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The Correspondent by Virginia      Evans
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it was ok
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This novel is made up entirely of letters Sybil wrote to family, friends, ex lovers, and even strangers - there isn’t a single line of third‑person narration.

Virginia Evans drops the traditional all‑knowing narrator and hands all the puzzle pieces to us. As readers, we have to play detective, piecing together Sybil’s life from shifting dates, subtle changes in greetings, and scattered hints.

That slow, piecemeal reveal feels fresh and immersive, even giving off a bit of voyeuristic thrill. Honestly, the book’s biggest strength lies in its narrative form.

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But no matter how clever the form is, it can’t hide the coldness of Sybil. She is really hard to empathize with - at times she just made me angry. Her lifelong habit is pouring emotions into letters and sealing them away. It looks sensitive and delicate on the surface, but it’s really just avoidance. She’s trapped in guilt and self‑pity, hurting her loved ones along the way.

She kept crucial truths from her ex‑husband, treated him with distance, and froze their relationship for years. When he was dying and reached out with a letter, she ignored it. After he passed, she didn’t even attend the funeral. Instead of reflecting, she felt wronged, claiming he hadn’t kept his promise to never leave her. That victim mentality, set against the harm she caused, makes her suffering feel more like self‑indulgence.

Her so‑called “late‑life awakening” comes way too late and feels calculated. At 79, when her eyesight fails and she can’t live independently, she suddenly decides to “live fully.” She enjoys the pursuit of an old friend while conveniently cozying up to a widowed neighbor when she needs help. That is survival instinct, not awakening.

Even worse is her moral absence. A desperate young mother with a child comes to her for help, but Sybil, consumed by her own grief, coldly turns her away - thinking others should suffer too. That choice indirectly leads to tragedy. It’s a short episode, but it completely shatters her image as a “sensitive intellectual woman.”

And then there’s the ending, which is the most controversial part. Evans gives this evasive, hurtful woman a nearly perfect wrap‑up: late‑life romance, world travel, family reconciliation, universal forgiveness. As if simply deciding to change at 80 erases all past sins. To me, that logic is naïve and cheap. Hundreds of pages of moral tension collapse in the final chapters. I’m forced to confront a, selfish soul, only to be handed a sugary happy ending at the last minute.

So yes, to me - the book’s formal experiment works - the letters build a unique literary world, but in terms of character and content, it’s really disappointing, even infuriating. Sybil’s self‑centeredness, avoidance, and moral indifference cancel out the charm of the form.

I think Evans wants us to believe that anyone, even at 80, can find redemption and happiness if they choose to change. That ending may comfort readers who crave warmth, but rationally, it’s too fairy‑tale, too idealized, and it dodges the hard truths of human flaws and moral dilemmas. A more honest, imperfect ending would have fit Sybil better and dug deeper into the darker side of humanity.

In the end, no matter how beautiful the letters are, they can’t write true redemption.

2.4 / 5 stars
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December 17, 2025 – Started Reading
December 19, 2025 – Shelved
December 19, 2025 – Finished Reading

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Nat ཐི༏ཋྀ This sounded like a nice concept, but the execution sounds disappointing—sorry this wasn’t a good read. Fantastic review, Taufiq!


Shelley's Book Nook Yours is the second 2 star review I read of this one today. I may have to reconsider having this on my TBR. Great review, Taufiq. I love how you explained your reasoning. 🤗💕


message 3: by Belinda (new)

Belinda I agree. I’m halfway through the audiobook and I thought ‘I just don’t like you Sybil’. I think it was the condescending and racist way she spoke to an online help person.


boxer_dogs_dance Thank you Taufiq. I enjoy reading books in epistolary format and I had been looking forward to this one. However I am not sure i want to read about a profoundly selfish main character right now.


Laysee Oh my, Taufiq. I appreciate your perspective of Sybil and cannot disagree with your take on her character. Her moral absence and indifference is quite appalling. Now I wonder why I rated it so highly.


Casey Reads 🌸 Very detailed review. I would not be able to enjoy this based on your review, so definitely will be skipping this one!


Casey Reads 🌸 I can’t deal with characters who lack redeemable qualities for a good part of the book


message 8: by th. (new)

th. Had to reconsider my TBR bcs of this review. If I did go through it, i’d think her indifference etc would affect my experience reading it a lot. Thank you so much Taufiq!


