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LewdLadyLily

@lewdladylily / lewdladylily.tumblr.com

Trans woman submissive. Late 30s. Here you will find detailed descriptions of my many kinks, my dominant humiliating me, and me answers to invasive asks about my sex life no matter how invasive (outside of certain narrow limits). I also reblog things I find sexy and talk about my lewder fics here. Last Orgasm: March 19 2025

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I am a trans woman submissive and this blog is primarily about my exceptionally kinky sex life.

First off, I post and reblog sexy pictures, all within Tumblrs terms but within that all bets are off. Mostly you will find drawn or animated porn, I am more comfortable with that for a few reasons to do with consent of models.

You will find detailed and explicit descriptions of the type of sexual activity I get up to including bdsm, sadomasochism (I am a masochist), sex of all varieties (masturbation, oral sex, penetrative, etc), my many experiments with different types of kinks, and my general slutting and sleeping around, though I have not been able to do much of that since covid.

I am a collared submissive with a 24/7 arrangement with my dominant, or at least as close as is practically possible given my other life goals and mental health. We often use this space to play around in. By following my blog you are consenting to at least being a passive observer in some of our sex games.

I tag all the stuff I actually do with ‘IRL play’ I used to do this, but I stopped at some point. Not sure why.

You will also hear about my sexual fantasies, which range from super fluffy to incredibly fucked up. I don’t really dive into the most messed up stuff but I might touch on it briefly (for example, I might talk about the fact that sometimes body horror and such plays into my fantasies, but I wont detail those fantasies) and it is likely that you will see details about rape and sexual abuse fantasies. We don’t kink shame here, though a bit of good natured teasing is fine.

I approach sex and kink as a hobby. It is something I like to talk about and share with people who are interested in these things. I like to hear about kink others are getting up to, new things they are trying, I like answering questions people may have.

With this in mind my inbox is open to asks or direct messages including:

  • Lewd writing prompts
  • questions about kink
  • Comments about your own kink fantasies or experiences
  • Comments about porn you like
  • Requests for written roleplay or long distance sexual play (but talk to me first, don’t just jump right into it).
  • Invasive questions about my sex life. There is no limit here, if I feel like I can’t answer something I will politely let you know but it will not bother me that you asked! Also I don’t think anyone has ever hit that point.
  • I consent to any sexually invasive asks or direct messages you may want to send.
  • Degrading sexual comments. I love degradation play and I am more than a bit of an exhibitionist and have a kink for being sexually used and humiliated by and for strangers. Just don’t fat shame or trans shame.
  • I consent to public degradation on this blog, including through asks or direct messages.
  • Hypnosis triggers. I have many triggers put in place by my dominant that anyone can use and have a variety of effects. You do not have to ask for permission to use any of the listed triggers in any form.
  • I consent to any use of my publicly listed triggers by anyone without need for forewarning. 
  • If you want to try using my as a hypnosis subject in a more significant capacity feel free to message me and we can discuss it :)
  • I DO NOT consent to being sent explicit photographs (dick pics and such), though if you ask I am fairly likely to say yes. I just don’t want it out of the blue.

Most people send messages anonymously. That is fine! If you want you can sign your messages using a pseudonym. Otherwise I have no idea if you are new or someone I talk to regularly. If you want to send a private ask to be responded to only in private that is fine, just make sure you say so! I will not share it with my blog.

Finally, I consent to you saving anything you might find on this blog. I do not consent to the commercial use or distribution of such.

#lily talks is the tag for when I talk with other people or talk about what I’ve been doing. Basically, stuff that is not the pictures I post or reblog

Anonymous asked:

Consider: Cursed bondage gear that forces the wearer to obey the orders of the first person that grabs their leash. But the leash also brainwashes that person to think that the wearer is their slave and this is the most natural thing in the world. It also carries a curse that makes people at large ignore them the same way you would so eone walking their dog. -Anna

I saw this but was not able to respond immediately and then forgot about it! Sorry!

But I love this idea because the only person who knows something is wrong is the victim of the curse, but how are they going to convince anyone to help them break it? It's a function predicament.

Thank you for the ask

Anonymous asked:

All I see is a bad girl who came without her owner's consent. Tsk tsk tsk.You'd better be thinking of how you're gonna make it up to her. :) -Emily

Noooo, not a bad girl! I did my best!

And I am pretty sure Mistress is already planning how I am going to make it up to her -_-

Thank you for the ask

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