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-Safe space, everyone welcome! -DON'T BRING DISCOURSE -Robin/Maxx (they/them)~ 20 ~ Bi/NB/Agender/Genderfluid/Polaym
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Welcome to The Trans Advice Blog!

I created this blog years ago to connect with the trans community and hopefully offer some advice or words of positive to those you can. I just wanted to make a post talking about what you might find here.

1. Asks! Please feel free to send them. Whether you’re just telling me about your day, asking for specific advice, telling me about your name, submitting photos of yourself or your pets, or pretty much anything else you can think of! As long as it’s appropriate feel free to say whatever you like.

2. Queer art! I really really want to use this blog to promote queer artists that post their work here so feel free to tag me in your posts if you’d like me to reblog them.

3. Signal boosts! If you have any sort of fundraiser, informational post, or anything you think needs to be spread around please submit a post or send and ask. I’d love to help anyone I’m able to.

4. Reblogs! I try to queue as much as I can so I’m able to have a consistent flow of posts. If there’s anything I reblog that poses a problem or comes from and problematic source please let me know.

5. Nsfw! I’m 20 years old and may from time to time post things that are a little more vulgar. It won’t be porn, it won’t be overly explicit, but sometimes I want to post about kissing fags or something. I’d say I’ll keep it relatively pg-13 but if you’re not comfortable with stuff like that this might not be the place for you. Also I reclaim a lot of slurs for myself, I never use them on people I don’t know without consent but if you’re not okay seeing this you shouldn’t follow me.

6. Overall I just want this to be a safe space for those who need it. I love posting educational things and positivity! I’m always happy to take requests for types of posts you’d like to see.

Link to my personal intro

Here are links to the art I used for my pfp and header!

#marshal talks#the trans experience#transgender#trans#transmasc#ftm#lgbt#trans guy#ftm trans#nb#mtf#transfem#queer
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Donate to Support Leynil's Beloved Dog Pepper's Treatment and Recovery, organized by Leynil Garcia-Hernandez
Hello everyone, my name is Leynil, and this is my dog Pepper!… Leynil Garcia-Hernandez needs your support for Support Leynil's Beloved Dog P
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My childhood dog is in need of medical care that my family nor I can afford. I am out of state, the most I can do is spread this message everywhere I can manage. Please help her out.

I owe my life to my dog. I would not be around if it weren't for her.

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I don’t use this blog anymore but hoping this can get a little more reach!

#dogs#dog
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Anonymous asked:

What do you do if you start feeling internalized transphobia? I'm transmasc and I know I should be proud and happy. After all, trans joy is the greatest protest against those who want me destroyed. But sometimes I wonder why I ended up like this. As much as I enjoy the community and being me, sometimes I ask myself why I did this to myself. Why couldn't I just stay the token girl of the family? Is this all really gonna be worth it? Why can't I just feel proud of myself? What good am I even doing?

Am I being too pessimistic? Am I being irrational thinking these thoughts? Everyone seems so happy, so excited to explore. Am I just being a downer? Should I tell random strangers online about this at all?

I'm sorry if this is really depressing, I'm just really stuck in my own dumb head right now.

It’s perfectly normal to feel the way you’re feeling but you’ve got to try you best not to let it weigh you down. It’s true that life is easier as a cis person, but that’s not your fault. You haven’t done anything to yourself except stop forcing yourself to be something you aren’t. The issue is everyone else, and that’s something we’re all trying to change. Look to your community! Reach out to friends or try to make new ones who might understand how you feel! Just remember that you aren’t alone and the things you’re feeling aren’t abnormal.

#trans#transgender#transmasc#lgbt#answers#advice
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apparently this person who decided detransgender folks are “just cis” has been on a fucking tirade against detrans people now.

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“this gender identity is inherently evil i also think gender and sexuality can be compared directly. you shouldnt have a label, you should describe your identity to me and justify it” ok. shut up.

like listen if YOU think the term “detransitioner” or “detransgender” are inherently tied to fascism, thats a you problem. sorry. not the fault of detrans people who are litterally just existing. this post has a thousand notes btw. lots of them going “oh wow i didn’t know!”

