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Tag 9 people you want to know better

thank you @tackytigerfic for tagging me 25 years ago lmao tagging anyone who wants to join, go for it!

reading: I’ve been on a break for the past couple weeks, my December was hectic af and I’ve read SO MUCH in 2025 (I’m proud to announce I’ve completed my reading challenge of 100 books!) so I’m just taking it easy atm and it feels great. that being said, my last reads were: Beartown by Fredrik Backman, Flesh by David Szalay and O Avesso da Pele by Jeferson Tenório. the first one wasn’t really my jam but the other 2 are excellent!

last film: Knives Out 3

last series: Reheated Rivalry what else??? (been losing my mind on my main @onemadeofglass)

sweet or salty: salty always!

coffee or tea: both but I rely on coffee more often

working on: not getting insane between my hyper fixation on HR and planning 2 extremely stress-inducing work trips 🥲 I’d love to plan some more recs for my bookish blog but I don’t think I’ll have the chance until early March *sigh*

Nine books to read until December

bringing back this fun book game because I’ve been reading A LOT this year and there’s still so much on my tbr but not enough time, never enough time :,) I try to keep track of my reads both on GD and here, and I’m always looking for more recs! no-pressure tagging my bookish pals @magpiefngrl, @sorrybutblog, @squintclover and @lqtraintracks and if anyone else wants to join pls go ahead and @ me so I can take a peek 👀

Tag game (revised)

Can’t remember who tagged me at the revised ask game thing, sorry! I’ll tag @squintclover, @wholahoop, @magpiefngrl and anyone who wants to jump in and do this :)

Last book: I’ve recently finished The Darkness Outside Us by Eliot Schrefer and I am shooketh with the plot twists, such an intriguing and heart wrenching space romance/mystery! I kinda feel like that book was poorly advertised because I’d have never guessed what the story was about judging by its cover. Thank you @aibidil for the rec! I’ve also started The Scottish Boy but have to admit I lost steam after they fucked so early on 😂 I understand this book was originally a fic and I definitely got that feel (not in a good or bad way, just pacing wise).

Favourite animal: 🐶

Last meal: baked sweet potato filled with olives, tomato, spinach and feta! yum

Last text message: 👌🏼

Socks/slippers/bare feet: I love my fun nerdy socks but I’m always bare feet at home

Last thing that made me laugh: probably my dogs making a cute face

Last thing I watched on YouTube: op 3 for Link Click, I am going insane over how gay this show is (now even more then in the previous 2 seasons)

Favorite lazy-Sunday activity: late brunch and reading in bed

Current obsession: Link Click, cozy blazers, and reading as many books as I can per week!

Looking forward to: VACATION (always)

Writing Interview

Thanks so much for the tag @starquestingfordrarry! <333

how many works do you have on ao3? 337

what's your total ao3 word count? 1,454,047

your top 5 stories by kudos

  • Right Hand Red (with freakin’ 40,662; sorry, I just noticed that it had ticked over the 40k mark and I’m flabbergasted and so grateful as well <3 )
  • Hung Like a Horntail
  • Slip Into My Lover’s Hands
  • Weeds or Wildflowers written with sdk / @unmistakablyoatmeal
  • check this hand ‘cause I’m marvelous

do you respond to comments? Er… yes?? Like, very. verrrrry. slowly. But I’ll admit that some will never get answered because I lose steam and then when I start trying again, I start with the newest ones. This might sound horn-tooty, which is not how I intend it, but with the number of stories I’ve written, I get a lot of comments. I’ve found it impossible to keep up, but I do my best, even if my best is sometimes a bit crappy. I do read and appreciate every comment I get though!

what's the fic you've written with the angstiest ending? I don’t really do angsty endings often. When I do, it’s usually a Prongsfoot or something. Of the Drarry fics I’ve written, I have one open ending but it’s still pretty hopeful, and that’s Burning the Ground. 

what's the fic you've written with the happiest ending? All of them. :D My goal in life is to get readers (and myself) to cry with joy at the end of my stories. Some standouts just from memory are Heart Like Neon, Bolts, Take You Home, Jasmine in Bloom, Right Hand Red, Blood and Fire, and The Most Splendid Thing. 

do you write crossovers? Maybe one or two over the last 25 years. So, statistically, not so much. 

have you ever received hate on a fic? LOL of course. :D But I don’t linger on those comments. They’re quite few honestly. 

do you write smut? No, never. 

have you ever had a fic stolen? Yes. 

have you ever had a fic translated? Yes. Quite a few have been. Not even sure how many languages, but I know there are several in Russian, Chinese, and I think both Spanish and Portuguese. 

have you ever co-written a fic? Yes! With the incredibly talented sdk, @the-starryknight, and @nv-md! (And one round robin with like 552 people lol.)