Rosh Oh, I thought I was an outlier in my opinion but you've gone even further to the dark end. :D I completely agree with your opinion on Sybil. I don't understand how so many readers found her relatable. I simply couldn't stand her behaviour. The neat ending made it even worse. Now I think I've been too generous, haha. Excellent review, Taufiq. Thanks for the company in being disappointed by this widely praised book.


Chris St Laurent Great review Taufiq. There are so many positive reviews for this book, you got me thinking I almost want to read it to see if I agree.


message 11: by Lisa (new) - rated it 4 stars

Lisa I appreciate your thoughts here Taufiq. I saw something in Sybil that you did not. I saw her trying and just not able to get past her disfunction. That gave me some empathy for her. And I did see a more gradual change. As for the ending, I think I needed a little more light in my life when I read it, so I was satisfied to see things turn out well for a woman who embraced finding her early former self and returning to some of those good qualities with the wisdom of her life experiences.


message 12: by Zaynab (new)

Zaynab I have this on my tbr so didn’t completely read your review coz of spoilers. Sorry this didn’t work for you and well, I’m not so sure whether I want to go ahead and read it now 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️


Karen I'm so sorry you didn't have the same feelings about this book that I did, Taufiq. I still appreciate your thoughtful review. Thank you. ☺️


message 14: by Kealyn (new)

Kealyn The character sounds incredibly distant and sort of self obsessed. I understand why it was hard connecting with her.


Jayme C (Brunetteslikebookstoo) Sorry this didn’t work for you! Hope your next is more to your liking..


DeAnn Yes, hope you like your next read more!


Taufiq Yves Nat ཐི༏ཋྀ wrote: "This sounded like a nice concept, but the execution sounds disappointing—sorry this wasn’t a good read. Fantastic review, Taufiq!"

Thanks, Nat - the idea was intriguing, but the reading experience just didn’t live up to it.


Taufiq Yves Shelley's Book Nook wrote: "Yours is the second 2 star review I read of this one today. I may have to reconsider having this on my TBR. Great review, Taufiq. I love how you explained your reasoning. 🤗💕"

Thanks, Shelley - I wanted to lay out the reasoning clearly since the book’s flaws really stood out.


Taufiq Yves Belinda wrote: "I agree. I’m halfway through the audiobook and I thought ‘I just don’t like you Sybil’. I think it was the condescending and racist way she spoke to an online help person."

I felt the same, Belinda the way she spoke to the help person exposed a deeper cruelty.


Taufiq Yves boxer_dogs_dance wrote: "Thank you Taufiq. I enjoy reading books in epistolary format and I had been looking forward to this one. However I am not sure i want to read about a profoundly selfish main character right now."

Appreciate your not, boxer - the format is appealing, yet the character’s coldness can be draining.


Taufiq Yves Laysee wrote: "Oh my, Taufiq. I appreciate your perspective of Sybil and cannot disagree with your take on her character. Her moral absence and indifference is quite appalling. Now I wonder why I rated it so highly."

Thanks for sharing that, Laysee - Sybil’s indifference really does stand out once you sit with it.


Taufiq Yves Casey Reads 🌸 wrote: "Very detailed review. I would not be able to enjoy this based on your review, so definitely will be skipping this one!"

Thanks, Casey - I just wanted to be thorough since the flaws really outweighed the promise.


Taufiq Yves th. wrote: "Had to reconsider my TBR bcs of this review. If I did go through it, i’d think her indifference etc would affect my experience reading it a lot. Thank you so much Taufiq!"

Thanks, th - Sybil’s indifference really does weigh heavily on the reading experience.


Taufiq Yves Rosh ~catching up slowly~ wrote: "Oh, I thought I was an outlier in my opinion but you've gone even further to the dark end. :D I completely agree with your opinion on Sybil. I don't understand how so many readers found her relatab..."

Glad we’re in the same camp, Rosh - Sybil’s behavior and that neat ending really made it hard to stomach.


Taufiq Yves Chris wrote: "Great review Taufiq. There are so many positive reviews for this book, you got me thinking I almost want to read it to see if I agree."

Appreciate your note, Chris - the positive buzz is strong, but Sybil’s character really tested my patience.


