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Both Things Are True by Kathleen  Barber
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2.5 Stars

This story is about Vanessa. She’s a big-hit yogi on the internet and lives in New York. Her fiancé, Jack, runs a crypto scam and flees the U.S. So what does Vanessa do? She ends up moving in with her sister, Faith, in Chicago and tries to start anew. That’s where she gets a second chance with Sam.

This is a story of grief; just because someone is still alive doesn’t mean you can’t grieve them. The end of a marriage or relationship is like a death of sorts. I like how the author shows how complex love can be; just because he was a bad guy doesn’t mean Vanessa isn’t hurt. She is completely conflicted but is still trying to move forward. The book shows the complexities of that. I liked how emotional the writing was without being too sentimental or saccharine. I liked the messiness of Vanessa’s troubles, and I cheered on her wins. But I didn’t like the lack of communication. These are grown-ups, and they should have learned to speak by now.

As much as I liked what I mentioned above, the book doesn’t deliver on its potential. While I loved the premise and the sweet writing, the pacing dragged like molasses in January—in Canada! Some of the characters lacked depth to make the story and their journeys really resonate with me. But the author’s ability to write about emotional messiness (which I love) has me giving it an extra half star. I just wish it had impacted me the way it promised.

So which is it?
I enjoyed this book.
This book isn’t great.
Both things are true.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.
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Reading Progress

February 8, 2025 – Shelved
August 23, 2025 – Started Reading
August 24, 2025 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by KDub (new)

KDub Ha, I love your clever summary at the end! Sorry this didn't land for you.


message 2: by Susan (new)

Susan Smith Excellent review Shelley! I like your play with words at the end, very clever!


Shelley's Book Nook KDub wrote: "Ha, I love your clever summary at the end! Sorry this didn't land for you."

Thank you so much, KDub. 🤗💕


message 4: by Cindy (new)

Cindy aka "The Book Fairy" Had to chuckle at the molasses in January...in Canada! baha....be pretty slow up here yes ;) Cute review!!


Izzie (on pause) McFussy Well, it wasn’t a complete disaster.🤷🏻‍♀️ Excellent review, Shelley!


Morning 💜💜 PRINCE 💜💜 Brilliant review! Glad it didn't completely sux. Canada you say? 🤣💜


Shelley's Book Nook Susan wrote: "Excellent review Shelley! I like your play with words at the end, very clever!"

Thanks very much, Susan. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook Cindy wrote: "Had to chuckle at the molasses in January...in Canada! baha....be pretty slow up here yes ;) Cute review!!"

Thank you kindly, Cindy. 🤗💕


Kathryn J. Poarch Terrific review! :)


Shelley's Book Nook Izzie (semi-hiatus) McFussy wrote: "Well, it wasn’t a complete disaster.🤷🏻‍♀️ Excellent review, Shelley!"

Thanks so much, Izzie. 🤗💕


message 11: by len ❀ (new)

len ❀ great review, shelley! sorry this was pretty disappointing! i’m also not a fan of grown ups not communicating. it’s kind of embarrassing to me lol. slow pace can also be a bit of a hit or miss. hope your next read is much better!


message 12: by Tracy P. (last edited Aug 26, 2025 09:09PM) (new)

Tracy  P. Even though this didn't deliver much of what you were hoping for, I'm glad it still proved to be a (relatively) worthy read! A simply wonderful review, Shelley! ♥︎♡♥︎


Shelley's Book Nook Morning 💜💜 PRINCE 💜💜 wrote: "Brilliant review! Glad it didn't completely sux. Canada you say? 🤣💜"

Thank you very much, Morning. 😆 🇨🇦 🤗💕


Norma ~ The Sisters Wonderful review, Shelley!💖


Shelley's Book Nook Kathryn J. Poarch wrote: "Terrific review! :)"

Thanks kindly, Kathryn. 🤗💕


message 16: by Ceecee (new)

Ceecee Great review Shelley 💕


TL *Humaning the Best She Can* Well said 👏 👌


message 18: by Rosh (new)

Rosh Excellent review, Shelley! ❤️ I absolutely love your justification of those two truths. We can definitely enjoy a book even if it is not great, as long as the content resonates with us in some way. I'm glad you enjoyed this despite your dissatisfaction with some of the writing.


message 19: by Srivalli (new)

Srivalli (Semi-Hiatus) Sorry this one was and wasn't good. Wonderful review, Shelley. 💕


message 20: by Canadian Jen (new)

Canadian Jen I need to book with depth as well. This would be a miss for me. Hope your next is better, Shelley!


message 21: by Nancy (new)

Nancy What a shame it didn’t live up to its potential. Hope your current book is much better! 💖


message 22: by Terrie (new)

Terrie  Robinson I love your fair and well-balanced review, Shelley! Grief has many different faces!! Exceptional review!!!💖👏


message 23: by Holly (new)

Holly  B Fair review Shelley! ❤️


Shelley's Book Nook len ❀ wrote: "great review, shelley! sorry this was pretty disappointing! i’m also not a fan of grown ups not communicating. it’s kind of embarrassing to me lol. slow pace can also be a bit of a hit or miss. hop..."

