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Hello again everyone, I've been coming to find that politics in my state have taken a turn for the worst, and I no longer feel safe here. I, along with two friends - @springles and @lillabeast - have plans to move to Illinois to get out of our respective unsafe situations.

For myself, personally, I'm leaving a deeply religious and red state. My state leapt on the chance to ban pride flags, give the OK on allowing businesses to check your birth certificate before letting you into the restroom, and chips away at more and more as time goes on. I'm afraid things will get drastic.

Unfortunately, as you could imagine, moving across the country is going to be expensive. Between hotels, food, gas, down payment on a place to stay, and the moving truck itself, I don't think getting the things we need scraped together by the end of my current lease (March 1st 2026) is gonna happen. I'm working myself to the bone just trying to make ends meet as it is.

I'm not really sure what else to add, here, I don't want this post to be long-winded but I'm desperate. The moving truck alone is gonna cost roughly 3k, not including gas. Anything at all helps, if you want/need details feel free to contact me.

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Alright you guys know the drill when this post gets reblogged, I’ve gotten a job since my most recent move, but I’m thin on money and won’t get paid for a while, and I have bills coming up that are going to pretty much wipe out my money. I have a $268 car payment and a $65 phone bill, and just over $400 in my account

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My car payment is due tomorrow and I’m waiting to hear back about my starting date, I know with the holidays here money is tight for a lot of people right now, but any help would be very much appreciated

By all means let ur kids dress up however they want, fuck the homophobes who say that letting ur five year old son where a dress is the "gay agenda" or "degeneracy" or whatever, I think it's really healthy to let kids choose how they wanna express themselves

BUT HOLY FUCK! CAN YOU NOT FILM THEM AND PUT EM ONLINE???

It's not a fucking heartwarming moment omg its super voyeuristic to put your fucking five year old in the position of being exposed to homophobic judgements online it's fucking disgusting why am I seeing videos of someone filming their very young children experimenting with gender expression? Why are you people sharing that? It's using your kid for clout while also exposing them to extremely harsh criticism from bigots, it really is not charming at all.

I really hope this Tik Tok user and OP and anyone sharing this video really sincerely reflect on the privacy of children and how fucking dangerous of a position this is to put a kid in. Letting their face go viral and get shared around every single social media site as a stand in for your progressivism when they're not anywhere near old enough to consent to that exposure or that position. This isn't "letting children express themselves", it's exploiting a child for clicks dressed up in progressive language.

For the record when my lil brother was a toddler he wanted to be a fairy for Halloween and my mom let him. You know where we have photos of that? In our fucking family photo album. Not online for everyone in the world to see and judge but in a book in our house. You wanna talk about letting kids express themselves go ahead, talk about it, talk abt ur experiences as an lgbt positive parent; but do not put their names and faces online. It's fucking weird man.

So this post has gotten rather popular without anyone seeing some really relevant follow up details.

The tiktok account posting this, "the mcleod fam" is not a random family posting a feel good video that happened to go viral. It is a single woman who has made an internet career for herself by adopting disabled and neurodivergent children and posting about them on tiktok, instagram, and YouTube.

She does this for ad revenue, using her children, and specifically her children's gender identities, to advertise products and gain clicks. Her posts show the intimate details of her children's lives, discussing in great detail their medical issues, psychiatry process and exploration of identity. It's blatantly exploitative, deeply invasive, and really disturbing to look into.

I am adding this onto this post because I don't want anyone to think this Tiktok user is just a parent who did not know any better. I personally believe that using your children's private lives to gain money and attention is abusive.

Here is one of the pictures on her Instagram that shows how she uses her children's identities to sell products.

I strongly encourage you to block her on insta and tiktok and continue the conversation about how children are exploited on the internet. Do not give ppl like this a platform, stop sharing images of children online. They deserve their privacy and a chance to grow up outside the scrutiny of millions of people.

"Stop scrolling and please help me spread the word, because if I've landed on your page you're most likely either a black woman or someone who cares about black women and the simple phrase I'm about to share could help save a black woman's life.

Doctors are to black women what police officers are to black men. That may seem controversial but I believe it to be true and I speak from personal experience.

If you've seen this TikTok you know that a 2016 study showed that 50% of medical students and residents thought that black people couldn't feel pain the same as white people.

And we learned from this video that because of a 1999 study, to this day, there's a black correction factor for the creatinin levels in black people's kidneys, meaning we're less likely to recieve a kidney transplant if needed.

So if you go to a doctor, feel you aren't getting proper treatment or they refuse the treatment you've requested, say to them the following:

I will need you to document on record that you are refusing the treatment (or medicine) I've requested, and the reason you are doing so."