"The nonbinary afab who goes by she/her, dresses femininely, and uses a push-up bra when I—" when you what? What's wrong with her?

Is she not nonbinary enough for you? Is the way she experiences her queerness and how she presents not perfect enough for you? Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny, right? So why is she the exception? Why does she have to hate herself to appeal to your standards? Why is she any less trans—any less worthy of respect—cause it's "not visible"? Queer solidarity my ass. Don't spout this bullshit on Pride, man.

This, but also for enby amabs going by he/him and with hairy chests and beards

y'all need to relearn the word erratic and stop using schizophrenic/bipolar/psychotic as a replacement

y'all need to relearn the word particular and stop using ocd as a replacement

People need to relearn the word "egocentric" and stop using narcissist/narc as a replacement.

People need to relearn the word "impulse" and stop using "intrusive thought" as a replacement

Sometimes you will be a lesbian to your parents and a straight man to your partners parents and a gay man to your partner and a woman to your grandparents and out to your friends and stealth to your classmates and a nice young lady to the cashier at the coffee shop and then people on your computer will ask you to choose which of these identities you ACTUALLY are and which you are Appropriating The Oppression Of because don’t you know they contract each other. You can only be one thing solidly forever

My last words: I am deeply broken. Severe anemia is destroying my body. I will not forgive being ignored without even a share.

My condition worsens every day, and I still can’t afford my medication. Please donate to save my life.

Guys, please don’t leave me alone in this critical moment. Even a small share could ease this pain and give me another chance.

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please help aboud out if you can!

2026

DO THE ABSOLUTE MINIMUM AT WORK. MAKE ART THAT HURTS. ABANDON ALL GUILT AND SHAME. DONT LET THEM KILL YOUR SOUL. BECOME YOUR OWN PERSONAL GOD. GROW SPIKES. DONT LET THEM KILL YOUR SOUL

"I could fix him" whatever. I could beat his ass.

me

urgent help!

as you guys know my grandparents got scammed months ago, some man told them he was going to send them medical equipment they needed for $500 dollars, we were desperate, not only they lost all the money they had, my grandpa has gotten significantly worse, he's starting to lose vision in his good eye and my grandma is losing mobility as well (evidence), I know I sound annoying always coming here and begging for money for my grandparents and for my college, I don't know how to anticipate the grief, losing my grandpa everyday to his illness, losing my college education cause I can't afford it, in México the situation it's just getting worse and even though I feel lonely I have found a community here and I'm forever grateful for that, even a dollar goes a long way and all the money will go to their medical needs since I'm very sure I won't be able to cover college expenses, please share and donate if you can, you can help via p*ypal or any way you want through ko-fi, here's the link! 💕 thank you sm

no donations in 18 days, please consider sharing!!! ❤️

remaking this bc my other post lost traction but hiiiii I am asking for help with affording my yearly shots. I am high-risk so the flu and COVID are both deadly to me. I am disabled and do not have insurance so I would have to pay out of pocket. flu shot is $21.99 and the novavax is about $150. I am currently $75/$175 so I’ve only got $100 more to go! any help is much appreciated. thank you so much 🥹

pypl: https://www.paypal.me/vitagagnon

vnmo: https://www.venmo.com/vita-gagnon

cshpp: $wisteriagagnon

everyone who complains about children's behavioral issues and blames them on the pandemic are blaming the wrong part of the pandemic. like obviously it's from covid infections. not zoom school.

I asked the doctor if there was another way,

and his answer was harsh—it ended with the word death.

He said it clearly: surgery is the only chance to save my wife.

Medication may reduce the tumor, but without surgery, the risk of death remains.

I am a husband begging time to slow down

while it races against my wife’s exhausted body.

Our daughters—Alma, Lama, and Lina—are waiting for their mother,

my wife, whose life is hanging on the cost of a surgery we cannot afford.

Please, don’t let money decide the fate of my wife,

a mother of three young daughters.

