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me when every single existence rewinds

@weirdlizard26 / weirdlizard26.tumblr.com

🐢 WILL is short for Willard 🐢 they/he/it 🐢 24 🐢 ace 🐢 🐢 i make music! 🐢 check out my music blog and soundcloud! 🐢 🐢 i love answering asks 🐢

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  • i am ukrainian and sometimes i vent about the war. if you see me post about it theres probably an air raid happening at the moment. do with this information what you will
  • i no longer consistently tag war-related posts. it just doesnt feel fair anymore. anything graphic will be tagged with # war stuff and some venting will be tagged with # wl negative. blacklist if you need
  • pr0shippers and tc3sters and terfs fuck right off 🔪🔪🔪

other info

  • white and tme
  • my icon and header are from link click <3
  • sidebar image edit (in browser theme) by anacecherry
  • current biggest interest: mdzs
  • also enjoy at the moment: my ocs, link click, turtles and birds. i like many things and topics but these are the most prevalent in my life right now!

my spanish tutor keeps asking me abt how the war affects this or that part of my life (with my permission! we talked about whether its ok or not to ask me this) and i absolutely dont mind talking about it but every time things get worse and worse and i keep telling him progressively grimmer news and im like. he is not getting paid enough for this

Anonymous asked:

i know gender and sexuality arent exactly the same but “i could survive being with a man” is comphet. “i could survive living as a man” sounds much the same. you’re not meant to live in survival mode. it sounds like you do *need* to transition

That’s… fair

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with 2+ years of hindsight (and almost 10 months of HRT), I want to thank this anon, because I think genuinely this played a significant role in helping me to start transitioning.

I've been so much happier since then, and especially since starting HRT. Yeah, there are new struggles and anxieties and problems to adapt to, but I'm also learning how to enjoy life and find myself and love myself, and it's definitely worth it.

Over the past year I've laughed and cried and been able to look at myself in the mirror and selfies and enjoy what I look like. I've felt more comfortable with my body, and worn outfits and accessories that I've been daydreaming about for over a decade. I've felt pretty, which was not something that I thought was possible.

If you're on the fence about transitioning, please know that it's enough to chase joy. If you think you'd be happier, that's enough. You don't have to have known since you were a toddler. You don't have to be so depressed that you can't bear another day as your AGAB. You don't have to "earn" or "deserve" to transition. It's enough to want it.

many people sharing the writing post today... hard to keep up with..... know my universal advice:

  • if it sucks you should still write it
  • if it'll be unfinished you should still write it
  • if you never share it you should still write it
  • if it's not a linear fiction adventure you should still write it
  • if you will have fun writing it you should write it :)

Poverty sucks bc what do you mean Lola just got 400 bucks but bc of hotel feels and no apartment half of it's gonna be gone. And she has to pay for her English proficiency test ($200 USD) AND find an apartment. But she can't do all this with the same 400 dollars, especially not since we don't know when an apartment is going to become available or even where.

I hope I'm not asking too much by asking for help to get her a new laptop so that she can get a new job online. A new laptop would run her about 300-500 dollars in Nigeria, depending on the brand. Is there a way we can get allies to finance this quickly so that she can get back to work and make money for herself?

No new donations yet ‼️‼️

Lola also needs $360 to pay off late hotel fees and afford the next two or three days!! Are there any allies who can help a trans woman stay off the streets?

This is how we face the cold and rain, and I don't know if our tent will withstand this severe storm. This is all we have now. This is our life. Please, my friends, we want to get our lives in order. We want to live like everyone else. I am very sad for my children, whose basic needs I cannot provide. Please, my friends, don't abandon us. Share our story and donate to us. Please.

vetted by @gazavetters, and (#287) on their list of verified campaigns.

Help A Disabled Black Trans couple survive the winter months?

(id in alt text; please stop tagging my dono posts as undescribed when i literally add an image description in alt text every time 😅)

back with a fresh post since its a new month; my wife and i are two visibly disabled and visibly trans folks living in TX that are unable to find or maintain consistent work or afford any of our living expenses. we also need help affording things like food and litter for our kitten Bijou (see above). my pay links are here, my wife's are here, and we also have a few shared support links and a registry.

please consider reblogging (without tags unless for accessibility reasons if possible!!) and donating what you can so my family and i can survive.

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we still need help with rent 😥 i am COMPLETELY OUT of Bijou's kibble, and am running scarily low on food to eat. $70 would cover a bag of kibble, some cat litter (which we desperately need) and some grocery staples we cant reliably get elsewhere. i have eaten a meal twice in the past several days and we cannot afford to keep dipping into rent funds so we can eat 😮‍💨

my corner store guy is a 50 year old man who's my best friend in the world and recently he was like "you're too pretty to be single I have some nephews you should meet. very handsome!" and I was like "a niece might be more up my alley" and he just got more excited and said "ah even better! I was overselling my nephews but my nieces are very beautiful"

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