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@havenroze / havenroze.tumblr.com

Haven || old || ♑ || he/him || 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈♦️
FFXIV, League of Legends, Dungeon Meshi, Honkai Star Rail, D&D, Legend of Drizzt, Shakespeare.
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I’m opening commissions for the year! Currently looking to fill 5-7 slots, but I’m happy to have a waitlist if I get a lot more interest than expected.

I’ll draw your OCs! Your D&D characters/parties, your WoL, your Tav, your ships (OCxOC, OCxNPC, canon character ships, etc)! N/S/F/W content is cool, more terms and conditions in the form below.

If you want to commission me, please fill out this form: LINK

Reblogs appreciated! Thanks so much in advance 💞

Aimless dating life autobio comic in the year 2025? We're still doing those? Apparently! Image description in alt text.

did you guys know that when you are in bed at night time, you can turn on a lamp, put a really soft blanket around your shoulders and read your book?? and sometimes it will rain??? did you know that???? the wonders of this life do not cease!

I think it should be considered a form of degendering to try to divorce trans people from their gendered histories. My gender doesn't make sense without the fact that I was a little boy, or something like it, before I was a girl and a woman. If you were always a girl, thats awesome, but a lot of people project their dysphoria onto me when I try to talk about my own fucking life. If you think talking about having been a boy makes me less of a woman, that is degendering.

Sometimes I’m talking to a child like hey I’m not mad. I’m not even disappointed really. Your classmates however are going to beat you with sticks if we don’t do something about this.

Listen I know you like clicking the pen. I even have clicked a pen myself once or twice. However.

i think it is important to recognize the ways in which your favorite thing sucks. i think it keeps u normal

prev im so sorry to put you on blast like this but please know this had me in hysterics

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HEADS UP: The U.S. Postal Service quietly changed how postmarks work.

Mail is no longer automatically postmarked with the date you drop it off. Instead, the postmark now reflects the date it’s first processed by an automated sorting facility — which can be days later.

If you mail something right at a deadline, the official postmark could be later than your drop-off date and may be considered late.

If mailing date matters to you, go inside the post office and request a hand-stamped postmark.

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it's a weird emotion when somebody goes "doesn't this just shake you to your core and rewrite your dna and change who you are as a person" and your honest experience of it was that it was ok

Hi y’all, sharing this on behalf of my very dear friend who lacks a tumblr. Hannah and their mom are wonderful, wonderful people who have been through far more than their share of hard times.

I know it’s a difficult time for everyone out there right now, but if you have the ability to help a queer disabled/neurodivergent friend and her disabled/neurodivergent mom, please consider sliding a few dollars their way.

Much love to you and yours

My heart is genuinely breaking for the HHS announcements about putting FDA regulations on binders. Fucked up to the core

What the actual fuck. This is bullshit.

In summary, the FDA is saying that chest binders are ONLY for those recovering from mastectomies and that it is predatory and unsafe for them to be marketed to trans youth (ignoring the fact that they were originally invented for cis men with conditions like gynecomastia). (The specific brands called out are: TransGuy Supply, the Fluxion, GenderBender, ShapeShifter Apparel, Marli Washington Design, TomboyX, FLAVNT Streetwear, Early to Bed, TOMSCOUT, For Them, and UNTAG (according to Advocate))

So what does this mean for you:

  • It will be harder to find binders marked as for trans people (especially the by trans for trans brands)
  • But that does not mean they will not serve the same purpose
  • This will probably lead to more underground binders that are unsafe (like the many Amazon binders)
  • This will put small binder companies out of business (and harm larger ones)
  • Obviously demonizing gender affirming devices
  • This DOES NOT mean you cannot get a binder (many trans organizations and even other trans people will donate binders and give them away for free. See if there are any places local to you or online where you can get one. Also, there are companies who are not affected by this yet (as much as they suck now, GC2B isn't on the list, and spectrum outfitters I've heard is really good and I personally have a Wivov one that is great)
  • You have other methods if a binder is out of the question (trans tape is the biggest one, but I have seen many YouTube videos where people who can sew made their own binder, as well as you have the double sports bra (make sure if you do this one you have on one forward and one backwards to evenly distribute pressure) and tights method (although any form of DIY binder is risky so please fully research what you are doing before you do it and listen to your body!!))
  • You (if possible) should raise awareness about this. Tell people how this will cause more people to end up in the hospital due to unsafe binding practices. Or worse, dysphoria ruining their mental health.
  • This is not the end. We will persevere. We will come out of this stronger.

Please, whether you are binding or not, be safe. ❤️

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