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next up: harassing a trans woman who disagreed with you

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“girls just wanna look like anime boys and will detransition” “if transition sucked for you well then Fuck You In Particular” “i think its ok to fucking. sexually harass other trans women” is anyone else tired

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Anonymous asked:

last week i told my best friend about my new name, and hearing him say it has given me such overwhelming gender euphoria.

soon, i’m going to have to tell my parents, and that will be a bad day. but until then, hearing my best friend’s mouth form the syllables “jesse” will keep me going.

not sure what the point of this is, just wanted to share it with someone :)

Congrats! I hope things go okay with your parents

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Anonymous asked:

I honestly don't know if you can give advice about this, but maybe some good will come out of this ask regardless? I'm a trans man who has recently developed romantic feelings for a lesbian, and I think that may have lessened my masculinity, to the point where I sometimes question whether it would be more accurate to describe myself as non-binary. Maybe this is a common experience? I don't have anyone to ask about this kind of thing lol

Transmasc lesbians definitely exist! As well as he/him lesbians too. There’s absolutely a complex relationship with masculinity to certain people especially certain lesbians. Not every butch identifies in that way but lots of them do! Feel free to explore your identity in any way you want my friend.

#advice
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Reblogged our-queer-experience
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*grabs your hands and speaks to you in a tone that is so gentle* they/them pronouns stop being universal once you learn a person's pronouns. Sometimes that person's pronouns will include they/them and in that specific case you are allowed to keep using those pronouns for that person. In any case where you learn a persons pronouns and that person doesn't use they/them, you should no longer use those pronouns for that person. If you continue to use they/them pronouns knowing that person doesn't use them, you are now misgendering that person. Kindly stop doing that please. Thank you, I love you.

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Anonymous asked:

hey! i’m looking for a new name and i was thinking of Atticus for a first name and Carlisle for a middle name! i’m not really out to anyone irl yet so i was wondering your opinion!

I think those sound nice together but it never hurts just to try things out. You can always change your mind! If you ever need any suggestions for new names you want to try just let me know.

#answers
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Anonymous asked:

I need to share this revelation I had. I had the longest time trying to figure out my name cause I kept trying to find a name that fit me, nothing sticking. Because Romeo fit me but I thought it(for some darn reason) was too fancy a name for me, but I eventually gave in and I'M SO GLAD I DID AT LAST!! I loved the name Romeo, and now I wonder why the heck I thought it was too fancy for me when it fit me perfectly!! Ahfjsjfhjdhf /very pos /gen

But I wanted to share because if anyone might be putting off a name for whatever reason, this is your sign to try it out! Because you might absolutely enjoy the heck out of it and it fit you perfectly! /gen /nm

That’s so great! One of my partners is named Romeo actually! I think it’s a lovely name!

#answers
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Reblogged lifeafterpsychiatry
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ive also come to the conclusion that "laziness" is probably the stupidest, most hurtful, least useful, deliberately cruel concept in the world

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I don't think I've ever seen anyone benefit from being called lazy but I've seen hundreds of people destroying their bodies and minds trying to avoid being called lazy because at some point someone decided that if someone wasn't miserable then that means they're a bad person

#some people also spiral into the deepest pits of their mental health because of this#ever seen a depression room#or seen someone who doesn’t bathe or brush their teeth#even someone who doesn’t eat#often being called lazy makes you feel worse and therefore able to do less#and doing less makes you feel worse#and on and on#until you can’t do anything#AND you feel like shit about it#it’s dangerous#speaking from experience
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Anonymous asked:

im not trying to be mean or anything!! but that one post you reblogged said vaginas are "confusing"? and it kinda made me dysphoric, is that true? is my genitalia confusing for other people? /gen

I’m not sure what you’re referring to anon.

#not advice

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