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My Friends by Fredrik Backman
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it was amazing
bookshelves: 5-star-favourites, sweden, contemporary, tgh

A painting and friendship; Or a painting of friendship.

This magnificent story is told by only one of them to a new one. Through the eyes of an adult reflecting back on a summer that was both the best and the worst.

What brought these 4 teens together were the very things that kept them from wanting to be at home. Broken children just trying to survive; just wanting to be loved and accepted. They became their own family; their own humans.

Backman’s characters are our friends; our family; our neighbours. They are authentic in their flaws- compassionate in their friendship. His humour resonates throughout what is also heavy and dark with themes of loss, grief, violence and identity. But there are also glorious moments of joy - as beautiful as wings.

They say a picture is worth 1000 words. Sometimes it’s worth a lifetime. Sometimes that lifetime, is a summer.

Cheers to C.Jat
And to Backman: this is the chef’s kiss 💋
5⭐️
A superb Buddy read w Tracy 📚👯
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Reading Progress

September 24, 2024 – Shelved
September 24, 2024 – Shelved as: to-read
June 1, 2025 – Started Reading
June 1, 2025 –
page 130
29.02% "Buddy Read w TGH!"
June 3, 2025 –
page 220
49.11%
June 4, 2025 –
page 340
75.89%
June 5, 2025 –
page 340
75.89%
June 5, 2025 – Shelved as: 5-star-favourites
June 5, 2025 – Shelved as: sweden
June 5, 2025 – Shelved as: contemporary
June 5, 2025 – Shelved as: tgh
June 5, 2025 – Finished Reading

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Karen This is on my list, too Jen. I have been reading mixed reviews. I hope this is a good one for you. Happy Reading. 📖


Panic!_at_the_Library This one is on my list too. Hope it’s a great read!


Canadian Jen Karen wrote: "This is on my list, too Jen. I have been reading mixed reviews. I hope this is a good one for you. Happy Reading. 📖"

I loved it, Karen. Highly recommend!


TracyGH Brilliant review. You captured my thoughts perfectly. Another 5 star for both of us. We seem to have 5 stars when we buddy read. Nothing better than a fine read with an amazing book buddy!


message 5: by Jonas (new)

Jonas Love Backman’s books! So glad you loved this one. Brilliant review.


Susan T. Nice review, Jen! Yay for 5 stars.


message 7: by Lorna (new)

Lorna What a beautiful review, Jen.


Krystal Wonderful review for a wonderful novel! This has been one of my favorites so far this year. Glad you loved it too! 😊💞💞


message 9: by Fran (new)

Fran Superb review, Jen!💗


message 10: by Jodi (new) - added it

Jodi What an incredibly sweet review!! Jen, I'm so glad you continue to really love Fredrik Backman's novels.💞


message 11: by Mark (new)

Mark  Porton Terrific review again Jen Jen, and nice to see you and Tracy are back at it again!!!!


message 12: by Karen (new)

Karen Wonderful review Jen!


Canadian Jen Tracy GH wrote: "Brilliant review. You captured my thoughts perfectly. Another 5 star for both of us. We seem to have 5 stars when we buddy read. Nothing better than a fine read with an amazing book buddy!"

Ditto, "MY FRIEND". It was magnificent in all its glory. I'm sad to see them depart. *sigh* Thanks for taking this one on with me. Cheers Buddy 🍻


Canadian Jen Jonas wrote: "Love Backman’s books! So glad you loved this one. Brilliant review."

Such a deeply, amazing one Jonas. Backman has you fit in and become a friend to these friends. TY but really it's Backman we need to thank!


Canadian Jen TY Susan & Lorna 😊


Canadian Jen Krystal wrote: "Wonderful review for a wonderful novel! This has been one of my favorites so far this year. Glad you loved it too! 😊💞💞"

It is def one I'm going to remember too, Krystal. Glad you love it also.


Canadian Jen Fran wrote: "Superb review, Jen!💗"

TY Fran!


Canadian Jen Jodi wrote: "What an incredibly sweet review!! Jen, I'm so glad you continue to really love Fredrik Backman's novels.💞"

Jodi, there has only been one I wasn't crazy about. But he just has a way of connecting with the reader. I especially loved the Beartown series as it reminded me so much of the communities here; And Every Morning the Way Home gets Longer & Longer hit home for me in a way no other story has (alzheimers) Thanks!


Debra Terrific review, Jen! Glad you loved it!


Canadian Jen Mark (Day 10 Cairns to Adelaide) wrote: "Terrific review again Jen Jen, and nice to see you and Tracy are back at it again!!!!"

