speak the way she does at home, and lets very few people into her "real world." Even her boyfriend at school, Chris, with whom she watches reruns of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air doesn't know the "real" Starr, although he says he wants to.
"Funny how it works with white kids though. It's dope to be black until it's hard to be black."
One night while Starr is at a party in her neighborhood, she runs into her childhood friend Khalil. Khalil was her first crush, and although she hasn't seen him for a while, it feels good to reconnect. When a fight breaks out at the party, the two leave before things get out of hand. Not long afterward, police pull Khalil's car over, and before they know it, Khalil gets shot and killed by the cop. He was unarmed.
Khalil's death throws Starr and her family into a tailspin. The media has already branded Khalil a drug dealer and a thug. Starr doesn't feel like she can tell her friends at school what happened because that would be exposing them to a part of her she has tried to keep hidden, but she is angered by the attitude of one of her friends toward Khalil's shooting. Starr is afraid of the ramifications of telling the truth of what happened that night to police, prosecutors, everyone—what if police target her family? What if others think she should just keep her mouth shut? And will speaking up make the difference anyway, if most of the time white cops don't pay the price for shooting black people?
"I've tweeted RIP hashtags, reblogged pictures on Tumblr, and signed every petition out there. I always said that if I saw it happen to somebody, I would have the loudest voice, making sure the world knew what went down. Now I am that person, and I'm too afraid to speak."
Starr's involvement in Khalil's death uncovers friction in a number of places—between her parents, who argue about the merits of getting their family out of their neighborhood versus their responsibility to making sure it doesn't die; between her father and his nemesis, the leader of a powerful gang, who is intertwined with Starr's family in too many different ways; between her and Chris, as well as her friends at school; and between the factions of their neighborhood and others in the community, some who riot for the sake of rioting and don't care what destruction they cause, and some who understand the power of their actions.
The Hate U Give is tremendously moving and just so current given what is happening in our society. While certainly it focuses on police brutality and the anger minorities feel when the authorities don't get punished for doing wrong, it is quick to point out that not all police are bad, just as not all black people are drug dealers, gang members, or looking to do harm. This is a book about racism, but it's also a book about family, friendship, loyalty, community, and how often it truly does take a village to save someone. This is a book that addresses the plight that many young black men face, but it doesn't place the blame on anyone but them, either.
I thought Thomas did a great job with this book, making sure it wasn't too heavy-handed in its messaging or too extreme in its plot. She created characters you grew to care about, characters you were invested in, so when pivotal events occurred, you were moved by them. This really blew my mind, and I think this is a book which really deserves all of the hype it is getting.
Several times in the book Starr's mother uttered the quote, "Sometimes you can do everything right and things will still go wrong. The key is to never stop doing right." I hope The Hate U Give reaches those despairing whether doing the right thing is still worth it even if it doesn't get the result they want. Because it really, truly is.
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In my life so far, I've had the opportunity to experience many different things, but there are certain things I'll never get/have to experience. For example, I'll never experience childbirth, not that I'm complaining, although I once had a cortisone shot in my hip flexor, and my orthopedist said she thought those hurt just as badly. (You can debate on that.)
I'm also fortunate enough that I'll never have to worry about the police viewing me as a threat as soon as they see me, just because of the color of my skin. I'll never have to think about the possibility of a routine traffic stop turning into something more dangerous just because a policeman gets nervous. That's something I take for granted, but I won't now that I've read Angie Thomas' searing, powerfully moving The Hate U Give .
Starr is 16 years old. She feels like there are two of her—the devoted daughter who lives in a poor neighborhood and saw her best friend get killed in a drive-by shooting when they were 10, and the student at the fancy prep school her parents sent her and her brothers to in order to get them out of the ghetto, the student who doesn't speak the way she does at home, and lets very few people into her "real world." Even her boyfriend at school, Chris, with whom she watches reruns of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air doesn't know the "real" Starr, although he says he wants to.
"Funny how it works with white kids though. It's dope to be black until it's hard to be black."
One night while Starr is at a party in her neighborhood, she runs into her childhood friend Khalil. Khalil was her first crush, and although she hasn't seen him for a while, it feels good to reconnect. When a fight breaks out at the party, the two leave before things get out of hand. Not long afterward, police pull Khalil's car over, and before they know it, Khalil gets shot and killed by the cop. He was unarmed.
Khalil's death throws Starr and her family into a tailspin. The media has already branded Khalil a drug dealer and a thug. Starr doesn't feel like she can tell her friends at school what happened because that would be exposing them to a part of her she has tried to keep hidden, but she is angered by the attitude of one of her friends toward Khalil's shooting. Starr is afraid of the ramifications of telling the truth of what happened that night to police, prosecutors, everyone—what if police target her family? What if others think she should just keep her mouth shut? And will speaking up make the difference anyway, if most of the time white cops don't pay the price for shooting black people?