what's your all-time favorite ship? Drarry, my beloved. <3

what's a WIP that you want to finish but don't think you ever will? I don’t really have wips. I’m a chronic finisher. I did start something last year for a friend’s birthday and then pooped out. I ended up writing her a completely different pairing months later. And then I took some of the vibes and ideas from that unfinished fic and wrote them into other fics that I *did* finish, so… Cannibalism. Yeah. 

what are your writing strengths? LOL finishing things! :D Also: smut, for sure. Humor. Sort of achy, hot romances? My trademark is writing tenderness and filth simultaneously. I’ve gotten good at pacing things well, so that beats and arcs feel well-rounded and satisfying, I think. 

what are your writing weaknesses? Ugh, plot!!! Specifically non-romance-or-pairing-based plotlines are difficult for me. Heavy angst. Also stakes. I struggle to up the stakes for my characters enough to give a big payoff. I struggle to make my characters change enough or to effectively write that change in a satisfying way. (This applies more to my original writing than to fic, I think.)

what are your thoughts on writing dialogue in other languages in a fic? I’m not sure what the hot take here is and if there is one I’m missing it. My original novel has a Spanish speaker and he will sometimes slip into Spanish during conversation. I wanted to get that right, so I had a native Spanish speaker (hi @capipuff!) read it to correct my bad Google-translated Spanish. So I guess my thoughts on writing dialogue in other languages in fic is, do your best to get it right?

what's a fandom/ship you haven't written for yet but want to?  If I want to write something, I write it. :D 

what's your favorite thing you've ever written? Oof. Wow. I want to say my original novel, even though it’s also more flawed than my fic tends to be. It’s certainly one of the things I’m most proud to have written. <3 Usually my favorite fic is the last thing I’ve written and that’s true right now as well. I love The Most Splendid Thing. But before that, my favorite was probably Jasmine in Bloom, and before that it was Take You Home. Bolts is for sure in the running. Heart Like Neon is way up there as well. As is My Name in Your Mouth, because I love that Teddy Lupin with all my horny heart. 

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Ten people I want to get to know better

Tagged by @bonaesperanza, thank you!!

Last song: Space Oddity by Bowie.

Favorite colour: turquoise, teal, certain shades of pink that idk what they're called.

Last movie: I watched Bel Canto today. I loved the novel when I read it years ago.

Last TV show: The Expanse. It's fantastic. One of the best series I've watched.

Sweet/spicy/savoury: savoury.

Relationship status: eternally single.

Last thing I googled: I went to Wikipedia to check details about the movie I watched (Bel Canto).

Current obsession: nothing. I'm going through a pretty anxious time and am focused on getting through the days tbh.

Looking forward to: Making travel plans for Easter.

thank you @magpiefngrl, @wholahoop and @squintclover for the tag! tagging anyone who sees this and wants to join the chain :)

favourite color: purple

last movie: Wicked, I went in with less than low expectations but was pleasantly surprised by both the acting and soundtrack

last tv show: Lioness and Arcane, both excellent!

sweet/spicy/savoury: savoury always 🤌🏼

relationship status: married

last thing I googled: banana bread recipe

current obsession: back on my book reading game and I am committed to making my way though my tbr as fast as possible lol I just finished the AFTG series and will prob go for a quick light read next 🫡 keep the gay recs coming, friends!

looking forward to: this week is gonna be busy af so I just wanna be done with it, but also looking forward to a short vacation break in late February!

Nine Books to Read this Year📚🔖

Thank you for the tag @wanderingdonut 🤩 I have read more novels in the last 6 months than in the last 6 years and it's been so lovely so I was excited to think what to put on my reading list for this year.

The burning chambers and labyrinth are firsts in a series so I'll hope to read the whole series too but thought that would make for a boring nine!

thank you so much for the (non-official hehe) tag @squintclover! I loved seeing your picks 😍 one of my 2025 resolutions is to read more than I did last year (which was 100% more than I did in previous years lol, baby steps!). most of my tbr is made of queer fantasy recs I received from fandom friends, and then some. I can’t wait to check these out! I’d love to see what @magpiefngrl @lqtraintracks @tackytigerfic @aibidil and @sorrybutblog are reading next!