We back like drunken sailors, Mark. How many days is your road trip for? You slacking off on your reading goals?????


Bobby What an opening line!! Ladies and gents, the 2025 opening line of the year goes to Canadian Jen! We can call it now. That almost made me cry. Man I love Freddie B so much. Great review!


Angela M Beautiful review , Jen . I love Backman.


Mitzi Powerful review, Jen! Started listening to this one myself and I’m loving it! ❤️


Debbie H Fabulous review Jen! I loved this one too! ❤️


Lori  Keeton Superb review, Jen! He really knows how to write flawed humans in the best ways! I just saw Backman in Dallas about a month ago hearing him talk about this book and more. He’s such a quirky guy and the biggest introvert. I’m thrilled to read my signed copy for next month’s IRL book club!


message 26: by Diana (new)

Diana Sounds wonderful! Fantastic review!


Shelley's Book Nook Incredible review, Jen. 🤗💕


Canadian Jen Karen wrote: "Wonderful review Jen!"

TY Karen!


Canadian Jen Debra wrote: "Terrific review, Jen! Glad you loved it!"

Happy you did too, Debra! TY!


Canadian Jen Bobby wrote: "What an opening line!! Ladies and gents, the 2025 opening line of the year goes to Canadian Jen! We can call it now. That almost made me cry. Man I love Freddie B so much. Great review!"

Thanks so much, Bobby!! What a lovely comment. It was such a great story. So happy you loved it too!!


Diane Fantastic review, Jen! So happy you loved this. Backman’s writing is just so special.


message 32: by Tina (new)

Tina I'm so glad to hear Backman has written another hit. A wonderful review Jen 🌟


message 33: by Rosh (new) - rated it 3 stars

Rosh Lovely review, Jen! I had no doubt this would be a beautiful book. So happy to see all your stars for it. Backman is outstanding!


Bianca Fabulous review, Jen. I can't wait to read it myself.


message 35: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Fantastic review Jen!


message 36: by Rich (new)

Rich Great review Jen. Good ole summer times are nice to remember. Hoping to add some new ones this year…happy summer season, start enjoying it’s finally getting warm…


Canadian Jen Angela M wrote: "Beautiful review , Jen . I love Backman."

I know you do, Angela. He's a fave for me too 😊


Canadian Jen Mitzi wrote: "Powerful review, Jen! Started listening to this one myself and I’m loving it! ❤️"

I 'hear' the audio is excellent too, Mitzi. Looking fwd to your thoughts. TY


Canadian Jen Debbie H wrote: "Fabulous review Jen! I loved this one too! ❤️"

Such a story. such characters. I'm just sorry it's over. Thanks Debbie. Happy you enjoyed it too.


message 40: by Canadian Jen (last edited Jun 06, 2025 05:57AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Canadian Jen Lori wrote: "Superb review, Jen! He really knows how to write flawed humans in the best ways! I just saw Backman in Dallas about a month ago hearing him talk about this book and more. He’s such a quirky guy and..."

How amazing you saw him live? Lori, I just watched him do a speech for Simon & Schuster. He is one quirky guy alright. And funny. I would love to know what inspires him to write these stories. I hope he comes here to Canada too! Can't wait for your thoughts when you get to it. You will love it!


Canadian Jen TY Diana & Shelley!


message 42: by Canadian Jen (last edited Jun 06, 2025 05:58AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Canadian Jen Diane wrote: "Fantastic review, Jen! So happy you loved this. Backman’s writing is just so special."

So special. Happy you loved this one too, Diane!


Canadian Jen Tina wrote: "I'm so glad to hear Backman has written another hit. A wonderful review Jen 🌟"

I think you will enjoy it too, Tina. Didn't you recently finish Beartown?


Canadian Jen Rosh ~catching up slowly~ wrote: "Lovely review, Jen! I had no doubt this would be a beautiful book. So happy to see all your stars for it. Backman is outstanding!"

Outstanding is right! I can't wait for your thoughts, Rosh. So excited you will be reading it.


Canadian Jen TY Bianca & Maureen 😊


message 46: by Lee (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lee Ann Love his ability to capture what it means to be a teenager - with all its highs & lows, especially their ability to love their friends despite or maybe because of their lack of experience.


Jayme C (Brunetteslikebookstoo) Wonderful review! 💞


Debora Viviana Haven't read the book yet, but knowing Backman, your review got me emotional! I can't wait to be heartbroken over it :).


Roxanne Meek This one sounds wonderful! Great review, Jen!


message 50: by CatsBnB (new) - added it

CatsBnB Outstanding review, Jen 💜!!!! I really need to read a book by Backman!


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