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WEIRDLY SPECIFIC BUT HELPFUL CHARACTER BUILDING QUESTIONS

  1. What’s the lie your character says most often?
  2. How loosely or strictly do they use the word ‘friend’?
  3. How often do they show their genuine emotions to others versus just the audience knowing?
  4. What’s a hobby they used to have that they miss?
  5. Can they cry on command? If so, what do they think about to make it happen?
  6. What’s their favorite [insert anything] that they’ve never recommended to anyone before?
  7. What would you (mun) yell in the middle of a crowd to find them? What would their best friend and/or romantic partner yell?
  8. How loose is their use of the phrase ‘I love you’?
  9. Do they give tough love or gentle love most often? Which do they prefer to receive?
  10. What fact do they excitedly tell everyone about at every opportunity?
  11. If someone was impersonating them, what would friends / family ask or do to tell the difference?
  12. What’s something that makes them laugh every single time? Be specific!
  13. When do they fake a smile? How often?
  14. How do they put out a candle?
  15. What’s the most obvious difference between their behavior at home, at work, at school, with friends, and when they’re alone?
  16. What kinds of people do they have arguments with in their head?
  17. What do they notice first in the mirror versus what most people first notice looking at them?
  18. Who do they love truly, 100% unconditionally (if anyone)?
  19. What would they do if stuck in a room with the person they’ve been avoiding?
  20. Who do they like as a person but hate their work? Vice versa, whose work do they like but don’t like the person?
  21. What common etiquette do they disagree with? Do they still follow it?
  22. What simple activity that most people do / can do scares your character?
  23. What do they feel guilty for that the other person(s) doesn’t / don’t even remember?
  24. Did they take a cookie from the cookie jar? What kind of cookie was it?
  25. What subject / topic do they know a lot about that’s completely useless to the direct plot?
  26. How would they respond to being fired by a good boss?
  27. What’s the worst gift they ever received? How did they respond?
  28. What do they tell people they want? What do they actually want?
  29. How do they respond when someone doesn’t believe them?
  30. When they make a mistake and feel bad, does the guilt differ when it’s personal versus when it’s professional?
  31. When do they feel the most guilt? How do they respond to it?
  32. If they committed one petty crime / misdemeanor, what would it be? Why?
  33. How do they greet someone they dislike / hate?
  34. How do they greet someone they like / love?
  35. What is the smallest, morally questionable choice they’ve made?
  36. Who do they keep in their life for professional gain? Is it for malicious intent?
  37. What’s a secret they haven’t told serious romantic partners and don’t plan to tell?
  38. What hobby are they good at in private, but bad at in front of others? Why?
  39. Would they rather be invited to an event to feel included or be excluded from an event if they were not genuinely wanted there?
  40. How do they respond to a loose handshake? What goes through their head?
  41. What phrases, pronunciations, or mannerisms did they pick up from someone / somewhere else?
  42. If invited to a TED Talk, what topic would they present on? What would the title of their presentation be?
  43. What do they commonly misinterpret because of their own upbringing / environment / biases? How do they respond when realizing the misunderstanding?
  44. What language would be easiest for them to learn? Why?
  45. What’s something unimportant / frivolous that they hate passionately?
  46. Are they a listener or a talker? If they’re a listener, what makes them talk? If they’re a talker, what makes them listen?
  47. Who have they forgotten about that remembers them very well?
  48. Who would they say ‘yes’ to if invited to do something they abhorred / strongly didn’t want to do?
  49. Would they eat something they find gross to be polite?
  50. What belief / moral / personality trait do they stand by that you (mun) personally don’t agree with?
  51. What’s a phrase they say a lot?
  52. Do they act on their immediate emotions, or do they wait for the facts before acting?
  53. Who would / do they believe without question?
  54. What’s their instinct in a fight / flight / freeze / fawn situation?
  55. What’s something they’re expected to enjoy based on their hobbies / profession that they actually dislike / hate?
  56. If they’re scared, who do they want comfort from? Does this answer change depending on the type of fear?
  57. What’s a simple daily activity / motion that they mess up often?
  58. How many hobbies have they attempted to have over their lifetime? Is there a common theme?

"just write a little every day" ok but what if i write nothing for 3 weeks and then suddenly type like i’m being hunted by god

How to Write a Character with THAT *Sad Aura*

Have you ever stumbled upon a character, who, despite radiating wholesome, positive energy, also has a subtle undertone of sadness? It's kind of intriguing, isn't it? If you've ever wanted to write a perhaps more complex character or explore writing emotions, why not check this out?

What am I talking about?

