Thank you for the ask!!! I'm so happy to hear that people are interested in my oc! Before I get into it, I should mention that ⚠️this story contains fictional DV, child abuse, loss of a parent, and the resulting depression and grief. Part of writing this is very therapeutic for me since many (but not all) aspects of Evelyn and Herman's story are inspired by personal experience. I want to spend time focusing on the recovery aspect of these themes, not necessarily the events themselves (at least not on Tumblr). That means that while heavy angst will be frequent, there will be softer, fluffier bits as well. ⚠️
Okay! That aside, let's answer some questions!
1. Her ex is indeed Herman's father. Evelyn met him when they were both in their final year of high school, and it didn't take long for them to begin dating!
2. Things got... Messy, especially after they got an apartment near their shared college together. Soon after that, Evelyn found out she was pregnant. Her boyfriend became increasingly more controlling of her as time went on, and his egotistical tendencies led to him making several financial decisions that left him in debt to dangerous people (guess who). Evelyn ended up dropping out of college in order to keep up with paying rent and preparing for their baby. Soon she noticed money she had saved in her personal bank account beginning to vanish, and she knew it was somehow her boyfriend behind it.
3. Herman happended. The moment Evelyn first held him in her arms, she knew she would love her baby forever. Her boyfriend, however, felt nothing but resentment. Something must've been to blame for his personal, professional, and financial failures, and rather than reflect on himself, he decided to place the blame on his son. Shortly after Herman's birth, he packed up and left.
Bonus: the grandmother we see in canon is the mother of Evelyn's ex, and was never informed of Herman's existence until CPS tracked her down as Herman's next of kin following... Well. You'll find out :)