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Elise (Taylor’s version)

@bpd-swiftie / bpd-swiftie.tumblr.com

BPD Warrior❤️‍🩹 Graphic Designer👩🏼‍💻
Sharing what I learned from therapy and DBT group, my life, and BPD thoughts.
Taylor Swift is keeping me alive💗

If you’re living with BPD like I am you know that stability is hard to achieve and even harder to stick to on a daily basis. DBT skills are a vital part of us getting through the ups, downs, rages and triggers, with as little collateral damage, or damage to ourselves, as possible. After going through DBT group therapy I decided to start making my own guide graphics for the skills because there simply weren’t enough cute visuals available. I often think that something has to be aesthetically pleasing for us to pay attention, and for me that means lots of colors! I make these graphics, using Photoshop and DBT skill print outs that are easily found with a google search. I also think the less clinical language can go a long way💗

*I’m not a licensed clinician or therapist, I’m a woman who’s been battling her BPD for over 16 years. Thankfully, with the help of many professionals, supportive family and friends, and some key reading, I’ve survived past the “average life expectancy” for BPD, which is 27 years of age. I’ve been practicing DBT on and off over the years, at times finding it hard to use and unhelpful in moments of distress. Only this year, after my second hospitalization, did I find the right info to finally understand how it should work and it clicked. I still struggle with the daily triggers, bouts of depression, and the feelings of emptiness, but I do find that I’m able to survive it all because the DBT skills have actually sunk in. I’m also very aware that therapy is a privilege that many can’t access, and sadly even when you can, BPD is a tough thing to diagnose, treat properly, and get the help you need. So now I’m just trying to spread the understanding, help others figure out how DBT can work, and of course, breakdown the stigma associated with BPD.

the social norm of “its your ethical responsibility to be constantly aware of, and angry about, every bad thing happening in the world at all times, even if you can’t possibly do anything about it” is possibly the best way I can imagine to create burnout and cynicism and depression in a population, so good job guys

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Watch her grin, still somehow astonished-grateful-impressed, as she sings her part of a duet as a solo, and a crowd of seventy thousand sings the overlapping vocalizations of the male part, back to her and with her, in near-perfect harmony.  Watch her turn her face up as she’s screaming at the sky; hear the crowd screaming her stolen lullabies into it with her, a decisive victory over those who supposedly owned her voice.  Watch her set her chin on her piano and process the first standing ovation, after she has confessed that her champagne problems cost her a happy ending.  Watch her clear her throat, under the scrutiny of a thousand cameras, between the lyrics of her favorite love song; watch the tears roll over makeup that’s survived dozens of rainstorms, because the whole world just found out she was too much for the man she wrote that song for.  Watch her cry after hearing her grandmother’s voice playing from speakers taller than she is, harmonizing from beyond the grave with Taylor’s “if I didn’t know better, I’d think you were singing to me now”—as an entire stadium hears the vinyl from Marjorie Finlay’s closet of backlogged dreams, left to Taylor to realize six decades later. 

"We Were The Thing Happening To Us" (work in progress)

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MICHELLE YEOH by Domen & Van de Velde for L'Officiel (December 2025)

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Didn't you wake up feeling that you had no future? Didn't you walk around drained of all meaning, without the right to even the slightest danger? Didn't you have to promise, a hundred times, not to die?

Rainer Maria Rilke, from "The Prodigal Son" in The Selected Poetry of Rainer Maria Rilke
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HEADS UP: The U.S. Postal Service quietly changed how postmarks work.

Mail is no longer automatically postmarked with the date you drop it off. Instead, the postmark now reflects the date it’s first processed by an automated sorting facility — which can be days later.

If you mail something right at a deadline, the official postmark could be later than your drop-off date and may be considered late.

If mailing date matters to you, go inside the post office and request a hand-stamped postmark.

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LET 👏🏻 ATTRACTIVE 👏🏻 PEOPLE 👏🏻 FUCK 👏🏻 IN 👏🏻 MOVIES 👏🏻

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not a fan of the idea that white supremacists or american nationalists will be swayed against ICE by renee good’s murder cuz she was a white woman. i don’t know why leftists and liberals think white supremacists generally care about the wellbeing of white women lol. white women are either viewed as cattle to be herded, property, tolerable only when they uphold white male supremacists and their own relative subjugation, or an accelerant of social decay for opposing white male supremacy. this will change nothing for that group.

i love the feeling of getting “clearer” as you get older, like with each year there’s less room for messing around or pretending or playing a game with something you know deep in your heart is not right for you. it’s like your brain just gets better and better at cutting you off as you consider something and tells you “no that is not for me” before you can jump in. and it’s not as if things get more serious, but the opposite. you have freedom in giving yourself more and more permission to purposefully live life and go after whatever you want and to love freely knowing that things are secure in your heart and mind.. at least when i am struggling i know that the “clearing” is really what’s happening

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