Let's do a quick introduction as to what I mean. I've said this a couple times already, but to the reader, this character feels despondent even though they act nothing like it. This doesn't mean they have to act happy all the time (like my first example); they might act cold, or apathetic, but the point is they don't act visibly sad.

This faint melancholic mood provides a charming, or even nostalgic feel to the audience through ONE character! Isn't that kind of fun?

Eye Expressions

This character will not show sadness on their face--that contradicts the idea of "sad aura". But you know what they say, right? Eyes are the windows to the soul; they do not lie!

When trying to highlight some of this unhappiness, write about their eyes. Talk about how their eyes look oddly dim sometimes when they smile, or how they don't meet their friend's eyes when they laugh. These cues are simple but powerful.

Adverbs

You always have to be mindful of adverbs, but here especially, adverbs (and adjectives) unconsciously influence how your audience views the character.

For example, avoid saying too much of "smiled brightly" or "talked excitedly". If these are the adverbs you purposefully want to use to portray your character, then by all means! However, these adverbs add a happier connotation, which you must be aware of. If you want something more neutral (which I recommend for the most part), consider using lighter adverbs/adjectives, such as "smiled softly", or "offered lightly".

Reasons

A reason is normally needed for almost everything. Here, you want genuine reasons to back up why your character doesn't ask for help, thus forcing them to work through their unhappiness alone.

This could be because they think other people can't solve the problem, they don't want to bother others, they don't think their issue is a big deal, or they simply believe there's no solution.

Physical Hints

And if all this isn't enough, then drop some physical hints! Perhaps your character gets distracted often, tends to hesitate before speaking, deflects concerned comments with jokes, or has a hard time acknowledging reassurances, even when it's unrelated to their personal troubles. These habits suggest the idea your character has more than meets the eye.

Mood Changes

When people are upset, their mood tends to fluctuate. For most of us, we're typically upset for a short period, so we cycle through emotions such as anger, sadness, and even joy during these moments.

However, if your character is consistently sad, not just for a day or two, their mood might shift on different days. Maybe they're really tired one day, hardly speaking. Maybe the next, they are more frustrated, snapping at people or ignoring them. Maybe the day after that, they are overly energetic, bouncing everywhere and talking all the time, providing a bit of whiplash.

Purpose

Similar to having a reason for their reluctance of reaching out, you also want to ensure that they have a purpose for fighting. Why haven't they given up yet? This is especially crucial when considering the real world, where feeling upset leads to a lack of motivation.

So, what keeps them going, then? Do they want to fix their regrets? Do they want to change?

Backstory and Actions

To be honest, I wouldn't consider a backstory an absolute necessity, but I highly suggest creating one. Why? Because you can accurately identify the reason for your character's guilt, regret, and sorrows from the past with an actual backstory.

The events of your character's past always influence their future actions.

For example, if they were a part of a severe car accident in the past, perhaps they only feel comfortable when they are the driver in the future because that means they can control the car.

Conclusion

This character is not especially different from any other character, besides the fact that they are neither obvious nor overly secretive of their genuine feelings.

With that being said, focus on embodying their eye expressions, be careful about which adverbs and adjectives you choose to use--I recommend choosing ones with more neutral connotations for a sense of melancholy, explain why your character keeps their sadness to themselves and why they keep fighting despite it, show mood fluctuations, drop physical hints, such as actions and/or specific personality traits, and make sure to connect their past to their present!

Happy writing~

3hks ^^

20 Ways to Show Extreme Fear in Your Writing

As I dive into researching signs of fear for my horror WIP, I wanted to share some of the most compelling and visceral reactions I’ve come across. Whether you’re writing a chilling scene or crafting a character’s panic, these 20 signs of fear can help bring tension and realism to your story.

Physical Reactions

  1. Hyperventilating — sucking in air but never feeling like it’s enough
  2. Chest tightens — feels like a weight or hands pressing down
  3. Limbs shaking violently, knees buckling
  4. Complete loss of muscle control — collapsing or unable to stand
  5. Cold sweat soaking through clothes
  6. Heart hammering so hard they feel it in their throat or head
  7. Tunnel vision — the world narrowing down to one terrifying focal point
  8. Ringing in the ears or sudden deafness, like the world drops away
  9. Dizziness / feeling faint / vision blurring
  10. Dry mouth — unable to speak or even scream

Uncontrollable Behavior

  1. Screaming / sobbing / gasping — involuntary vocal outbursts
  2. Panic run — bolting without thinking, tripping over everything
  3. Clawing at their own skin / chest / throat — like trying to escape their body
  4. Begging / pleading out loud even if no one’s there
  5. Repeating words or phrases — “No, no, no” / “This isn’t happening”
  6. Hiding instinctively — diving under tables, closets, or corners
  7. Desperate grabbing — reaching for someone, anything solid
  8. Loss of bladder or bowel control (for extreme terror)
  9. Total mental shutdown — frozen, slack-jawed, staring blankly
  10. Memory blackout — later can’t recall what happened during the worst moment

