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The Book of Longings by Sue Monk Kidd
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There have been many times when I’ve read about strong, courageous, intelligent women, both real and imagined who long for and achieve things that are deemed only acceptable and possible for men at the time of history in which they live. I have at those times thought that these were women beyond their time, but now I’m not so sure that thinking does justice to them. The striking thing is that they are women of their time, different than most because of their audacity to follow their longings when up against the societal and historic norms. Ana, the narrator of this novel is one of these imagined characters. She also happens to be married to Jesus. I received an early copy of this, but kept putting it off. I’m a big fan of Sue Monk Kidd, but I was hesitant - not sure if I wanted to read a rewrite or imagined story of Jesus. There may be people who will be offended by the premise that Jesus had a wife, but I was not. The author has chosen to portray Jesus as human, breaking from traditional Christian belief that he was the son of God. It’s a work of fiction and that is emphasized by Sue Monk Kidd in the Virginia Woolf quote she kept propped up in her desk while writing the book : “Everything is the proper stuff of fiction.” I remember she did the same thing with another quote when she was writing The Invention of Wings.

Jesus is a major character in the novel, his travels, his love of the the poor, his love of God who he calls his father - many of the things I know from the Bible are front and center here, but so is his love of Ana, which is beautifully portrayed. Others I know from the Bible are here - the Good Samaritan, Martha and Lazarus, Herod, John the Immerser who we better know as John the Baptist and Simon and his bother Andrew and Judas who in this story is Ana’s cousin raised as her brother. Yet, for me the story was Ana’s because it is not her marriage to Jesus that defines her. Ana is the daughter of a scribe, a father whose only saving grace is that he allowed Ana to read and write and be taught and the daughter of a mean spirited mother who wished that Ana had never been born . There are strong women in Ana’s life, especially her aunt Yaltha, whose strength and support of Ana and her own sad story and longing of her own are part of Ana’s journey. It’s a journey of Ana’s longing to write of the women from the scriptures whose stories needed to be told and remembered. The journey is a lengthy one, sometimes a little too lengthy, and so four stars instead of five. But bottom line is that I’m sorry I waited so long to read this book. I had a hard time putting it down.

I received a copy of this book from Viking through Edelweiss.
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March 27, 2020 – Shelved
March 27, 2020 – Shelved as: to-read
August 22, 2020 – Started Reading
August 25, 2020 – Shelved as: edelweiss-reviews
August 25, 2020 – Finished Reading

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Cheri Excellent review, Angela. Like you, I hesitated to read this for the same reasons, but I am so glad that I did. Happier still that you enjoyed it so much.


Angela M Cheri, thanks so much. I was surprised how much I enjoyed it !


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Libby Angela, I would not be offended by the thought of Jesus being married either, so this sounds interesting to me. I love Woolf's quote! It sounds like Kidd needed that encouragement of seeing those words to write this book, so she may have been worried about its reception and I can see that, too. Definitely intrigued by this one. Great review!


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Richard A fine review Angela ........ an intriguing premise and a concept that is bound to be controversial to some.
Sounds great :)


Canadian Jen Great review, Angela. I was hesitating too but another friend told me it was too good to pass up!


Angela M Libby , thanks so much . Definitely interesting giving a view of life in those times . In her notes at end, Kidd talks about the thoughts of others in their writing on whether Jesus was married. Some schools of thought think it was very possible, although no mention of a wife in the Bible. Certainly some things to think about - what if ?? But the story of Ana is fabulous!


Angela M Richard, thanks so much . Intriguing for sure.


Angela M Jen, thanks! I’m glad I didn’t pass it up for the fabulous story telling at the very least .


Carmel Hanes What a wonderful review, Angela! I have also considered that book, after hearing of it. I've liked some of her others, some better than others, so it's good to know what you thought and what it was like. I think I might check it out one of these days.


Angela M Carmel, thanks so much . I hope you do check it out. I’d love to hear your thoughts.


Marialyce I thought this book was wonderful as well. Great review of a book that made you think.


Angela M Marialyce, thanks very much . Your review was wonderful as .


Dorie  - Cats&Books :) wonderful review Angela


message 14: by Bianca (new)

Bianca Great review, Angela. After a writer friend raved about this book, I put my apprehension aside when it comes to anything religious and/or historical fiction and borrowed this book. I read about forty - fifty pages. It was well written, indeed, but as it's the case with most historical fiction novels, I found myself pulled out of the story because I felt it wasn't true to the times, it was too modern and so on. Since I had many other books waiting, I dropped it. But I'm keen to read other books by Kidd, she writes well.