"I've tweeted RIP hashtags, reblogged pictures on Tumblr, and signed every petition out there. I always said that if I saw it happen to somebody, I would have the loudest voice, making sure the world knew what went down. Now I am that person, and I'm too afraid to speak."
Starr's involvement in Khalil's death uncovers friction in a number of places—between her parents, who argue about the merits of getting their family out of their neighborhood versus their responsibility to making sure it doesn't die; between her father and his nemesis, the leader of a powerful gang, who is intertwined with Starr's family in too many different ways; between her and Chris, as well as her friends at school; and between the factions of their neighborhood and others in the community, some who riot for the sake of rioting and don't care what destruction they cause, and some who understand the power of their actions.
The Hate U Give is tremendously moving and just so current given what is happening in our society. While certainly it focuses on police brutality and the anger minorities feel when the authorities don't get punished for doing wrong, it is quick to point out that not all police are bad, just as not all black people are drug dealers, gang members, or looking to do harm. This is a book about racism, but it's also a book about family, friendship, loyalty, community, and how often it truly does take a village to save someone. This is a book that addresses the plight that many young black men face, but it doesn't place the blame on anyone but them, either.
I thought Thomas did a great job with this book, making sure it wasn't too heavy-handed in its messaging or too extreme in its plot. She created characters you grew to care about, characters you were invested in, so when pivotal events occurred, you were moved by them. This really blew my mind, and I think this is a book which really deserves all of the hype it is getting.
Several times in the book Starr's mother uttered the quote, "Sometimes you can do everything right and things will still go wrong. The key is to never stop doing right." I hope The Hate U Give reaches those despairing whether doing the right thing is still worth it even if it doesn't get the result they want. Because it really, truly is.
See all of my reviews at http://itseithersadnessoreuphoria.blo....
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Fantastic review Larry!
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Wow love reading your review, Larry. every. single. time! Anw this sounds incredibly moving and heart-rending but somehow I feel the need and urge to read it asap and spread it to possibly everyone in order to raise awareness about such alarming issue like this! :((((
Larry, what a beautiful review! I put off reading this for two weeks because I wasn't sure I could deal with the pain. But Angie Thomas somehow helps us (the reader through it. I still haven't figured out how.). This book does deserve the hype. Everyone in America, youth and adult, really needs to read this book to help us become that village you mentioned. It is THAT important of a book. I love Starr. I miss her so much. Thank you for so eloquently capturing much of the essence of this book. I'm glad you got a copy do that you could share your recommendation with all of us.
Oh, and Kelli above is right. I've had that cortisone shot a few times and I've been through natural childbirth. Nope. No comparison. Maybe, for a split second only. 😊
Lovely review, Larry. Everyone who's read this book has loved it. I'm only number 3000 or so on hold at the library for this one.
Love, love, love your review Lar! I've never had a cortisone shot, but I've birthed 2 children without any pain medication.....think I'd have to side with Kipperly and Kelli's above comments - haha! Thanks for a wonderful, passionate review! I'm definitely adding this one! :-)
Hahahahaha a shot in the back for an epi was like a pinch compared. I've also had a needle in my joint after I had just had it out of socket and I tell you while that was scary/painful. Childbirth is like an out of body experience kind of pain. I think that's what makes it so crazy. It SHOULD kill you that kind of pain. Your body does think something is wrong enough TO DIE. and before this century many did. Anyway, your review is TOTALLY BRILLIANT and makes me put this book on my very very next list thank you!
Kelli wrote: "Lol! Cortisone shot vs. childbirth...not comparable:)"Hey, I'm just repeating what my orthopedist told me! :) And truth be told, if childbirth hurt more than that, I'm good without it!! LOL
Elyse wrote: "Extraordinary felt review Larry. Every word of it. Thank you!!This book has been on my radar too for awhile - mostly debating if I want the physical book
- the kindle - or audiobook.
The context ..."
Thank you so much, Elyse! I had been thinking about reading this for a while and I'm so glad I did. It's tremendously moving and it also made me angry (in a good way). Hope you enjoy it!!
Tran wrote: "Wow love reading your review, Larry. every. single. time! Anw this sounds incredibly moving and heart-rending but somehow I feel the need and urge to read it asap and spread it to possibly everyone..."Thanks so much, Tran! Yes, I think people really do need to read it and understand what's going on, but I love the way Angie Thomas didn't say all cops are bad, which is what some people think the Black Lives Matter movement does.
Chelsea wrote: "What an excellent review Larry. I need to move this up my list!"Thanks so much, Chelsea! I appreciate that very much. Yeah, this is a powerful read!
Kipperly wrote: "Larry, what a beautiful review! I put off reading this for two weeks because I wasn't sure I could deal with the pain. But Angie Thomas somehow helps us (the reader through it. I still haven't figu..."Thanks so much, Kipperly! This was just one of those books that moved me so powerfully. It makes me sad that there are some who cannot see we have a problem out there, and accepting that doesn't mean we somehow de-emphasize the value of police or lessen the job they're doing. I agree, Starr was an unforgettable character, as were some of the supporting characters!