Biggest Mistakes I See While Editing

These aren't things that you should obsess over while writing your first draft, but if a scene feels flat, this could help:

  • Sentence length. Vary your sentence length, seriously; sometimes you can change a whole paragraph from flat to exciting by making one sentence only two or three words and by making another an extended sentence - a lot of people have a tendency, especially when editing, to make every sentence a first part, a comma, then a second part. Try changing it!
  • Dialogue tags. Have you perhaps obsessed over dialogue tags and now you have a hundred different ones? You don't need the word questioned. You really don't. Similarly, where someone might have used a hundred different dialogue tags, said can work better; sometimes you don't want a dialogue tag at all.
  • Vary paragraph lengths. Not every paragraph wants the exact same set of sentence lengths.
  • Take a hike. If it sounds terrible, sometimes it's not the sentence. Go on a walk, touch grass, read a book, watch a film; stop looking at the work and do something else. It will feel evil if you keep staring at it.
  • Wanting to be poetic to the point of being unreadable. Purple prose is real, but it's probably not the problem. Sometimes, however, you can say grass, and not "verdurous green malachite swayed like a dancer along the legs of the local children".
  • It's okay to tell the reader something. Often, the way to use telling instead of showing is a matter of pacing, so ask yourself is this action important? Opening a door to find a monster behind it can use suitably long retelling, that builds tension; opening a door to get to the other side mid conversation not so much.
  • Trust yourself. Don't go into editing thinking you're awful. Sometimes, you will know best. I'm not telling you to never take critique, but you don't have to take all of it. It's your story, and you know what you want to do with it.

Of course, there's no need to take my advice. Use what works for you and leave the rest. I hope this helps!

writers say “kill your darlings,” but what they don’t tell you is you’ll mourn those darlings for the rest of your life and bring them back in a slightly altered form in your next project.

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CALLING ACTIVE WRITEBLRS

Hi hello. My dashboard as been feeling sparse the last few weeks and I want to get some more writers on my feed. I made one of these a few months back that introduced me to so many new people so I'm back again to find new writers

My main genres/tropes/yada yada are:

  • Fantasy - Dark, High, Low stakes whatever just give me that mythical feeling and I'm yours bbg
  • Sci-fi - I've been trying to get more into it
  • Literally any romances - Slow burn, meet cute, meet ugly, they fell first they fell harder, star crossed lovers, whatever. give me it all
  • I'm a dragon fiend

Please interact with this so I can check out all your beautiful blogs and devour your writing. I offer you a tutter mouse for your time thank you

please please please please reblog if you’re a writer and have at some point felt like your writing is getting worse. I need to know if I’m the only one who’s struggling with these thoughts

Good news! At various points in your development, it is!

As you write, you level up in little ways. It's not like D&D where you get a level all at once. Oh, no. You get tiny improvements to your skill tree, and there will be points where your build is entirely unbalanced. As you adjust to these changes, you will naturally regress in some areas. This is just your mind and overall skill level getting ready for the final leveling, where you're briefly fully balanced again!

TL;DR: Regression is a natural part of improvement, and while it's frustrating as hell, if you keep going, you can write through it.

Daily Writing Challenge

  1. Write 5 sentences for your WIP right now. (x)
  2. Imagine a place where you would like to be and write about what you would do there. (x)
  3. What are your OCs pet peeves? (x)
  4. Write a 10 sentence long short story about the object next to you. (x)
  5. Write a summary for a book you would love to read. (x)
  6. Write down 10 words that describe your MC. (x)
  7. Write a micro story about an unusual love. (x)
  8. Explain your MCs motivation in 3 sentences. (x)
  9. Write a poem about an empty house. (x)
  10. Write a 5 sentence long short story from three different perspectives. (x)
  11. What nicknames does your MC have and who gave them to them? (x)
  12. Write a new piece of lore for your WIP. (x)
  13. Write a micro story about someone saying "thank you". (x)
  14. Write about one your OC's tattoos or someone getting one done. (x)
  15. What do you admire about your MC? (x)
  16. Write the dialogue for a scene that's been on your mind. (x)
  17. Write a road trip scene. (x)
  18. Write about your MCs favourite outfit. (x)
  19. Write about something that you can see from your window. (x)
  20. Write about a normal day in your MC's life. (x)
  21. Write 100 words today. It doesn't matter about what. (x)
  22. Write a funny scene. (x)
  23. Write down everything on your mind for five minutes. (x)
  24. Write about your OC's first meeting. (x)
  25. Write a scene in a grocery store. (x)
  26. Write a micro story about an artist and their muse. (x)
  27. Write an end scene, without the beginning. (x)
  28. Write 10 sentences for your WIP right now. (x)

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Too many writers are using generative 'AI' to make their book covers, so I've written a guide on how to make your own cover for free or cheap without turning to a machine.

