"I don't care what costume he wears, he's not Tim"
Dick, you can't just dump Damian with Tim's team and expect them to just accept him. Especially after Tim told them all about him. Like, what did you expect??
actually y'know what I want this in the body of the post
ngl I always have to scream a little into my hands about this. dick wanting damian to have friends/support/the trust and family he found as a teen titan - yes understandable. shoving him onto a titans team where fully half the roster are tim's oldest friends: what what WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? 😱
good intentions on dick's part but questionable decision-making imo. like it turned out alright fortunately but woof. if you think damian could use more trusted friends then identify some people you think could work and approach them in particular - like raven or rose who you have a rapport with already and know might understand damian's difficult background. don't just toss him on a team and expect tim's friends to help socialize him. that shouldn't be their responsibility, and it's unfair to damian to throw him into a group that is going to be biased against him
it's impressive cassie/kon/bart held it together like they did tbh like they were actually pretty neutral to damian's face. the few pointed comments were very tame. and actually damian was also pretty restrained (for him) except for right at the start, I don't fault any of them tbh
separately I do also find kinda yikes the implication that dick might not have even chatted with tim about this whole idea in advance? re: tim's “damian what are you doing there?” and damian's “I… it was grayson's idea” when tim called the tower.
like dick. did you learn nothing about communicating with your family 😭 why are you letting tim get surprised like this again. this is how you get readers who come away with the idea that dick is clueless and/or inconsiderate during this period smh.
tim was remarkably chill about it actually and it did work out fine but oooohhhh it could have blown up in so many ways, I just wince at dick every single time