Your donation today is the difference between life and death.

Time is not waiting—please donate now before it is too late.

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Please help save Ayaa's life!

Ayaa is extremely sick. She has a tumour that is only growing and worsening day by day.

Medication slows the growth, but it is only a temporary solution and still costs a large amount of money due to the scarcity of medication and medical treatments in Gaza.

Ayaa can't wait for surgery. The longer it takes to raise the funds, the more at risk she is as the tumour grows larger.

Musab still needs funds to provide for his daughters who are hungry, tired, and scared. Lama still has an arm injury and needs her own medical treatments to prevent permanent damage.

His family is in need of urgent help.

Save his wife's life. Save his daughters' futures.

Give them hope during these dark and difficult times.

Help Musab afford the surgery to save Ayaa's life.

Please donate. Whether it's 50, 25, 10, 5, or even just 1 dollar, any contribution helps.

Please give what you can.

If you have enough money to buy a cup of coffee, you have the money to donate to Musab to help save his wife's life.

If 1000 people donated only a dollar each, it could help Musab significantly towards raising money for his wife's surgery.

Imagine what good that money could do.

You could literally save Ayaa's life just by contributing a dollar.

Now imagine if 1000 people donated 5 or 10 dollars each. It could make a difference.

The more help we can get, the better.

Please share Musab's posts with those who can donate and help.

Sharing is one of the best alternative ways to help if you genuinely are unable to donate.

I've also seen people fundraising by selling art and trinkets, holding raffles, and other events to encourage people to donate.

There are many different ways to help, so if you can, please help Musab and raise the funds to help his wife get lifesaving surgery.

Do what you can from where you are.

If we all work together and do what we can, we can make a difference.

Your actions could be a lifeline.

Your donations could be lifesaving.

Don't ignore. Don't scroll by silently. Silence can be a death sentence.

Do something, do anything.

Help save Ayaa's life now!!

Keep her in your prayers.

God bless 🙏❤️

Don’t ignore this.

My wife’s life is on the line.

Surgery is the only chance.

Please donate or reblog—this is life or death.

As the new year begins, I sit inside our cold tent and ask myself:

Do I even have the right to dream?

I dreamed of welcoming this year in a home that protects us, not in a fragile tent that shakes with every wind and lets the cold creep into our nights.

I dreamed that my children could sleep without fear, and wake up to the smell of bread — not the sound of bombing.

My wish was simple.

A small home. A safe roof. Warmth that feels like the homes we lost.

I wished I could vaccinate my children, protect their health, and shield them from illness the same way I try to shield them from war.

But the reality is heavier than my strength, and the war has taken away our choices and our time.

In this new year, I am not asking for the impossible.

I am asking for a kind hand, a compassionate heart, and help that can restore a piece of our humanity.

Maybe my wishes will come true.

Maybe my children will grow up remembering that someone stood by them in their darkest days.

We are still dreaming, despite everything.

And we still believe that kindness has not disappeared.🙏

✅Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is (#514)✅

actually you know what that's exactly it i would rather someone add 5 parantheticals after every sentence than use tone indicators it's 1. accomplishing SO much more in terms of clarity 2. extremely funny to look at depending on how they're used

observe:

"is this real? /gen" — i thought /gen meant "general" for ages. i would not be able to understand this on first sight a few years ago and is thus ineffective

"is this real? (genuine question)" — i fully understand this without issue

"is this real? (genuine question) (can't tell) (very realistic) (looks real) (scary) (photoshop?)" — is not only incredibly clear it's also very funny to read all of these thoughts stapled together while also in their own parentheses. it's also the most useful because now i can actually address all parts of what they are asking me with as much specificity as BOTH of us need

parentheses my beloved (they are for bonus thoughts) (and questions) ( and sidetracks) (like a 2nd conversation on top of the first)

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If you're black and have long covid, think about reaching out to Chimére. She's looking for people to share their experience and engage in talks.