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Red, the Blood of Angry Men

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Roxy - Ve/Vim/It/Its - Filipino Queer - No one you look up to is better than you are

what am i looking for in a male character? i’m personally partial to little freaks who have suffered more than jesus so write that down

disco elysium probing around a corpse's soft palate up into his brain with your bare hands to find and retrieve the hidden bullet there while kim kitsuragi watches and says "mhm. keep going" sex scene you will always be famous

I'm not against nude dresses, I just want equality. If women show up on the red carpet wearing clingfilm and two sequins, I want men to do the same. I want to see Michael B Jordan's nipples in a mesh top. I want to see Timothy Chalamet's entire ass. I want to see Tom Cruise march out there wearing nothing but a strategically placed satin handkerchief to prove that he's still got it.

Until there's at least five semi-nude men at every red carped event, I suggest female movie stars all wear suits, or if they don't like suits, high-necked long-sleeved ankle-length ballgowns.

Either dress code is good with me as long as it's consistent.

talking about BONES (2005-2017) at work yesterday and someone went “that’s the show with the tension between the two leads, right?” yeah dude. unrelated i want to ask you one million questions about media

debating if it would be funnier to have a bumper sticker saying "my other ride is a [exact make and model of the car the sticker is on]" or "my other ride is a [equally shitty but different car]"

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2008 Honda Civic with the bumper sticker "My other ride is a 2007 Honda Civic"

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My workplace has come a long way when it comes to trans and queer issues on the job. I'm really grateful that it's standard to have a Chosen Name that's used on work documents and that once when someone changed my pronouns from They to She in an article about me, they called a whole meeting to educate folks on why not to do that.

But I am tired of getting invited to all these Women Only baby showers.

For a million reasons I need us to divorce the concepts of womanhood and pregnancy. It's vital to women's rights and trans rights. I have spent years hounded by assumptions about my body and questions from family about When Will I Have Babies. This is one of the primary reasons I don't identify with Womanhood. Pregnancy and motherhood are not fundamental to every female person's life and identity. It is so blatantly sexist to make childbirth and childrearing the exclusive purview of women.

While I was writing this post in line at the grocery store a young dad rolled by with his toddler in a shopping cart, and she was screaming and crying about wanting to buy one of the decorative balloons in the bakery. And he was gently consoling her, "yes I know sweetie it makes me sad too that we can't get a balloon." I told him he was being very patient and he laughed and said "you gotta be!" Give dads some credit and expectations!!!!

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