Taufiq Yves Lisa wrote: "I appreciate your thoughts here Taufiq. I saw something in Sybil that you did not. I saw her trying and just not able to get past her disfunction. That gave me some empathy for her. And I did see a..."

Thanks for sharing your perspective, Lisa - I can see how her struggle might read differently depending on what we bring to it.


Taufiq Yves Zaynab wrote: "I have this on my tbr so didn’t completely read your review coz of spoilers. Sorry this didn’t work for you and well, I’m not so sure whether I want to go ahead and read it now 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️"

Thanks, Zaynab.


Taufiq Yves Karen wrote: "I'm so sorry you didn't have the same feelings about this book that I did, Taufiq. I still appreciate your thoughtful review. Thank you. ☺️"

Thanks, Karen.


Taufiq Yves Kealyn wrote: "The character sounds incredibly distant and sort of self obsessed. I understand why it was hard connecting with her."

Thanks, Kealyn.


Taufiq Yves DeAnn wrote: "Yes, hope you like your next read more!"

Thanks, DeAnn.


message 31: by Lorna (new)

Lorna Thank you, Taufiq. I appreciate your honest review. And your impressions are exactly why I did not read this book knowing that I would be an outlier, too.


message 32: by Darla (new)

Darla Ouch! This is the lowest rating I have seen yet. You make a strong case!


message 33: by K (new) - rated it 5 stars

K I truly appreciate your honest thoughts about this popular novel, Taufiq, It's odd for me because I loved this one while I was reading it, despite a few qualms I had, but after reading one of my trusted GR friend's criticisms of it in her review I found myself agreeing with her and now I feel the same way about your criticisms. A thoughtful review, Taufiq, and one that made me reflect on my own reading experience.


message 34: by Tina (new) - added it

Tina You know I started this one on audio but just did not feel engaged so I gave up on it. Thanks for your honesty.


message 35: by Tiffany (new) - added it

Tiffany Oh no! Sorry it was a miss for you. I’m reading it now!


message 36: by Lynn (new)

Lynn Redemption is a good theme and I truly believe most people can find it if they try. You do such excellent psychological breakdowns on characters in the books you read. Well done.


message 37: by V.D. (new)

V.D. Taylor Hope your next read is better!!!🖤💗


message 38: by Baba (new)

Baba A nicely balanced and well questioning critical review Taufiq, thank you :)


message 39: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Oh dear! Onwards and upwards Taufiq.


message 40: by Rain (new)

Rain This one is on my bookclub list for next year! I’m curious to see how it reads. Appreciate your honest thoughts here.


message 41: by JustJJ (new)

JustJJ Great review, Taufiq 💙 It's a shame the character and content lets this one down! The clever form sounds interesting though!


message 42: by Jenny (new)

Jenny K (On partial break) Super review. I appreciate your insight into what's actually taking place here, rather than what the author wants the reader to understand. Thankfully there are readers who still value moral clarity.


message 43: by Nancy (new)

Nancy I plan to read this, so I’ll have to circle back to your full review when I’m done. Since I’ve mostly read glowing reviews, I’m really looking forward to your thoughts on it. I always appreciate a different view. Sorry this one didn’t work for you, Taufiq.


message 44: by Holly (new)

Holly  B Fair review! 💞


Terrie  Robinson Although I enjoyed this one more, I appreciate your thoughts, Taufiq! Sybil is definitely an acquired taste!!


message 46: by Genni (new) - added it

Genni I’ve seen mostly lower ratings on this one. Good to know, appreciate the review. I will pass!


Taufiq Yves Lorna wrote: "Thank you, Taufiq. I appreciate your honest review. And your impressions are exactly why I did not read this book knowing that I would be an outlier, too."

I hear you, Lorna - not every book is meant for every reader and that’s perfectly fine.


Taufiq Yves Darla wrote: "Ouch! This is the lowest rating I have seen yet. You make a strong case!"

Not every read works out and that’s part of the journey, Darla.


Taufiq Yves K wrote: "I truly appreciate your honest thoughts about this popular novel, Taufiq, It's odd for me because I loved this one while I was reading it, despite a few qualms I had, but after reading one of my tr..."

That means a lot, K - reflection often reveals layers we didn’t notice while caught up in the moment.


Taufiq Yves Tina wrote: "You know I started this one on audio but just did not feel engaged so I gave up on it. Thanks for your honesty."

Thanks, Tina.


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