save a horse, ride a cowboyyy!!

its crazy this all started because trans women came up with shorthand for the question "are you affected by transmisogyny" and the fact that your answer might be "no" drove people into a fucking frenzy

Selfie from the summer

got 5 (five) compliments on my new cigarette earring yesterday

How come TME people’s truama from cis men overrides trans women’s safety and housing (due to how we remind them of men?)…

but when TMA people have trauma from men, we “have unhealthy relationships with transmasculinity” when we have trauma responses to people who are actually men?

Imagine if a trans woman or other TMA person suggested “No men, cis or otherwise, due to personal trauma from men” on a housing ad. The entire queer community would throw a fucking fit.

But in EVERY SINGLE QUEER SPACE EVER “Afab-only” is somehow acceptable discrimination to bar trans women from life-saving resources, spaces, and housing.

cant believe yall are claiming to be transfem and transmasc at the same time now as if afab transfems werent bad enough. im going to start killing

like the willful ignorance and self absorption it takes to go "yeah my agab doesnt have any bearing on my gender so i can be trans in both ways!" is astounding and to then join a conversation on transfeminism saying "what about me?" as if you dont clearly misunderstand the first fucking thing about BEING TRANSGENDER. what the fuck are you doing

i went to tragedy island but i was too late

i love the phrase 'i dont go here but...' like you're so in awe of my work you have decided to trespass into a fandom you dont belong to just to appreciate it. i love everyone who doesn't go here

something that is still a culture shock for me is eagerness of Americans to wear pajamas in public

In theory, maybe I get the “we’re all just playing with barbies, they’re fictional characters, no interpretation is incorrect because it’s an interpretation” argument. But actually no, not all takes are equally valid. Framing something as an interpretation doesn’t mean it inherently has merit. Some takes are completely incorrect and betray a fundamental misunderstanding of the source material. They just aren’t a reason to harass people or send death threats