hey random post that I wanna get out there
please don’t refer to me as a human, it just feels. weird? I sometimes refer to myself as such but now it feels almost awkward being referred as something I don’t feel as if I am that. I’m aware of what I am, but it still hurts
you can call me anything else, like a machine or a dog or a cat for examples idk. just not a human please :[
bumpig this back yp because its rlly important to me
@ the Hunterkin long post
Bro I feel youuuuuu. My mother's really a mixed bag, she was close with all the wrong people and became an alcoholic narcissist.
But just yesterday, she got an anklet on! And now she can't drink. She's done this before and I genuinely felt like I could care about her, but honestly it's hard to forgive even when I can wholly empathise with her.
Y'see, this is why as a chad Heartkin I have no mother or father. I just spawned. No maternal/paternal love for me, just being a happy little parasite. 😌
oh bro I hope it goes ok:((( but yeah parents are weird. I'm so glad she's trying!!! I really hope things can get better soon, you don't have to forgive her though, you are never obligated to. Stay safe bro!!! Also I'm glad you were able to confirm your identity!!:D
yeah the guilt with empathizing and still not forgiving is real, but you are never obligated to forgive someone, especially when they hurt you. But if you do, that's ok!! Just take your time with your feelings!! :3
Identity is not a moral stance. I’ve said it before, we can agree on that I’m assuming as that post blew up beyond anything I was ever expecting.
I’ll add that identity ≠ harm too.
Can we agree on that?
Being a dragon doesn’t inherently harm people.
Being Fluttershy from MLP doesn’t inherently harm people.
Being doesn’t harm people
Existing ≠ harm.
So why does it suddenly equate harm when it’s about identities that make you uncomfortable and you find disturbing?
Existing ≠ harm.
Actions are what harm people. Not merely existing. You will not melt and die if someone near you identifies as literally anything. Hell, most of the time you won’t even know what they identify as unless they share it with you.
Raise your hand (or reblog) if your life would be easier as your kintype/theriotype ✋

in case you're feeling scared: i have your heart safe in my claws.

yes, you can induce shifts. sometimes you just need to think about it and you mentally shift. think about your phantom ears or tail and you'll feel them. certain music or television shows can have this effect, too. if you ever feel far away from yourself, you can always come crawling back.
this isn't a response to any request, i'm just online window-shopping again and wanted to shout out my favorite fragrance shop since i think the scents they sell can be pretty alterhuman friendly
demeter fragrance is my go-to for unhuman scents. smells that are hard to capture. they have a lot of florals, which is common for perfumes, but uncommon scents like asian pear, basil, and monk fruit. they have enjoyable but strange scents, like the ozone smell of thunderstorms, and the smell of freshly upturned soil (one of my favorites, the scent is called earthworm). they have some smells that are outright weird, like turpentine, funeral home bouquets, fresh tennis balls, and glue
if the sound of smells named things like riding crop, lotus, spacewalk, tarnish, and wet garden sound interesting to you, please check them out! their 0.5 oz/15ml cologne bottles are really conveniently sized. for a fragrance company that makes strange smells, their prices are really cheap. most of their scents can be bought as splash bottles, spray bottles, roll-ons, lotion, body wash, and body oil and have sampler spray bottles
ALTERHUMANITY AND AUTISM FOLLOW-UP SURVEY!
My follow-up survey is out now, regarding the experiences of autistic members of the alterhuman community. Many questions are based off of suggestions from attendees of 2023’s Othercon.
Just like last time, this survey is entirely anonymous, and asks questions regarding autistic alterhuman’s experiences.
Also like last time, this poll has a short time demand, with 10 questions in total.
This survey will run until December 15th.
If you are both autistic and alterhuman in some way, shape or form, I’d love to have your input! I wanna learn all about our experiences, so sharing this around alterhuman and/or autistic circles is appreciated!
Please give one answer per body. This survey includes self-diagnosed autistics!