Kipperly wrote: "Oh, and Kelli above is right. I've had that cortisone shot a few times and I've been through natural childbirth. Nope. No comparison. Maybe, for a split second only. 😊"LOL. As I said to Kelli above, if childbirth hurts worse, I'm glad to not have to experience it, because that cortisone shot nearly debilitated me!! :)
Lata wrote: "Lovely review, Larry. Everyone who's read this book has loved it. I'm only number 3000 or so on hold at the library for this one."Thanks, Lata! This is definitely one of the best reviewed books on Goodreads lately, and I totally understand why. I hope whenever you get your hands on it you enjoy it!
Jennifer wrote: "This book sounds like a must read. I have it on my list. Wonderful review, Larry! :)"Thanks so much, Jennifer! It definitely is a must read--hope you enjoy it!!
Nisa wrote: "Thanks for your review, Larry and this book seems interesting to me :)"Thank you, Nisa!!
Lindsay wrote: "Love, love, love your review Lar! I've never had a cortisone shot, but I've birthed 2 children without any pain medication.....think I'd have to side with Kipperly and Kelli's above comments - haha..."Thank you so much, Lindsay! This really was a special book. And thanks for being another to emphasize that I should be glad men can't give birth--that cortisone shot HURT!! LOL
*TANYA* wrote: "Fantastic review!! Because of numerous praises to this book I cannot wait to read this book."Thanks so much, Tanya! I hope you enjoy it--it's a powerful, moving book!
Logan wrote: "Hahahahaha a shot in the back for an epi was like a pinch compared. I've also had a needle in my joint after I had just had it out of socket and I tell you while that was scary/painful. Childbirth ..."Logan, thank you so much! Yeah, I forget that in addition to actually going through labor many women get epidurals, too! Forget about it! LOL. I hope this book moves you like it did me!
Hannah wrote: "What an absolutely wonderful review, Larry!"Thank you so much, Hannah! This really was quite a book!
Larry, my husband said that was worse than the rest. He saw them shoving that thing in and was like NOPE NOPE NOPE. I was like, hunny, that's the easiest part for me hahahahahaha But in retrospect....nope is right! I'm sure I will enjoy this book the reviews are fantastic!
Logan wrote: "Larry, my husband said that was worse than the rest. He saw them shoving that thing in and was like NOPE NOPE NOPE. I was like, hunny, that's the easiest part for me hahahahahaha But in retrospect...."LOL, Logan!!
Beautiful review, Larry, on what sounds like an extremely important book! I loved the sample of this...must purchase soon :)
I can't put this down, I had it on my TBR list but after reading your review, I knew it had to be next for me. I just finished White Fur and wanted something completely different. I am just in awe of this book so far and devouring every page!
Kristin (KC) wrote: "Beautiful review, Larry, on what sounds like an extremely important book! I loved the sample of this...must purchase soon :)"Thanks, Kristin! You may need some time given the book you just read (Allegedly) but this is one you must read. So powerful!!
Jamie wrote: "I can't put this down, I had it on my TBR list but after reading your review, I knew it had to be next for me. I just finished White Fur and wanted something completely different. I am just in awe ..."White Fur was crazy, wasn't it? This is such a good book, Jamie; so glad you're enjoying it as much as I did.
Ronalyn wrote: "I've read this book because of your great review. I'm so glad I did! Wonderful book."That means so much, Ronalyn! I'm so glad you liked it as much as I did. It was fantastic!!
Will I learn something new about racial injustice than what's on the news? Is this book a rehashing of unjustified police killings of Blacks over the last couple of years, e.g., Freddie Gray, Michael Brown, Eric Garner, Jordan Edwards or does it discuss other types of injustice, perhaps more insidious? I'm writing an article and I'm looking for unique perspectives on the racial divide. This book looks like it might provide one but I'd like to get your perspective if you have time.
Erin wrote: "Will I learn something new about racial injustice than what's on the news? Is this book a rehashing of unjustified police killings of Blacks over the last couple of years, e.g., Freddie Gray, Micha..."Will you learn something new? Well, it was a good perspective for me as while I have African-American friends we've not really ever talked about this issue. I thought it was an interesting exploration of the divide that some African-American people feel about living up to their best potential and being treated as if they're betraying their race if they do.
Larry what a Great Job at reviewing this book and showing equality to both the police and the African American--meaning you are careful to point out not all of either group can be stereotyped as the cause of this current trouble. Your wonderful humanity and your positive outlook is evident, Bravo! I am adding this powerful story, thank you so much.xo
Wow, Larry, this review is a world class winner! What a read this must have been. BTW, I had a cortisone shot in the hip joint several years ago, and it was the worst pain I have ever had in my life.