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Pinterest Tag Game
rules: go to pinterest, search "your name + core", post six pictures and tag six people <3

I actually used my middle name because my legal name gets me something very obvious and Rory just gives my gilmore girls stuff...

thank you for the tag my lovely, this was very fun! love those aesthetics for me 😍 no pressure tagging my pals @garagepaperback @smehur @danpuff-ao3 @julcheninred and anyone who’d like to join! feel free to @ me

Anonymous asked:

tag game! (if you want to, of course) - name a fic you love for each letter of your username (e.g., someone might say 'e' 'eucalyptus' by ...)

also, (possibly late?) happy birthday! hope you have a wonderful year! 💜

Thank you so much anon 💜 and thank you for the tag game, this was fun! I almost went with my main url so I could include more fics lol thought it would be fun to do it rapid fire style with the first fics that came to mind:

Spoiled Little Brat by fast_brother

In Dreams by Moonflower_Rose

The Superfluous Man by peu_a_peu

Permanent by citrusses

Rich Friend by iota

Can't Sit Still by wilteddaisy

Sun Thief by BlackRose532, floydig

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🎄❄️Trim My Fir❄️🎄

It's the holidays! Thank you for the tag @polaroidcats I absolutely love these and will be tagging a whole bunch of you!

  1. Come decorate my tree with cute messages (if you want!)
  2. Make one of your own
  3. Tag me and a load of other pals so we can leave you cute holiday messages!!

yasss the cute holiday trees are back!!! thank you my dear @squintclover for the tag, here’s mine if anyone feels like leaving a treat (absolutely no pressure!)

I’m the worst at tagging people bc I stress about bothering others so please consider this an open invitation, go create your own cute tree and tag me so I can check and leave a message! happy holidays!!! 🎄❄️

10 people I'd like to get to know better

very late to this, but thank you for the tag, @smehur! tagging anyone who’d like to join

Last song: Pretty Boy by Lennon Stella

Favorite color: purple

Last book: Family Meal by Bryan Washington

Last fic: trine by toyourdetriment (tedrarry)

Last movie: Beetlejuice 2

Last TV show: 3 Body Problem

Sweet/spicy/savoury: savoury

Relationship status: married

Last thing I googled: a manhwa title in English

Current obsession: sleep, Sunday lunch at the local 🇵🇹 spot, my bl sideblog @pink-heart-jam

Looking forward to: Christmas!

Tag game

Thank you @vivantesopales for tagging my main! I’ll reply here if that’s okay ☺️ open tag, jump in if you like!

Coffee or tea | early bird or night owl | chocolate or vanilla | spring or fall | silver or gold | pop or alternative | freckles or dimples | snakes or sharks | mountains or fields | thunder or lightning | egyptian mythology or greek mythology I ivory or scarlet | flute or lyre | opal or diamond | potions or spells | ocean or desert | mermaids or sirens | masquerade ball or cocktail party | butterflies or honeybees | macarons or eclairs | typewritten or handwritten | secret garden or secret library | rooftop or balcony | spicy or mild | opera or ballet | london or paris | vincent van gogh or claude monet | denim or leather

thank you @squintclover! as always let’s do this an open tag thing, if you see this and wanna join just @ me and go ahead :)

Current things

3 ships: Drarry, Harry/Teddy, third ship varies from time to time

Last movie: traditional The Holiday rewatch at Christmas! and that Hunger Games prequel (I forgot the name) before that

Currently reading: just finished Momentum (BL) and I gotta recover from the emotional devastation before starting anything else 🪦

Currently watching: I binged my favorite comfort anime as I do every new year, and I’m finally starting s2 of Jujutsu Kaisen tonight! very excited

Currently consuming: vanilla cold brew

Currently craving: grapes

Getting to know me

Relationship status: married

Favorite color: purple

Song stuck in my head: In a Sentimental Mood

Favorite food: 🇧🇷 beef stroganoff

Dream trip: Japan

Last thing I searched: 2024 holiday calendar

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Thank you for tagging me, @starquestingfordrarry @arminaa8 @drarrymyheart!! This is very cute!

If you're so inclined, throw some ornaments (and funny/friendly/suggestive messages filled with profanity) at my non-denominational tree! And I'll send some back <3

Thank you darling Sly for thinking of me!

I already did my own Christmas tree and am loving to see everyone else’s! This is an open tag reblog, anyone who’d like to play is free to join us - pls tag me on yours so I can see the post and leave a message 🎄❤️

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Idk what i am but my ears are pointy, my eyes are purple, my hair is white, and I'll fight you for fun.

thank you El! this was fun, anyone who wants to play is more than welcome to join and @ me!

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🎄Trim my Fir🎄

I love these little trees, thank you to @drownedlove @polaroidcats @puuvillaa @heartofspells and @theresthesnitch for tagging me to decorate your trees and play along.

  1. Come decorate my tree
  2. Leave a message if you like
  3. Make your own
  4. Tag me and others so we can decorate yours too

VERY MUCH AN OPEN TAG!

Love you all ❤️

Oh what a cute game, I love this so much! Thank you @squintclover for thinking of me 💘 I’ve created my little tree and would love to tag everyone who wants to play - consider yourself invited and pls @ me so I can see! 🌲

2. Leave a message if you like

3. Make your own

4. Tag me and others so we can decorate yours too

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