Longer answer: For years I've shared the photo below as an example of our height difference, it was a photo that I took with a timer when we were on a day trip driving through the local mountains where he pulled into a turnout because I wanted a picture of us together on the trip.
Six years later, when he was in the hospital for his transplant, he asked me to download some photos from his home computer and bring them to him so he could edit them on his laptop. I went through the pictures and saw some photos from this drive and looked in the folder and saw that he had taken a photo of me setting up the shot that I didn't remember him taking, that he had never showed me or talked about, but was the only photo in that folder that he had opened and edited and named.
What's the line from the poem? "I just love the way that men love"?
But also he is so smart and kind and good at doing things and my dog likes him.