half of the COD discourse on tumblr is,

"i don't like this."

and then you ask them, okay, have i inadvertently leaned into a cultural stereotype that i was unaware of or have i handled this subject insensitively because i'll delete it and apologise for my ignorance

and they go "no, you wrote about my sad little meow meow in a way that doesn't reflect well against the picture perfect ideal i have in my head and now i think you should die :["

and the character is a white guy who's a war criminal and tortures people

that or

"this character is straight and you wrote him as gay and that ruins the fantasy i have of sloppy sex with him where he has a breeding kink and calls me princess because i'm 4'3 and could be blown away by a gust of wind"