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hi, i'm robin, i also go by jude or judie. i'm a 22 y/o from Romania with a Bachelor's Degree in Universal and Comparative Literature, with a minor in English Language, Culture and Literature from the University of Bucharest. i specialised in 20th century american literature, especially horror novels and their adaptations
i don't support censorship of any kind and in any circumstances. i don't believe in immoral art. all art is important and should be preserved. i believe the attitudes in fandom that lead to fights, harrasement and even real world harm, all over the perceived morality of the way some ppl choose to appreciate art is frankly disgusting and i abhor anybody who takes part in such behaviors
i'm a non-binary transmasc person and i use they/he/it/she pronouns. i'm also aromantic, my aromantic identity is very important for me and i talk about it often. i'm not as implicated in discourse as i used to be, but i support trans unity, the use of the term transandrophobia and its iterations (transmisandry, anti-transmasculinity etc), i don't support exclusionism and the presence of radical feminists in queer spaces as i view them as inherently hostile
i'm a feminist and personal pacifist although i believe violence is necessary and sometimes justified in class struggles and in the fight for human rights, i'm just not willing to ever harm another living being outside of self defence. i believe in collaborative effort and civic actions before any drastic action. i don't support people who make a mockery out of activism and treat it like a joke and i'm highly skeptical of people who are more interested in creating community infighting rather than advocate for their communities. i also don't believe in the idea of unique opression, i believe it's impossible for a form of opression to only ever be directed towards some groups and never others. some might call those other groups "collateral damage" but i believe that that it's unfair to the people who deal with those struggles
i reject the idea that the feminist fight is women vs men as it is a reductive, useless and childish understanding of feminism. the actual fight is everyone vs patriarchy, and patriarchy =/= men, but the toxic mysogynistic, sexist, classist, amatocisheteronormative system that hurts everyone regardless of assigned sex, coercively assigned sex or self identified gender
i hold a special place in my heart for the transmasculine community as i used to be part of it. i might be using most regular pronouns online, but irl i use exclusively masculine pronouns and i'm often lumped in with their community. many of their struggles are also mine and the ones i don't share i still intimately understand. that being said i don't allow intercommunity fighting, any trans masc/man who badmouths trans fems/women will be swiftly blocked, this goes for any queer on queer slander
i don't do debates. i don't care for it. u are not gonna change my mind and i won't change yours. i also think that it's distasteful to argue with ppl whose whole point is "this minority is whinning too much" "this minority is not as opressed as they say" "this group of ppl is an acceptable target for my anger". i research on my own all sides of any arguments. but if u try to debate on opression with me i'm gonna block u on sight
i'm professionally diagnosed with ADHD, severe depression, OCD and BPD, i will not tolerate any villanizing of mental illnesses, regardless of circumstances. yes, this even goes for the other personality disorders from the B Cluster (Narcissistic, Anti-Social and Histrionic), and all the disorders under the Schizofrenia umbrella
DNI/DO NOT INTERACT
please remember that first and foremost DNI lists and respecting them are a courtesy and not a right. they are part of an unwritten set of rules created to help everyone have a safer and more pleasurable internet experience. this code is nowadays either misused or completely disregarded. i value this code and respect it, i ask others to do me the same courtesy
if u read what i explained above you will understand the reasons behind this list, the things i didn't mention above will be explained
- minors (i reblog NSFW)
- zionists (as a pacifist i obv don't support genocides)
- anti-shippers/anti-fiction
- exclusionists
- pro contact radqueers (not implicated in this discourse so i won't add more)
- radfems
- ppl against the term transandrophobia
- ppl against transunity
- ppl who endorse terms like "narcissistic abuse" "bpd abuse" misuse psychopath, generally use mental disorders to describe abuse or abusers that have not been recognized as such by themselves or a medical authority
- modern day self described marxists or leninists who don't come from a post-communist country (they have a tendency to be very disrespectful towards the struggles of the ussr and ussr-adjacent countries from the 20th century)
- pro-russia, pro-putin (do i have to explain)
- pro-censorship
- natalists (i find them to be extremely classist and a tad eugenicists as a group)
