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vaguelyhumanoidshadow

@vaguelyhumanoidshadow

vaguely ⭐️ she/he/they ⭐️ aromantic aegosexual
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Hello please reblog this if you’re okay with people sending you random asks to get to know you better

There is something indescribably lonely about being aro and being terrified that every alloromantic person around you will find someone else and abandon you

ughhh it’s rlly late and i’m trying to read fanfiction on The Ao3 but like i keep seeing shadowy figures (vaguely humanoid shadows i manifested it) int he darkness and so i stop reading and look up sometimes turn on the flashlight when it wont go away and now i’ve just been stuck rereading the same paragraph atelast 12.4 times while squinting at the bright ass light ao3 uses for its background for the past non disclosed amount of minutes

As an aro who has been abused by those who loved me, I want to see more love as horror. Love as suffocation. Love as violence. I don’t want to hear “if they really loved you they wouldn’t have—” as if love is some pure force, some inherent good. Show me love that is evil. Love that is haunting. Love that is poison dressed up as a cure.

shaming people for not perceiving sex as something strictly romantic needs to stop and i’m so serious. it absolutely can be romantic. if you want it to be. but for the love of god stop judging people who don’t see it that way and openly tell you that before anything happens to make sure you know. newsflash! not everyone is interested in romance. not everyone experiences romantic attraction. and you know what? that’s okay!

so next time you want to whine about someone communicating their feelings about sex and romance to you on your first date or whatever like a decent person does, shut up. just shut up and move on. there are people out there who want the same thing as you do. don’t shame everyone else.

sorry to be aromantic but i need more stories w characters who get absolutely no romantic interests, plots, or romantic ending ‼️ gimme ppl w complex interpersonal relationships put into emotional life situations ‼️ but they all get zero bitches ‼️

you ever crave something you can't have? ssssshut up about your ex i mean i want grilled cheese but im scared of the stove

aroace nonbinary people you are everything to me. shout out to the bitches who just said "nah i'm not doing any of that"

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