Thank you so much, Len. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook Tracy P. wrote: "Even though this didn't deliver much of what you were hoping for, I'm glad it still proved to be a (relatively) worthy read! A simply wonderful review, Shelley! ♥︎♡♥︎"

Thanks very much, Tracy. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook Norma ~ The Sisters wrote: "Wonderful review, Shelley!💖"

Thank you kindly, Norma. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook Ceecee wrote: "Great review Shelley 💕"

Thanks so much, Ceecee. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook TL *Humaning the Best She Can* wrote: "Well said 👏 👌"

Thank you very much, TL. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook Rosh ~catching up slowly~ wrote: "Excellent review, Shelley! ❤️ I absolutely love your justification of those two truths. We can definitely enjoy a book even if it is not great, as long as the content resonates with us in some way...."

Thanks kindly, Rosh. I knew you'd get it. 🤗💕


message 30: by Angela (new)

Angela Sounds like the pacing killed this one for you Shelley. I hope your next read is better! 💚


❥ KAT ❥ Kitty Kats Crazy About Books Bummer you didn't enjoy this one more, here's hoping the next read is better xox


Shelley's Book Nook Srivalli wrote: "Sorry this one was and wasn't good. Wonderful review, Shelley. 💕"

Thank you so much, Srivalli. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook Canadian Jen wrote: "I need to book with depth as well. This would be a miss for me. Hope your next is better, Shelley!"

Thanks very much, Jen. 🤗💕


message 34: by Margarete (new)

Margarete Jones Super review Shell! Sorry it wasn't a five-star book!


Shelley's Book Nook Nancy wrote: "What a shame it didn’t live up to its potential. Hope your current book is much better! 💖"

Thank you kindly, Nancy. It is. 🤗💕


message 36: by Sarah (new)

Sarah Brilliant and fair review, Shelley!! 🥰🩷 I’m sorry it didn’t impact you as much as you thought it would. 😔😭 It’s a shame when that happens. I hope your next read will be a million times better!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼


Shelley's Book Nook Terrie wrote: "I love your fair and well-balanced review, Shelley! Grief has many different faces!! Exceptional review!!!💖👏"

Thanks so much, Terrie. 🤗💕


message 38: by Darla (new)

Darla Clever review, Shelley!🤩


Shelley's Book Nook Holly wrote: "Fair review Shelley! ❤️"

Thank you very much, Holly. 🤗💕


message 40: by Cydney (new)

Cydney I love how a book might not that great but you have a good time anyway; it's one of my favorite things about books LOL


message 41: by Jenny (new)

Jenny K (On partial break) Wonderful review. I can see why this didn't work for you, and I love how both things can be true :)


Shelley's Book Nook Angela wrote: "Sounds like the pacing killed this one for you Shelley. I hope your next read is better! 💚"

Thanks kindly, Angela. 🤗💕


Shelley's Book Nook ❥ KAT ❥ Kitty Kats Crazy About Books wrote: "Bummer you didn't enjoy this one more, here's hoping the next read is better xox"

Thank you so much, Kat. 🤗💕


message 44: by Amna (new)

Amna H Your reviews are very trustworthy for me so I will give this a pass. Love the honesty!


message 45: by Barbara (new)

Barbara Bad pacing kills a book. Honest review Shelley!


message 46: by Mary Virginia (new)

Mary Virginia I really like your review, Shelley - it’s so fair! Sometimes a weird pace makes sense but this time it sounds really distracting and boring. ☀️😍


message 47: by Michelle (new)

Michelle Kellar I like the way you stated your review of this book. (ie: "so which is it?")


Shelley's Book Nook Margarete wrote: "Super review Shell! Sorry it wasn't a five-star book!"

Thanks very much, Margarete. 🤗💕


message 49: by Suzy (new)

Suzy Terrific review Shelley! Molasses in January paced books are a no-go for me! 😂 Hope you love your next! ❤️


Shelley's Book Nook Sarah wrote: "Brilliant and fair review, Shelley!! 🥰🩷 I’m sorry it didn’t impact you as much as you thought it would. 😔😭 It’s a shame when that happens. I hope your next read will be a million times better!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼"

Thank you kindly, Sarah. 🤗💕


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