If you can't afford to pay an artist, you CAN make your own!

I hope this is a helpful overview that covers the basics and points to some free resources.

I annoyed my cat by writing this and not playing with her; you might find it useful?

This is a fantastic guide not only to the technical aspect of cover design but the aesthetic aspect as well!

This is GREAT STUFF. Highly recommend! Exactly the techniques I have used on covers in the past, and they look great!

20 Ways to Show Anger in Your Writing

Here’s a list of 20 signs of anger that writers can use to show, rather than tell, a character’s emotions through physical, verbal, and internal reactions:

1. Facial Expressions

  • Clenched jaw or grinding teeth
  • Narrowed or glaring eyes
  • Lips pressed into a thin line or curled into a sneer

2. Body Language

  • Fists clenched tightly at their sides
  • Tense shoulders that rise or square up
  • Puffing out the chest or stepping closer to confront

3. Speech Patterns

  • Voice lowered to a dangerous, icy tone
  • Shouting or raising their voice suddenly
  • Speaking in short, clipped sentences

4. Breathing Changes

  • Heavy, rapid breathing (nostrils flaring)
  • Sharp inhales and audible exhales
  • Holding their breath as if trying to stay in control

5. Sudden Physical Movements

  • Slamming fists onto tables or walls
  • Pacing back and forth restlessly
  • Pointing a finger or jabbing the air during speech

6. Uncontrolled Gestures

  • Shoving objects off a desk or knocking over a glass
  • Finger tapping or knuckle cracking
  • Wrapping arms tightly around themselves

7. Temperature and Flushes

  • Red face, neck, or ears
  • Visible veins on the neck or forehead
  • Breaking into a sweat despite the situation

8. Eye Movements

  • Eyes darting or rolling sharply
  • Avoiding direct eye contact out of fury
  • Staring someone down with unblinking intensity

9. Words and Tone

  • Cursing, insults, or verbal jabs
  • Sarcasm sharpened to hurt others
  • Accusations thrown in frustration

10. Breaking Personal Space

  • Leaning in closer, looming over someone
  • Pointed steps toward another person to intimidate
  • Physically turning away to dismiss or avoid conflict

11. Physical Reactions

  • Throwing objects or breaking things in rage
  • Punching walls, doors, or inanimate objects
  • Shaking hands or trembling with pent-up anger

12. Posture Shifts

  • Back stiffening and chin lifting defiantly
  • Shoulders jerking or twitching
  • Rigid stance as though ready for confrontation

13. Inner Thoughts (for internal POV)

  • “I could feel the blood boiling in my veins.”
  • “The room seemed to close in on me.”
  • “My pulse thundered in my ears.”

14. Displacement of Anger

  • Kicking objects on the ground (chairs, trash bins)
  • Storming off abruptly or slamming doors
  • Snapping at someone unrelated to the cause of anger

15. Temperature Descriptions (metaphors/sensations)

  • Heat rushing to their face or spreading through their chest
  • A cold sensation washing over them, signaling restrained anger
  • Feeling fire “lick” at their insides or their temper “ignite”

16. Instinctive Responses

  • A growl or grunt escaping their lips
  • Baring their teeth as if instinctively defensive
  • Ripping or tearing something in their grip

17. Silence as a Weapon

  • Pausing dramatically before responding
  • Refusing to speak or meet someone’s eyes
  • The ominous quiet just before they explode

18. Physical Sensations

  • Muscles twitching or vibrating under the skin
  • Heart pounding visibly at their throat or chest
  • A bitter taste in their mouth or nausea from anger

19. Reactive Behaviors

  • Interrupting others to correct or attack
  • Dismissing concerns with a quick wave of the hand
  • Throwing out ultimatums like “Don’t push me!”

20. Lingering Aftermath

  • Hands trembling after the initial outburst
  • A headache, buzzing ears, or lingering tension
  • Regret or shame slowly replacing the heat of the anger

These signs can be layered together to create realistic and powerful depictions of anger, whether it’s smoldering beneath the surface or erupting violently.

If you’re having writers block…READ!!!! CONSUME MEDIA

I feel like I don’t hear that given enough as advice for writers block..just read? Watch tv? Movies? Find inspiration in media.

Writers block is a lack of inspiration, so go collect more.

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