Angela M Thanks very much, Dorie.


message 16: by Angela M (last edited Aug 25, 2020 05:08PM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Angela M Thanks, Bianca. I definitely appreciate your thoughts and that you gave it a try in spite of your apprehension. I didn’t get the same feeling you did about it being too modern, but we’re all different in how we respond , which is a good thing. I hope you give one of her other books a try .


message 17: by Karen (new)

Karen Fab review Angela! I’ll be reading this😊


Angela M Thanks, Karen! Hope you enjoy it!


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Candi I love your thoughts on women in these stories being of their time but different from most. A beautiful review, Angela. I love Kidd so will get to this one eventually :)


message 20: by Dana (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dana Beautiful review, Angela! It is one of my favorite books of the year. It is one that led me to research some things I didn’t know from the Bible, even though it is a work of fiction and it made the Jesus I know feel more real in an odd way. Loved it.


message 21: by Debbie (new)

Debbie Nice review, Angela. This one isn’t for me—the religion and the denseness keep me away.


Angela M Candi , thanks very much . I found myself saying that women were beyond their time a lot, but then really thought about that . It may have been easier in another time , but these women are bold and brace precisely because of the time they are in . I think if you love Kidd , you might enjoy this one .


Angela M Dana, thanks so much . It’s a good work of historical fiction that can get us to dig deeper . I get what you mean about Jesus . I really loved how much he loved Ana and cared for his family.


Angela M Debbie, this won’t be for everyone, and I understand that. Thanks.


Angela M Thanks, Elyse! No, not for everyone. I appreciate that .


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Susanne Wonderful review Angela! I am so glad that this resonated with you and that you loved the characters!


Brenda ~The Sisters~Book Witch Great review, Angela!


message 28: by May (new) - rated it 5 stars

May Excellent review, Angela M! I had initially decided to pass on this one, even though I enjoy Susan Monk Kidd. I am convinced to give it a try!


Angela M Susanne, Brenda and May , thanks very much.
May , as I said I was initially hesitant, but I’m glad I went ahead with it .


message 30: by Julie (new)

Julie G Well. . . she made an interesting choice, didn't she? I'm not sure how I feel about what you've described here, but I do like the title of the book. How many other novels of hers have you read, Angela?


Angela M Julie, I have read three others : The Secret Life of Bees, The Invention of Wings and The Mermaid Chair . As I said to a couple of other friends, I get why this won’t be for everyone. In spite of my initial hesitation, I’m glad I read it- just went with it as a work of fiction and realty loved Ana and Jesus as the man he is portrayed as .


message 32: by Julie (new)

Julie G If you were to recommend one of those to me, based on what you know about my reading habits, which one would you single out?


Angela M Julie, I would have to say The Secret Life of Bees.


message 34: by Julie (new)

Julie G Thanks, Angela. I almost read it as my selection for South Carolina, but I chose something else at the last minute. One day!


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DeAnn Terrific review Angela. I, too, have this one still to read! Hope I like it as much as you did.


Angela M DeAnn, thanks so much! I hope you do , too :)


Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader Lovely review, Angela! I appreciate your thoughts about it feeling long. I’m looking forward to this one!


Angela M Jennifer , thanks! I found it worth reading, though . Think you will,,too.


Deyanne I haven't been writing reviews of late. I enjoyed this. For me the setting was paramount to the story. The reality of the poverty and the class system transported me to walk the dusty roads and experience living simply. Context was rich. For me...how could Christ have not been married? Thought provoking. Nice review.


message 40: by JanB (new)

JanB Like you I hesitate to read this for the same reasons. It's probably not for me, but I very much enjoyed your excellent review.


Angela M Deyanne, thanks. I felt as if I was there, too. I agree about the setting and the depiction of classes. I don’t know if Jesus was married or not , but he was in the novel and I accepted that as we accept the stories in other works of fiction what ever they portray.


Angela M Jan, as I said to others , I can understand why this won’t work for everyone. Thanks so much as always.


message 43: by Louise (new)

Louise Fisher You aced another amazing review - never thought this book was for me but you have changed my mind .....


Angela M Louise , thanks so much . I didn’t think it was for me either, but it was really good!


Annette Fantastic review Angela. I loved this story and the writing.


Angela M Annette , thanks so much. Just read your terrific review and you say a lot about why I enjoyed this .


Annette Thank you Angela :)


Jenny (Reading Envy) I also hesitated for the same reasons but thought it was well done. You could tell she did a lot of research. And I loved that she never "saw" him in the religious figure way, just as a man she had a relationship with.


Angela M Jenny , I agree . The amount of research is apparent and I liked this much more than I thought I would. I’ll
have to go back and look at your review.


*TUDOR^QUEEN* Excellent,thoughtful review 🌹📖


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